r/findareddit 7h ago

Unanswered Where should I post about a weird school therapy memory from the 90s?

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What subreddit should I post this in? I had a weird memory surface and was wondering if this was any kind of common therapy activity for school age children in the 1990s...

I was just drifting to sleep and felt a brief sensation that I was spinning, and with it this familiar awareness of becoming a better person. That doesn't make sense. It didn't make sense to me. I woke up fully and tried to remember why I felt that, and I remembered something I had not thought of in many years. I think I maybe was subjected to some kind of weird experimental therapy as a child.

In 1995 I entered third grade. When we started doing multiplication tables, I got really frustrated with these timed exercises and I screamed in class and threw my text book at the teacher. Not ideal behavior. They sent me to the principal first and then the school counselor.

If you had asked me yesterday what happened in Ms T's office, I would have said that I laid on a couch hugging a teddy bear and talked about my feelings. But now I'm remembering something else entirely.

She showed me a drop spindle and wool, and the wool was chaotic, and represented all these bad itchy, frustrated, no good feelings. It came apart when you pulled it because it was weak. And then she spun the spindle and made yarn, and the yarn was smoother and orderly and strong.

Then she told me to spin around in a circle, over and over again, and repeat phrases. Things like "I'll be respectful to my teacher and friends. I'll come to class prepared to learn." And I spun around and around until I was falling over. Then she let me lay down on the couch, and hug a teddy bear, and talk about how I was feeling after doing that.

Is this a therapy practice that actually existed in the 90s? Was it like hypnosis or something?


r/findareddit 1h ago

Unanswered I'm looking for a subreddit that is opposite of pet peeves one

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I overall need a subreddit that does the opposite of pet peeves. Or just place to share a silly thing I enjoy seeing that most people probably don't care about.


r/findareddit 6m ago

Unanswered What subreddit am I most likely to get upvotes?

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r/findareddit 12h ago

Unanswered What is the most popular subreddit for sharing and finding underrated music?

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r/findareddit 1h ago

Unanswered Is there a subreddit for showing or changing things on cloaths

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My new phone will be large but I hate the big lump so I want to make a new pocket somewhere harder to see is there a subreddit I could post this in


r/findareddit 1h ago

Unanswered I’m looking to find a place where to post an advert for my online fake country

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so recently I’ve been trying to form a sort of fake country where people can try and simulate the politics of the country and initially I did it between friends but it didn’t work out because of some problems, and now I’m looking to try and start while on discord, but I wouldn’t know where to post something like this on Reddit because I can’t find any subreddits to post this so I would be thankful if someone could find one.


r/findareddit 2h ago

Found! Where can I post a fun generational question?

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Hi everyone,
I just made my account yesterday, so I keep hitting restrictions.

I want to find a subreddit where I am allowed to post this question:
"If you are over 30, write something that Gen-Z would not understand."

Which communities would enjoy this topic and actually let a new account post it? Thanks!


r/findareddit 14h ago

Found! Parental advice subreddit for new user?

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Am new to reddit, think it's stupid that I have to build a fake online reputation to get some opinions, but I need to bounce something off other single parents. Anything like this available? I have 0 car-ma (deliberately spelled that way)


r/findareddit 8h ago

Unanswered Is there a subreddit for finding the names of styles of clothing?

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r/findareddit 18h ago

Unanswered Is there a subreddit for helping decipher short, muffled audio dialogue clips?

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I am creating English subtitles and need help transcribing a 5-second distorted dialogue clip from a 2000s TV show. Which subreddit allows posts asking native speakers to listen to short audio clips and decipher hard-to-hear speech?


r/findareddit 10h ago

Unanswered Any sub Reddit where I can make friends?

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r/findareddit 14h ago

Found! Is there a subreddit for DIY wearable projects like painting on fabric? Or just crafts in general?

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r/findareddit 14h ago

Unanswered What is a good subreddit for me to ask for judgement on this situtation im in?

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the situation:

"My sisters wedding happened when I was 10. My sister “Clara” (22/F at the time) was very specific with what she wanted for her wedding, not a bridezilla, but she had been through such tough times with her now husband that she wanted this one day to just be perfect. A few months before her wedding, Clara asked me to be her flower girl. I was literally jumping up and down saying yes because I LOVED the idea of throwing flowers everywhere lol. Clara asked me if I would want to wear a white dress for this, since she liked the idea of me looking like a mini her. I literally did not care about what I would be wearing so I said “sure”. My sister then took my measurements and bought me a large petticoat and a cupcake shaped sparkly white dress with flower decor. I was utterly in love with the dress when I saw it and the idea of being a flower girl literally became my number one dream. The wedding rolled around, I threw flowers across the aisle in a big white dress and Clara walked over the flowers in a big white dress. It was perfect.

I recently showed the photos of Clara’s wedding to one of my friends since she was interested in seeing what I looked like when I was younger. She flipped the freak out. She was acting like she was in some moral dilemma in whether or not to call me out on something. I told her to just spill it and she said that I was "horrible for upstaging my sister on her wedding day by wearing such a similar dress to hers" (our dresses were not similar in detail at all, they just both were big and white lol). I explained to my friend that I was a flower girl and that my sister picked the dress for me. She started arguing that maybe my sister was testing me or something?? I dont know, I was sort of tuning her out at that point.

So Reddit, AITA for wearing white to my sisters wedding? I will gladly answer any questions in the comments!"

I am completely willing to change parts of it to fit other subreddits!


r/findareddit 18h ago

Unanswered Need help finding a subreddit to reach for other people with a similar experience

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Basically, I need to ask about a summer camp I went to and if anyone remembers it as well as try to find the girl I was friends with during it.
The camp was horrible and I can’t find any real mentions of it traumatizing anyone anywhere.


r/findareddit 15h ago

Unanswered Je cherche à poster mes cartoons et avoir des avis et des followers. Quel meilleur moyen?

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r/findareddit 16h ago

Found! is here a subreddit to find an embroidery community?

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im an embroidery, textile artist from the UK


r/findareddit 23h ago

Found! any advise what subreddit to join where i can showcase my craft?

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im making crocheted bags with beads, and im looking for likeminded ppl


r/findareddit 2h ago

Found! Where can i ask this question about pregnancy?

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So a few days ago I (M24) masturbated in the bathroom and “finished” in the toilet and cleaned up after myself from what i saw on the seat and in the bowl -

Approximately 5 - 10 minutes after i came out the bathroom a woman went into the bathroom.

At first i didn’t think much of it but my anxiety caught up to me and the “what if thoughts” began.

“What if i missed a spot/blob and when wiping herself the toilet paper touched/scooped up the semen without her knowing and made her pregnant?”

I asked google, chat gpt , Claude - you name it and everything comes back to the same answer : “no”

But this has been eating me up for the last few days

And this is a woman where it would be extremely uncomfortable for me to ask her about ANYTHING regarding this (not a family member)

Is is possible for the woman to get pregnant?

Im not even sure if i missed a spot and/or if she even came into contact etc


r/findareddit 19h ago

Found! Looking to find info on an old video I saw

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Hey, I want to make a post asking about a semi disturbing video I saw a while back. I need help finding it and just for someone who has knowledge of what I saw to explain it to me. I don’t want to rewatch this old video just to know what it was.

I’m not sure if it belongs in r/tipofmytongue or on a subreddit better for more creepy stuff. Thanks for the help.

I can even post my story here if someone needs to know the exact details to find a subreddit that will help me, but it is a pretty long story.


r/findareddit 17h ago

Unanswered Lookin for a sub to post funny/cringe Reddit interactions

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Something not too strict, where you can post an interaction you saw or were a part of, for laughs. (Not anything toxic) Thanks for any suggestions


r/findareddit 11h ago

Unanswered Any subs where I can post a picture of a bag and Redditors can find a link to it?

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I'm trying to find a specific bag for someone and I only have one picture of it. Is there a subreddit where redditors could find what bag it is and see if I could buy it somewhere?


r/findareddit 18h ago

Found! I want to survey couples about the following: ‘How do you and your partner make meaningful time for each other?’

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My partner and I are exploring how couples create and protect time together, especially when routines, schedules, and other constraints make it difficult.

We’re interested in what genuinely helps make shared time feel intentional, easy to organize, varied, and mutually satisfying.

We created a short survey to learn from real experiences. If you’re open to sharing your perspective, you can participate here: https://tally.so/r/Y57KgJ

We’d also love to hear your thoughts in the comments: what makes it hardest to spend meaningful time together?


r/findareddit 12h ago

Found! Tem alguma sub de fotos de video game, game pictures?

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r/findareddit 13h ago

Found! Subreddit where people draw something you ask

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I want to see something I'm envisioning drawn. But I dont want to use AI, I want actually humans. Is there any subreddit for this ?


r/findareddit 17h ago

Unanswered best subs for internship/career prep?

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thank you!