r/sex • u/OkTough6333 • 27d ago

I can't find a flair that fits What did my partner just do? NSFW

So yesterday me (M22) & my gf (F21) were having sex. usually when we do it, we routinely do it in the missionary position and i usually finish and she’s able to have a good time too, but yesterday something unusual happened. As I was thrusting, I was having difficulty finishing – which is not common, since I usually am able to finish with no problem; but yesterday it just wasn’t clicking for some reason and I was thrusting for like 10-15 minutes. Then as I was continuing thrusting, all of a sudden I feel an enormous heavy pressure on my penis – the feeling was so heavy that, it was as if my Penis was being squeezed from all sides. With this enormous pressure on me I was finally at last able to finish & it was one of the best feelings ever. I looked over at my gf and I asked her what the hell just happened? & she just laughed and said “magic”

I’m still confused on what happened even after a day just passed since. Because we've been doing missionary for so long and nothing like this has ever happened. What do you guys think?

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u/Unl3a5h3r 27d ago

Kegel training is good for everyone. Better orgasms, better pee holding, better regeneration after birth, better sex.

And it can be done discreetly all the time. Bored at a meeting: Kegel training. Bored in public transport: Kegel training. Bored in front of the TV: Kegel training. Bored on a long drive: Kegel training. (I think everyone gets it now.)

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u/implication-sofa 27d ago

It can be harmful for those with already overtoned pelvic floors! Sometimes reverse kegels are actually a better option

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u/RareEarthMagnets 26d ago

Can confirm. Apparently it’s possible to prevent yourself from getting orgasms by overtoning your pelvic floor, causing your kegels to never fully relax. I have a therapeutic wand now to stretch my vaginal muscles while doing deep breathing exercises and trying to force my muscles to relax. T_T One day I’ll get to experience an orgasm…

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u/implication-sofa 26d ago

I’m right there with you 🙃 actually was cured through pelvic floor therapy and wand use but relapsed recently due to stress so back to the wand I go 🥲

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u/RareEarthMagnets 25d ago

Thank you for giving me hope that the exercises will help! I need to be better about doing them and using the wand, and being a pessimist about it definitely doesn’t help. XD