r/TopsAndBottoms 22h ago

Tops who claim they can fuck for an hour or so without cumming, how does that work? Do you take breaks or keep fucking and what does it do to the bottom? Do you get tired or bored? NSFW

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r/TopsAndBottoms 23h ago

Tops: kinkier things you’ve ever done with a bottom? NSFW

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What are some of the kinkier things y’all have done?

have you ever locked your bottom in chastity? or made them sniff your pits? or made them drink your piss? what are some of the other things you’ve done?


r/TopsAndBottoms 15h ago

Not all bottoms like to be humiliated NSFW

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Just not my type of kink I suppose. I’m into tops who spoils me as a lover and won’t try to make me their subs and humiliate me like I’m a worthless person. Tops should know that bottoms have the power to make them feel good and feel loved and can make a top cum hard too.

I love big, strong and hung tops who are passionate lovers. Do they exist in this sub?


r/TopsAndBottoms 13h ago

Any recurring general thoughts about sex that always turn you on? NSFW

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A thought that never fails to get you hot.


r/TopsAndBottoms 20h ago

About to swallow cum NSFW

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Im on my way to meet with a guy that wants me to sick him and want finish down my throat what’s the best advice to swallow? Quick taste it or just keep his dick until he dumps


r/TopsAndBottoms 10h ago

What is the appeal of caging your cock? NSFW

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Question is in the title.


r/TopsAndBottoms 15h ago

How often do you have group sex? NSFW

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r/TopsAndBottoms 8h ago

Total bottoms that don’t like to cum during sex, when and how do you like to cum? NSFW

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r/TopsAndBottoms 13h ago

Best Outfit For Tops Into Sissies/Fems NSFW

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Hello!

For Tops: What is the hottest/sexiest outfit a bottom sissy/fem has worn for you in terms of clothes, accessories, makeup, etc.?

For Bottom Fems/Sissies: What is your favorite outfit you have worn for a top?


r/TopsAndBottoms 11h ago

Are there bottoms who just always ignore their dicks? NSFW

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And I'm not talking just during sex, but all the time, in day to day basis.

Because me and my boyfriend are starting to experiment with this; basically i bring it to the table and we both like it.

If someone is into this, how was at the begging? How did you get used to ignore yourself when alone? How much it took?

All those kind of questions answered will be appreciated.

Thank you!


r/TopsAndBottoms 12h ago

Filming ? NSFW

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I want to shoot a video but only for my own viewing and enjoyment. How do I ask my tops to film them fucking me?


r/TopsAndBottoms 18h ago

Advice on becoming a Power Bottom NSFW

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I read about the Horse Market parties and the Lodge parties in New York City. But how does anyone become a power bottom. I get no pleasure trying to take a well hung man, but many men one after the other is a big attraction for me. I was told a while ago, that I just need to get topped by many men and a variety of men of all sizes and shapes. So what would you advise to attain my goal of power bottom or "Pig Bottom", or is there a difference in Bottoms?


r/TopsAndBottoms 17h ago

Any tips for top with premature ejaculation? NSFW

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I'm currently mainly bottom. But I don't have sex quite often because I actually would like to top. But I'm struggling with some premature ejaculation (I'm talking about seconds). Anyone with some (un)usefull advice?


r/TopsAndBottoms 8h ago

Tops, do you like your bottom to relax as you go in and squeeze as you pulling as you're pumping hi ass NSFW

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r/TopsAndBottoms 15h ago

How rare are twink dom tops? NSFW

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r/TopsAndBottoms 18h ago

Total bottoms, are there any situations you enjoy a little power rehearsal? NSFW

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I consider myself a total bottom. I literally get off on the idea of a man using me for his pleasure with little no reciprocation at all, but I have found that there’s been two instances that I really enjoyed a little shift. they honestly don’t happen very often.

The first one, when you know, it’s literally been weeks for him and the underwear slides down, and he is throbbing hard. Bobbing, His balls are swollen and full. probably even a little tender.
You start sucking and licking his balls and the rest of him knowing that it doesn’t matter how nice of a guy he is , in just a few moments he’s gonna call you a slut or something similar. He’s gonna make a growl that sounds like an animal and start coming.
I’m gonna hold on like a leech and keep doing exactly what I’m doing trying to drain ever drop till he literally pushes my ass away and gives me that half crazy look

The second one has happened a couple of times, he’s leaned back on the couch and I’m riding him and I know a lot of people don’t consider this very submissive anyway, but he will start to really get into it and start thrusting up so I will grab the back of the couch and start to bounce on him meeting him hard with a defiant look on my face. This never fails to get me on all fours in the floor him holding my ass pounding the hell out of me.

I really don’t consider this me taking power away from my top at all, but I guess some people do


r/TopsAndBottoms 4h ago

M34 top NSFW

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Let’s have some fun!


r/TopsAndBottoms 16h ago

Sex Playlist for Bottom / Vers / Top Hype NSFW

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Not everyone enjoys music while having sex, but even if you do not have it on during the activity, I feel like it does help get in the mood before while planning / fantasizing about it.

I compiled a 17-song playlist (youtube link below), about ~1h long, no searching was done for specific songs, they were just part of my top songs playlist that I have been compiling/hearing for years and evoked different feelings, which I have attributed to different sex roles below for fun, but really its just all great music to get everyone's blood flowing! Enjoy and make sure to post your own preferences below ❤️

Pre-Sex Preliminaries:

Relax - Sultry, Dark, Moody Vocal Synthpop by Megan McDuffee

Bottom:

Vanic x K.Flay - Make Me Fade

Goddess (Official Audio) - Megan McDuffee x Nathan Kidd

CTH - Something

Lightning - Megan McDuffee & Nathan Kidd

Scandroid - "Dark Tide" (feat. Megan McDuffee)

Vers:

Anevo & Laura Brehm - Universe

Bim - Stay In My Memory

Oh Wonder - Technicolour Beat

Seraphine, The Starry-Eyed Songstress | Champion Theme (ft. Jasmine Clarke)

Porter Robinson & Madeon - Shelter (Nolan van Lith Flip)

Top:

Arknights EP - [Renegade]

Kannibal Kitty - Mewgenics Official Lyric Video

Take Over (ft. Jeremy McKinnon (A Day To Remember), MAX, Henry)

Your Idol

Unlike Pluto - Everything Black (ft. Mike Taylor)

Post-Sex Relaxation:

Transistor Original Soundtrack - Paper Boats

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYR7Hmd0teh0


r/TopsAndBottoms 5h ago

Vorbereitung auf größeren Dildo NSFW

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Hallo zusammen, ich bin 19, Bottom und habe bisher eher mit kleineren Toys Erfahrung. Jetzt würde ich gerne etwas Größeres ausprobieren und das möglichst sicher und angenehm machen.

Deshalb meine Fragen an euch: Wie bereitet man sich am besten auf eine größere Dimension vor und welche Techniken oder Vorstufen haben euch geholfen?
Wie benutzt man eine Analdusche richtig und schonend, worauf sollte man bei Wassermenge, Temperatur und Häufigkeit achten?
Danke für eure Tipps und Erfahrungen!