r/RandomQuestion • u/uniquefreak1 • 2h ago
Girlfriend made a bit of a different purchase, am I overthinking?
Hello guys and girls,
Hope you’re all having a good Tuesday.
Before I start and ask this question, I want to make everyone fully aware that I know I’m probably reading too much into this and tbh this is more of a post to check if I’m going a lil crazy.
Me and my girlfriend have recently been trying to spice up our sex lives and explore new things. We’re M22 and F21 and have been together a few years now.
As part of this exploration, we have been trying out playing with toys. We were on the hunt for a new toy to add to the bedroom and realised we didn’t have a dildo. We were out shopping one day and stopped in Ann Summers (I don’t know if you have this in the US or what the equivalent is) and I got her some new PJ’s and some underwear and whilst we were in there we thought we’d check out the dildos they had. I thought it was best she chose it herself given that it is of course for her pleasure
After around 5 minutes of staring and comparing, she chooses one. The one she picks is described on the box as “9-inch wide girth black skin realistic dildo”. As her white, not 9 inch boyfriend, I did a bit of overthinking but don’t really know exactly what it is I’m even worried about. I paid for it and then we left.
We live separately and once I was alone that’s when I had the worried thoughts (once again idk what exactly it is I’m even worried about).
For those that are going to suggest I ask her why she chose it, I’m not doing that because I don’t want to put her off of being open with me due to a small moment of insecurity.
Is there a deeper reason she would’ve chosen that one specifically or is it all in my mind?
Looking forward to your help (and the inevitable jokes)