r/BettermentBookClub Nov 18 '20

Rules and Info (Updated)

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Welcome to The Betterment Book Club!

This is the place to discuss self-improvement type books with like-minded people. The goal is to increase our discipline and self-worth, by understanding ourselves better.

How It Works

We want to read YOUR summaries, thoughts and questions on books you have read. Here are the basic rules:

  • Use bullet points, be concise and respectful
  • No clickbait in title, be descriptive
  • No referral links or advertising
  • If you post/quote a text written by someone else, please state the source.

'Self-help' literature is often critisized for repetitiveness, parroting platitudes and being too general to apply to anything specific. To combat this, focus on actionable advice found in the books and share your experience with applying such methods or mindsets to your life.

You are allowed to include links to your blog, youtube video, etc. However, you may not link directly to a sales page, such as Amazon. If you are promoting your own content, or even your own book, do it in the nicest way possible, by providing value to others and contributing to the discussion. Don't just drop a link on us.

Want to discuss a book you have read? Feel free to use this book summary template:

**Book title/author/year:**  
**Summary:** (Topics? Practical advice the book recommends? Chapter-by-chapter summary?)  
**Review:** (Did you follow advice from the book? Criticism or praise for the author?)  
**Rating:** (Was it worth reading?)  
**Recommendation:** (Who should read this book?)  
**Question:** (What is there to discuss? What would you ask others who have read this book?)

r/BettermentBookClub 2h ago

Good new book, A useful reminder for anyone trying to sell, recruit or hire better

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r/BettermentBookClub 7h ago

Book recommendations for starting a new hobby / comfort time

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Hi guys, I'm new to the world of reading. I'm just starting out, so I don't know any genre I like or what I love to read. I'm starting as a clean slate so I can explore any genre without a preconceived perspective and observe myself to understand where I lean more. Can you help me out and suggest a few to start with?

As of now I've decided to start with 1984 by George Orwell (the reason is so weird — I was scrolling Blinkit and found this book there, so now I'm starting with it).


r/BettermentBookClub 16h ago

How to read a book?

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I have started reading books few month back and feels like I am going nowhere else like after reading a books 40/50 pages I feel like I am doing nothing and not getting any valuable knowledge from that book. I have tried with some famous best sellers books but after some time feel board at reading that book. Is this normal or am i doing something wrong ?


r/BettermentBookClub 23h ago

Suggest me books which make you feel good and life changing

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Same as title.


r/BettermentBookClub 17h ago

Recommendation

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Any romance book recommendations??!!!


r/BettermentBookClub 1d ago

What are some good books on managing life/emotions with Adhd and autism? Is there any chance people with mild effects can train themselves up to a calibre of normal person?

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r/BettermentBookClub 1d ago

Book to gain confidence

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Hello I’m (22M) someone who feels like they lack a lot of confidence, happiness, time management, knowledge and ability to hold down a proper conversation and make friends. I’m also trying to get in the habit of reading since I haven’t properly opened a book since high school. I’m currently reading 1984 since I missed out on choosing it in my philosophy class in high school but better late than never right? Anyways any book on self improvement in general or the specifics I mentioned would mean the world to me

(Also I know how it influence friends is a popular choice so I am currently reading but in the case that it doesn’t help I would like alternatives)
Thank you ❤️


r/BettermentBookClub 1d ago

Books recommendations to help our struggles as fathers

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Mom of my daughter recently left me. She brought my baby. Im left alone.


r/BettermentBookClub 1d ago

I wrote a self help book, its a "spiritual parable"

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In 2011, I went through some turmoil that really put me in a bad place. I was in my late 20s, I was making low $ at an oppressive job doing phone work, had a traumatic breakup, i was suffering with mental health and didnt know what to do. I started reading alot of spiritual books online, and the whole idea of karma got in my head.

Do good things, and good things will happen to you. (Simplified by sassy, iykyk)

So I wrote, tried to change myself, battle my demons and when I came out the other end, I had an unfinished book saved to my Gmail, i had lost 80lbs, healthier from keto and had alot of confidence. I let it sit there, and found love, got a house, had kids. A friend had said he published a book through Amazon's kdp. I dusted it off, finished it, and put it up. Figure someone would take a read and help themselves.

Its a story about a teen coming to a crossroads, where a Wiseman sat, and asked which path lead to the perfect life, and it continues throughout his whole life, revisiting and talking to the Wiseman, and its just following some basic thoughts to better yourself.

Is it the best book written? Nah. Its the best one written by me, at least. Will it help? It helped me. It may hit someone the same way it did me, thats all I can hope.

"Upanishad: the book of the long road". Link to amazon in dm, I suppose. Or search for it.


r/BettermentBookClub 2d ago

Kitab tövsiyyəsi

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Salam mən pisxologiya,manipulasiya və beden dili haqqında sizlərdən gözəl kitablar tövsiyyə etmeyinizi istəyirəm qaraqanın 1,2,3 addımlarını bitirmişem ve ordakı mövzularıda çox beyendim açığı heç kitab oxuyan deylem ancaq insan pixsologiyası ve insan quruluşuna aid olan birşey görende ister istemez maraq yaranır tövsiyyələrinizi gözləyirəm🙏❤️


r/BettermentBookClub 2d ago

Suggest me a novel

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Suggest a novel that boosts your energy and optimism and motivates you to be more positive and productive.


r/BettermentBookClub 2d ago

Necesito ayuda algún libro para combatir la depresión

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Tengo tiempo lidiando con una fuerte depresión que me impide seguir viviendo de manera "normal" he perdido mi trabajo y mi esposa está en una crisis por situaciones en su trabajo y conmigo.

me ha comentado en varias ocasiones que quiere suicidars3.

Yo sinceramente quiero salir adelante pero no veo por dónde empezar me siento fatal, como inmóvil

Algún buen libro que me ayude un poco para saber por dónde empezar


r/BettermentBookClub 2d ago

I'm a 21 year old looking for guidance in life. Looking for a book to help me understand the world and navigate this period.

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I feel like I've just gotten over the first hill of the Dunning-Kruger effect and I'm realizing how little I understand and I find the fact I may barely ever scratch the surface of understanding very dreary.

I suppose I would love for older folk to recommend some books that helped them through similar times. It could be self-help books, memoirs, fiction, philosophy books, psychology books, I've never been a huge reader, so I feel like I have years to catch up on.

Also, if anyone has any favorite musician memoirs or autobiographies, I would be interested in those too.

I sure hope I wasn't too broad here. Thank you!


r/BettermentBookClub 2d ago

Staying into reading.

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r/BettermentBookClub 2d ago

Book recommendation for general knowledge

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I want to read a book for getting some general knowledge of life which every teen guy should know. Like when I sit with my friends they used to know everything for any topic you can choose I also wanted to be that guy how can I be like that.

Does atomic habbits helps me for that ? If not then which book


r/BettermentBookClub 2d ago

Top book recommendations for building a strong business mindset & practical execution steps?

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r/BettermentBookClub 4d ago

Best self development books

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I just finished dopamine detox by Thibaut Meurisse really helped me can anyone suggest books that will actually impact our lives


r/BettermentBookClub 4d ago

First time reading books which one should I start with?

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I’m a complete beginner when it comes to reading books, and these are the books I currently have:

Atomic Habits
The Psychology of Money
Deep Work
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck
Think and Grow Rich

Which one would you recommend I read first, and are these actually worth reading?
Also, one thing I struggle with is what to do after finishing a self-improvement book. I understand the ideas while reading, but how do you actually apply those lessons to your daily life instead of just reading them and forgetting about them?

what would each of these books actually teach me?

Would love to hear how you guys approach this, especially from people who read regularly


r/BettermentBookClub 4d ago

Book Review

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r/BettermentBookClub 5d ago

¿Que leo?

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Hacia unos días había puesto un texto donde explicaba que me sentí algo monótono sin hacer nada por qué mi rutina se estaba repitiendo demasiado mi rutina pero bueno tengo como tal que decir la primera

Primero logre como que ver algo interesante ya después de un año que me encontré así pero ahora tengo el ojo en mi lista de metas antes de terminar el año

Bueno no la encuentro ahora, pero decía algo de que debía hacer más común mi lectura

Así que oigo sugerencias de libros que consideren interesantes y tal vez les de una hojeada

Y la segunda es que yo hago videos hablando sobre deliberados temas como llevo algo de tiempo sin hacer eso

¿Que tema les parecería interesante a investigación?


r/BettermentBookClub 5d ago

Book suggestions for someone small minded

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r/BettermentBookClub 5d ago

books on dark psychology and manipulation

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books on dark psychology and manipulation...


r/BettermentBookClub 5d ago

Book to learn telekinesis any sugessiona

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r/BettermentBookClub 6d ago

Rereading one book five times beats reading fifty new ones

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I used to brag about my reading list. Forty five books last year. Then a friend asked me what I actually did differently because of any of them, and I sat there for a solid minute with nothing.

That's when I switched to rereading. I picked three books I already owned and went through each one four or five times over a year instead of chasing new titles. Same amount of reading time, completely different result. Here's what nobody tells you about self improvement books. The first read is basically just meeting the ideas, you nod along, highlight a few lines, feel motivated for about a week.

It's the third or fourth pass where you notice what you skipped, what you misunderstood, what you read but never actually applied. The book doesn't change. You do. That's what surfaces the second and third time through. The reading list flex culture on this sub, and everywhere else honestly, rewards volume over depth.

Fifty books read once each looks impressive on a shelfie. Five books read ten times each looks like nothing. But I'd bet the second person retained and applied ten times more. I'm not saying stop reading new stuff, I still do, but if a book actually hit you the first time through, go back to it before you grab something new and see what you missed.

What's the one book you'd actually reread on purpose, not just recommend to other people?