r/cats 2h ago

Cat Picture - OC my boy and girl, which do you think is which...

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u/Grand_Pick_8277 2h ago

The one on the right looks like a proper lady, and the left looks more like a boy. It's the face shapes for me

u/MissMushroomBerry 2h ago

The face shapes for sure!

u/Remarkable_Concern20 1h ago

yes and the eyes

u/ksccc09 1h ago

you would be correct and I lovee to hear you say that lol, she is a proper little lady 🥹

u/Grand_Pick_8277 2h ago

My husband agrees but his is based on chonk level.

u/garyisonion 1h ago

seconded

u/Swimming-Maize-5554 2h ago

The kitty on the left looks larger, and based on my sibling pair, I think the one on the left is the male. I love the fact that their nose have opposite markings. Like mirror images.

u/ksccc09 2h ago

Awww omg thank you !!

u/FluffyAmyNL 2h ago

Boy left girl right

u/PowerfulGuide8073 2h ago

Boy left, Girl right. They just have that look about them. So adorable

u/AbilityAdventurous22 2h ago

Left boy right girl

u/Greenlee19 2h ago

My guess is boy on left girl right

u/RealisticCarrot 1h ago

Boy left, girl right

Had a male, female sibling pair when growing up and the face shapes looked like this. The male a bit more edgy and the female a bit rounder.

u/Biduletrait 2h ago

Boy on the left, girl on the right :)

u/ScaleFast1316 1h ago

left is a distinguished gentleman and right is the pretty lady

u/ksccc09 1h ago

omg thank you that is exactly how I see them 😭🥹

u/ScaleFast1316 1h ago

i also love their twinning nose prints!

u/ksccc09 1h ago

awhh thank you!!

u/atreyu85 2h ago

Yeah im going to guess left is male, right is female

u/GJAOH685 1h ago

Boy left, girl right

u/Funny05 2h ago

Right lady, left boy. Must be. My intuition never failed me 😭

u/ksccc09 1h ago

indeeed u are correct

u/CaptainDistinct2828 1h ago

No orher way around

u/CommuniKait 1h ago

Boy is left

u/theajplayer123 1h ago

Boy left, Girl right

u/Grace-v- 2h ago

The one on the right must be a little girl kitty.

u/_Qyqb_ 2h ago

Boy right
Girl left
I love them and their matching nose marks!

u/ksccc09 2h ago

ahh thank you I love their little noses too!!🥹

u/ImissMYslinky 13m ago

I love how you thank the people who called it wrong for the compliments. You are a cool person.

u/StriversMachineryCo 2h ago

The one with round face is the boy

u/FreddieThePebble 2h ago

im gonna guess the right one is the girl

u/Illustrious_Park3 1h ago

Left looks like a little prince, right a queen!

u/Dear-Ad-9504 1h ago

The fatty is the male. Bone structure. Females have softer features. Can’t deny they are prettier

u/WhyWorldWhhy 1h ago

Male on the left female on the right. Head shape is what I’m basing my answer on.

u/Foggyswamp74 1h ago

Boy left, girl right

u/doegrey 1h ago

Boy left, girl right.

Going off their faces.

u/BryanTheGodGamer 1h ago

Anyone with knowledge about cats can tell the female is on the right and the male on the left, it's pretty obvious

u/The_Windermere 2h ago edited 1h ago

Based on my cats sibling pair, I say the boy is on the right since the loaf looks larger. The smaller loaf of the right would be the sister. But the picture is cropped so I might be wrong. My boy like to spread out while the sister loafs when they are next to each other.
So in that sense the boy is on the right and lady on the left.

u/itailu 1h ago

Left is the boy

u/Tincel_cat 1h ago

I’d guess male on the left and female on the right. Purely bc I’ve mostly had girls and the one on the right looks more similar to them in shape.

u/Altruistic_Bus1988 1h ago

The one on the right looks like a little princess so I’m convinced the one on the right is the girl and the one on the left is the boy

u/Broken_Woman20 1h ago

Left boy, right girl.

u/Next-Reflection-4684 1h ago

I think the right one is the little girl she has a smaller rounder face and your little boy is the left one 😎

u/BearyGear 1h ago

Girl is on the left.

u/5p4c3c4t5 1h ago

How can they be so mirrored, so cute! 😻

u/ksccc09 1h ago

i literally think this all of the time lol, thank you so muchh!!🥹😊

u/MeowImPebbles 1h ago

Left boy, right girl

u/MechanicLoose2634 1h ago

Girl left, boy right

u/blakjesus420 1h ago

It must be boy on the left, from this angle at least looks like a broader face. Quite similiar looking pair though

u/Famous_Dust7912 1h ago

I was guessing female on the right

u/luf100 1h ago

Aaw they’re like mirror images, are they siblings? I think the left is the boy and right is the girl. ☺️

u/ksccc09 1h ago

yess, they are from the same litter :) they got left in a box outside my brothers and i's bedroom window one night when i was little, and of coursee we had to keep them lol

^ from when they were smaller :))

u/Pondnymph 1h ago

Cat nose proportions make it pretty obvious, left one is a boy.

u/MaleficentPlate8172 1h ago

Left girl right boy 😻 

u/Greedy_Attitude_8103 56m ago

Left one is definitely a boy and the right one is definitely a girl. Boy cats their heads are usually a bit bigger than girls and girl cat heads are usually smaller. Also cat eyes are usually a give away because girl cats have that ‘cat eye’ look to them while boys have a more rounder eye and less of that ‘cat eye’ look. (Cat eye meaning a more slimmer eye than rounded.)

u/Eyespidey7 51m ago

Boy left, girl right

u/Visible_Cause3429 47m ago

They look so similar...

u/cyankitten 40m ago

Outstretched paw kitty - lady. Next to her, gent.

It's the face shapes and expressions.

Am I right?

u/ksccc09 2h ago

I'll tell which is which later!! im just soo curious as to what other people think because to me i feel like it's obvious lol, but idk

u/ksccc09 2h ago

this is entertaining me so much lol I'm so surprised with all the different answers 😭

u/WinnFrankDaisyBuells 1h ago

I want an update which is which. I’m invested now and I’m afraid I won’t be able to find this post again! 😂

Also, they are both such cuties!

u/ksccc09 1h ago

lol okayyy left is boy and right is girl!!! 😂🥹🥹

u/Aqua_Vitae_ 1h ago

Knew it 💙🩷

u/WinnFrankDaisyBuells 1h ago

Thank you! 💗 That was quick! That was my guess! I’m glad I was correct because it seemed obvious to me.

u/ksccc09 1h ago

Of course! :) Im glad it seemed obvious to you lol. I've always been so curious because when we first got them I thought my boy was the girl, but now that I've had them for so long it seems soo obvious 😂

u/Altruistic_Bus1988 1h ago

That was fun! Now I want to post my cats lol. I have 4 girls and 1 boy so I’m curious how many could pick out the boy from my Kittos 😋

u/ksccc09 1h ago

I'm glad you guys were as entertained as I was lol, post your babiesss!! I wanna try and pick the boy out 🥹🥹🥹

u/EmploymentNo3590 2h ago

I see two cats. They don't even know their gender.

u/ksccc09 2h ago

oh trusssst me my little girl knows she's a girl- she's the queen of the house😜lol

u/Iconic_Charge 1h ago

Well, I’m sure they know that one is male one is female. In human language, that’s what we usually mean when we say boy/girl, so that’s what OP meant 😊

u/snausyboss 1h ago

Gender as we understand it is applicable to humans and humans alone. We cannot impose our species’ cultural concepts on other species. They very well may have their own cultural concepts of identity that are completely foreign to us as humans. But whether cats do or don’t have their own species-specific version of gender identity, the human one cannot be imposed on them.
When we speak of girl/boy/female/male in other species, we are strictly speaking sex, not gender.

u/ThatOneGuy_I 1h ago

Not really I think just in their case their gender instantly aligns with their sex as they have no concept outside of that.

u/snausyboss 1h ago

That is your belief. That is not what we’ve empirically shown or have the ability to empirically show with any amount of cognitive certainty in behavioral, neurological, or reproductive science. Humans can only understand things through our species’ interpretive lenses. This is the case for literally all species. As humans, we will never know what the inner identity worlds are of other species—not unless we somehow bridge the communication gap in some way that doesn’t require the filter of human language. The only thing we can say is that it’s possible/not impossible that other species have something akin to human gender identity. To write non-human species-specific cultural concepts off is A) foolish science, and B) a disservice to the other species in question.
I would seriously question any of my colleagues’ methodologies if I saw them make overtly subjective human-filtered declarations in their behavioral interpretations. Those types of things are what get papers sent back for flawed discussion methodology revision.

OP’s use of boy/girl and their presumed intentions using the terms are 100% perfectly fine. The issue here is the comment using human social concepts of gender on non-human individuals when it’s implied that the boy/girl terms used here are referring to sex.

TL/DR; human concepts of gender identity are not applicable to cats.

u/Jelly_Round 2h ago

i would say male is the right one. it's the pose lol

u/gothitbyacaronce 2h ago

They is both boy and girl is not

u/tunefullcobra 2h ago

Boy right, girl left. From my personal experience girls tend to loaf more.

u/Hot-Course8914 2h ago

I think the boy is on the right - it's the stretched out paw. They are anazing and such a sweet pair!

u/-disgruntledpenguin- 2h ago

Boy right, girl left 🐱

u/Intelligent-Let7825 2h ago

What a lovely asimmetry.....

u/ksccc09 2h ago

thank youu!! :)

u/2Throwscrewsatit 1h ago

They eschew gender labels.

u/Efficient_Tear8142 1h ago

Boy right, I'm choosing this as our boy cat also does this signature move of one outstretched paw

u/Snoo-77997 1h ago

Right girl, left boy

Also, they are so cute with their mirror nose marking!!

u/ksccc09 1h ago

awwww thank you so much!! and you are correct lol :))

u/g0vang0 1h ago

Lady on the left, gent on the right. Love that they are mirror of each other❤️

u/CJ_Productions 1h ago

Girl left, boy right. Face shape is a giveaway to me. Her face is narrower, his is puffier. Her posture is more relaxed and reserved, his is more stretched out and active. I suppose I could be wrong but I’d bet money I’m right. Not a lot of money… like $5 lol. 

u/oxlolalovexo 1h ago

So cute!!!

u/ksccc09 1h ago

thank youuu!!

u/polymath112 57m ago

is there a mirror somewhere

u/ksccc09 43m ago

😂😭

u/quillfoy 45m ago

That is so easy to tell lol left is the boy and right the girl 😂

u/gooderz21 28m ago

All cats are girls so both

u/AeonsSeen 17m ago

Boy on the left, girl on the right. As easy to see as with humans :P

u/BetterReflection1044 2h ago

Boy on the right

u/cantstayawaydont 2h ago

Right is boy, left is girl?

u/Kelsey_foxx 2h ago

Girl on the left.