r/sex • u/OkTough6333 • 27d ago
I can't find a flair that fits What did my partner just do? NSFW
So yesterday me (M22) & my gf (F21) were having sex. usually when we do it, we routinely do it in the missionary position and i usually finish and she’s able to have a good time too, but yesterday something unusual happened. As I was thrusting, I was having difficulty finishing – which is not common, since I usually am able to finish with no problem; but yesterday it just wasn’t clicking for some reason and I was thrusting for like 10-15 minutes. Then as I was continuing thrusting, all of a sudden I feel an enormous heavy pressure on my penis – the feeling was so heavy that, it was as if my Penis was being squeezed from all sides. With this enormous pressure on me I was finally at last able to finish & it was one of the best feelings ever. I looked over at my gf and I asked her what the hell just happened? & she just laughed and said “magic”
I’m still confused on what happened even after a day just passed since. Because we've been doing missionary for so long and nothing like this has ever happened. What do you guys think?
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u/whirdin 27d ago
So, does she orgasm? Does she have to just masturbate to "feel good"? Your comment here sounds so flippant towards her pleasure, as if you aren't even aware of orgasms or mutual pleasure.
First time taking multiple minutes to cum? Lol. I know it's common for us guys to cum in just 5 minutes, but you act like 15 minutes is some long drawn out boring thing in danger of you not cumming. It sounds like she finally had sex for long enough that she was getting pleasure from it. I will pace myself specifically so I will last over 15 minutes (my wife prefers piv to be 15-20 minutes, many women prefer longer), also I spend time on foreplay so she is part way to orgasm before even starting piv.
You felt her clenching (voluntarily or not), and were then confused lol. Vaginas are magic, learn more about them.