What did my partner just do?

[u/OkTough6333]

So yesterday me (M22) & my gf (F21) were having sex. usually when we do it, we routinely do it in the missionary position and i usually finish and she’s able to have a good time too, but yesterday something unusual happened. As I was thrusting, I was having difficulty finishing – which is not common, since I usually am able to finish with no problem; but yesterday it just wasn’t clicking for some reason and I was thrusting for like 10-15 minutes. Then as I was continuing thrusting, all of a sudden I feel an enormous heavy pressure on my penis – the feeling was so heavy that, it was as if my Penis was being squeezed from all sides. With this enormous pressure on me I was finally at last able to finish & it was one of the best feelings ever. I looked over at my gf and I asked her what the hell just happened? & she just laughed and said “magic”

I’m still confused on what happened even after a day just passed since. Because we've been doing missionary for so long and nothing like this has ever happened. What do you guys think?

[u/whirdin]

we routinely do it in the missionary position and i usually finish and she's able to have a good time too

So, does she orgasm? Does she have to just masturbate to "feel good"? Your comment here sounds so flippant towards her pleasure, as if you aren't even aware of orgasms or mutual pleasure.

was having difficulty finishing... I was thrusting for like 10-15 minutes.

First time taking multiple minutes to cum? Lol. I know it's common for us guys to cum in just 5 minutes, but you act like 15 minutes is some long drawn out boring thing in danger of you not cumming. It sounds like she finally had sex for long enough that she was getting pleasure from it. I will pace myself specifically so I will last over 15 minutes (my wife prefers piv to be 15-20 minutes, many women prefer longer), also I spend time on foreplay so she is part way to orgasm before even starting piv.

You felt her clenching (voluntarily or not), and were then confused lol. Vaginas are magic, learn more about them.

[u/jbwilso1 → u/whirdin]

Especially since OP has neglected to respond to every instance of this question, I guarantee you that she does not.

However, thank you so much for being a man who advocates for a woman's orgasm. We truly appreciate it, and wish it happened more often.

[u/whirdin → u/jbwilso1]

Yeah, the silence says a lot. Seems like they were hoping for very different answers that didn't require any introspection. I just browsed through and only see one short response, among this plethora of people willing to give advice.

I'm happy to help! I know from talking to guys that it's not taken as seriously as it should be. Sometimes maliciously and/or selfishly, but sometimes just ignorant.

[u/urrglyy → u/whirdin]

As a woman i thank you for your amazing response!

[u/whirdin → u/urrglyy]

I'm so happy to help :)

I know sex education is lacking for all genders and orientations, but especially us guys tend to think sex starts and ends with our dick.

[u/urrglyy → u/whirdin]

That all couldn’t be more true!! I’m happy to see one man passing on info to another trying to educate :)