r/photography • u/RenaeAnsley • 10h ago
Art Covered a baby shower for free, the girl doesn’t like a single photo.
I covered a baby shower for a family friend for free and I feel humiliated and embarrassed now. The girl the shower was for was an hour late after I arrived 30 minutes early to make sure I had my life together. I took photos the whole time. Even did some more maternity style shots in the greenery outside. I also took my camera back out as I was trying to leave because she said she needed a few more with people. I got the photos home and I was so excited about them. They were worlds better than the baby shower photos I had done only a year or so ago, and I was ecstatic at how good these turned out. I worked really hard, only for her not to like a single one.
I turned in a gallery of 80 carefully chosen and edited photos that I felt told the story of the event. She politely thanked me and asked me for the rest of the files unedited, then had her sister ask if she could sit down with me and choose the ones I edit. There’s no way I’m editing another photo for them because it took so much time and energy. I’m just wondering, do I send them the rest of the photos?
I’m already embarrassed that they were disappointed. Obviously the unedited ones don’t reflect what I actually want my finished work to look like. I worry she will edit them herself with an instagram filter and tag me, and that won’t be my authentic work. I’m kind of annoyed that they’re nitpicking me to death for something I did for free. I’m not an absolute pro but I’m 2 years in. I guess I’m just seeking helpful advice. I don’t want to keep her memories from her but I also feel like I already went above and beyond.