What y’all’s thoughts

“Am I bisexual🤔🤔”

*Blatant, graphic sex details not marked as NSFW*

“I’m scared my bisexual partner will leave me for the other gender”

*Asking for hookups*

*Tries to use Reddit as a dating app*

*Forgets this subreddit is for all ages*

Blah blah.

Gays have "Brokeback Mountain", Lesbians have "But I'm a Cheerleader", and trans people have "Trans America". But what movie do bisexuals have? What movies were made specifically for bisexuals?

Don’t speculate about real people here, just characters!!

Yes, my pick for this is James Bond. If y’all have seen the scene the picture comes from you’ll understand 😭🙏 honestly Skyfall is such a bi movie it’s simply fact

For me, it's ppl breaking up with a long-time partner when the latter comes out as trans. I truly cannot comprehend how the gender can affect the love you have for that person.

Like, I realised I was pansexual mostly because of this: when I saw this breakup trope in multiple films (around 16 I think) and it made me terribly confused.

I can understand it a bit if it's a new relationship / just in the early dating phase.

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EDIT: if you're curious about the percentages on this topic, i made a poll divided by sexuality

I wore a bi pride pin today, and my husband immediately asked if I was trying to tell him I had a secret girlfriend.

We’ve been married for nearly 17 years and have two children together. I had a girlfriend before I met him, and he knew I was bisexual when we first started dating, but over the years it seems that part of me has faded into the background.

The irony is that I have spent years keeping this part of myself quiet. I’m happily married, but being bisexual didn’t stop when I got married. I still know who I’m attracted to, just as a straight person doesn’t stop finding other people attractive when they marry. Attraction isn’t the same thing as wanting to be with someone else.

Maybe he meant it as a joke, but hearing his first assumption be “Do you have a secret girlfriend?” reminded me why I’ve found it so difficult to be open about my sexuality. That stereotype—that bisexual people are secretly looking for someone else or are more likely to cheat—is one I’ve carried for years, and hearing it from someone I love was unexpectedly painful.

Has anyone else had seemingly harmless comments bring those feelings back?

i stumbled across this video on Instagram, and i was curious about y'alls thoughts. the creator claims that this video was made to uplift and include the bi community, but in it, she claims that bi people can be "straight culture", and so can certain lesbians. i just can't wrap my mind around how a queer person can be considered "straight cultured" when it's a culture they simply don't belong to. i personally think it's harmful to label any queer person "straight cultured," especially coming from a creator with 323k followers. what do you guys think?

The pink is a merge of both pinks and really wanted to add a state seal kind of vibe rather than just stripes and who is a better representation of bi-pan unity than Frog & Toad???

Anyone out there had a similar experience??

After being in relationships with women/nb ppl for about 7 years (im a cis woman) I fell for a cis straight dude. The whole thing took me by a REAL surprise, I never thought it would happen again (dated guys in my early 20’s till I realized I was queer).

I love him dearly, we have a beautiful partnership and he’s incredibly kind. But he comes from a very hetero/centrist/upper class culture and so I’m often intimately confronted with the patriarchy specifically in social situations.

Ex: so many of his friends and people who don’t even know us that well, treat him like an absolute GOD almost instantly because he’s nice, does sports and loves to cook. They are constantly singing his praises telling me how lucky I am, and while I fully agree with them, it feels super weird because NO one was talking about my exes like this. People loved them as they were truly wonderful people, but putting a guy on a pedestal like this feels so icky/patriarchal.

It’s hard to explain, it’s like their foaming at the mouth for this archetype who is enough ticking boxes to put him near the top of all our biggest power structures - instead of just appreciating and loving him as a the special human he is.

For me, I (21 M) was around 14 and very oblivious when my older brother came out as bi. He was 21 and we have always been best friends. He took me to dinner, just to tell me, and when he came out it was simply something natural to me.

He said: "Do you have any questions? And I: "No, that's alright. I love you exactly the same and I'm proud of you"

Then, I added: "To be honest, I understand it must be hard to choose between boobs and six-packs..."

LMAO. Now I think of it and go: "Oh honey...". Tell me your stories!!!

My bisexual icon is Billie Joe Armstrong. Truly one of the kindest type of people to ever exist.

😏😏😏

Christmas ham or Christmas turkey fam???

I’ll start : James and Chelsea from Dead Meat

I am sure this question has been asked a million times, but I am going to ask it again. I am someone who identifies as bisexual and pansexual, I personally have not made the distinguish within myself, so I am curious how others feel?

Mine happened when I was 16. My hair tie broke and I was messing with my hair trying to tie it up. My very pretty classmate gave me her hair tie. While doing so she tilted my chin up and said "but you look so much prettier with your hair down".

It hit me, I was definitely not straight.

I did not tie my hair up

As a cis woman who’s been with a lot of people and genders, I firmly believe that sucking dick is WAY harder than eating someone out. I get tired faster. Whenever a cis man complains that eating pussy is tough on his mouth, I can’t help but roll my eyes.

I figured I would ask my people, who love everyone and everything, what they think.

Disclaimer, I love doing both and I understand that it’s probably different from one person to another, and that all bodies are different. That said, I’m still curious to hear yall out!