r/AskRetail • u/Ill_Toe_842 • 11h ago
Shoplifting
I work part-time at a grocery store, and I’m curious what other people think about how this situation was handled.
I was working near the self-checkout when I noticed an individual who appeared to be under the influence of drugs. I then saw her shoplifting. Once I was sure of what I had seen, I immediately told the employee who was in charge of the checkout area.
She told me to find a manager, so I took a quick walk around the store looking for one. I couldn’t find anyone, so I returned to the checkout area and told her that I hadn’t been able to find a manager. By that point, the individual was already walking out of the store.
I went looking for my store manager again. While looking for him, I came across a department manager and explained everything that had happened. She went to the front of the store and then came back to speak with me.
She told me that I should have approached the individual and asked if she needed help as a way of discouraging her from shoplifting.
I explained that the individual appeared to be under the influence and that I didn’t feel comfortable approaching her because I had no idea how she might react. The manager responded that the individual probably wouldn’t have done anything to me and said that I still should have approached her.
I understand the idea behind approaching someone and simply asking, “Can I help you with anything?” But I’m a part-time employee, not Loss Prevention, and in this particular situation I genuinely felt uncomfortable approaching someone who appeared intoxicated or under the influence.
I reported what I saw, tried to find a manager when I was instructed to, and continued looking for management afterward. I just didn’t feel like potentially putting myself in an unsafe situation over stolen merchandise.
Was I in the wrong for not approaching her and how should I go about reporting her?