I am a supervisor at Starbucks I have been really cool with this girl that I work with and we even hung out once but this stopped one day when we had a really rough shift together it was in the morning on a Saturday and peak seemed to be starting soon, and the other supervisor that opened was really behind on the shipment from the morning because they had two call outs so I told him he can work on it until it feels like we are going to start peak. So he was in the back. It was already busy but we were handling it with only him off the floor however another coworker was marking themselves out and stepped off the floor. I was really confused because this now left us on a four part so I went in the back and asked and he said that he said earlier that she could go on her ten but that was before we agreed he would work what he could with putting the order away. When I was in the back asking, the girl was on bar by herself for a minute I came back and she was just stacking cups and abandoned her position. She said that she wasn’t going to be so a bar for peak so she’s just started being customer support. I told her that she wasn’t solar bar and I was here to help her. I just had to figure out what was happening on the floor and I was communicating this stir on the headset she said OK whatever and cut me off the stone in dismissal when I was trying to solve everything in this chaotic moment felt disrespectful to me so I told her whoever’s being disrespectful can get written up on the log. She felt very offputting by this and that was the start of the problems. Long story short she has a history of making a lot of comments and complaining all the time about customers and about the stressful environment and it does kind of give a negative filling because it’s tolerated by other supervisors.
What happened recently that we had another call out one day when I came out when I came around 3:30 PM so it was just her and one other supervisor on the floor he asked her where she wanted to be and she said bar and when I came on the floor, I was trying to help her on bar because she was so annoying and she told me not to help her because she had too many drinks on cold bar, and I took the hint that she would feel better. She had space so I went to restocking and running a customer support because the store needed it so we were trying to accommodate for her. It was done that other supervisor went to help her own bar because he was waiting on drinks and drive-through and she said something along the lines of “move out of the way I’m gonna kill you” and it turns out that he was also making comments to ragebait her playfully during this stressful moment but it didn’t sound to go from my perspective so I said “come on don’t talk to ____ like that we are all a team” in a way that was intentionally cheesy and she said “both of you guys shut up” in a tone that was a bit aggressive. Keep in mind I had a close store that day so when I came in and I sold the cards that we were were dealt, I didn’t seem good at all for me. I just barely started my shift so I knew that I had another seven hours of this and being told to show up like that and I’ve already stressful situation really didn’t sit right with me. Nobody I have in my family or my friends or anything talks to me that way so it’s not something that I’m used to tolerating so I told her “ I know that _____ may be fine with you talking to him that way, but I’m not fine with it. We could send you on your 10 you need to reset.”
I wanna completely disagree with you if you say that, I could’ve said this or approach a situation better but that was my best response in the moment because I was frustrated by her telling us to shut up as her supervisors or even just coworkers in the moment where we all don’t feel supported by the labor, and we all have a lot of pressure. She was really frustrated by this and shut down and soon after I sent her on 10 because we also still had to get the other supervisors lunch soon after we had one other person come in and they slid out the other supervisor at drive-through, so it was still only a three and it was just way too busy and Maecy because we didn’t have a running customer support so now I was solo bar to give her space in time to distress as much as possible, given the situation except she was just in the back cleaning the dishes when the situation did not at all call for this to be cleaned. We were low on ice. We are low cuffs is the front of house floor in general just needed to be attended to, but she was self isolating. She ended up being in the back crying with the other supervisor while they were on their lunch and said that what I said, upset her and that she wanted to go home and the other supervisor said that they were on their lunch and he didn’t even know if he can technically make that decision and that he also acts rationally when he’s upset to just hold off and wait until he comes back so the whole time he was gone, I was by myself on bar and there was at least 15 drinks and more people lining up at café other girl was just taking the café orders to because during this time, the other girl was off crying in the back it was pretty much unavailable to make matters worse. A whole quinceanera came in a party of at least 11. The other supervisor had came back from their lunch now, and the girl was still in the back doing dishes as soon as he started taking the orders. I asked her if she can get ice she ignored me and continue to do the dishes.. I have a feeling she toward me because she was overstimulated or and was to the point where she didn’t want to really participate in the shift anymore.
At the same time the other girl, but that was at drive-through had to go to the restroom and she ended up throwing up and had to go home so now it was just me and the other supervisor on the floor.
When the other supervisor was done, taking all the orders she told him she was gonna clock out and he said you’re off at six at this time it was about 420pm. She says she knows, but she can’t work anymore that she said that she was in the point at the point where she was crying in front of her boss (which was him) however it was interesting to me that she didn’t consider him a boss at the moment when she told him and me to shut up. So she left in the store was so under labor. And at a 2 man for at least another 3hours.
My intention was just a set boundaries about communication on the floor to your coworkers, especially if they’re supervisors. I had been a barista for two years before I was a shift and started as early as 17 and talking to my supervisors in that way, was something that I never would come close to doing so it’s something that has seen disrespectful to me. This was the second time she has done something similar to this and that’s why it was harder this time around to not feel disrespected. I understand that it was a top shift and it was unfair for her to be on solo bar during those 30 minutes, however we should still be mindful of how we communicate to our coworkers that are going through the same thing. I documented the situation because it was the second time that it happened and she did end up leaving her shift this time my manager intends to talk to me about the situation tomorrow, even though this happened two weeks ago because I haven’t had a shift that over lapped with hers or overall had the opportunity to do so. My manager told me that she already had the conversation with her, and it was actually a long conversation. It was just two days ago that we all three had a shift together and she seemed to be completely fine with my manager and even laughing with each other. This girl is not really receptive to feedback and gets rather angry easily. So it is hard for me to believe that my manager, held her accountable to a certain degree if this is how they were engaging with each other during the shift. This makes me feel discouraged for the conversation I am going to have with her tomorrow before my shift because I feel as though all im going to hear is how I make the partner feel “uncomfortable “ etc etc and it is going to be excuses for the behavior. My manager is not one that holds a strong standing on standards and is definitely the more “agreeable” type so I am disappointed at the thought that most likely my manager just agreed and comforted the girl about how she was feeling and did not set any boundaries about communication on the floor.
My question is: With the new time and attendance policy- shouldn’t there be any points given on the girls record for leaving her shift early by standard?
Honestly, despite how she felt in the situation, I don’t think it should go without any accountability specially, given the state the store was at the moment and how it was left for the remaining of my close. I would love some advice on how I should deliver this situation to my manager tomorrow on our 1 on 1 without getting emotional but rather with a point. Any comments are appreciated. Thank you.