Let’s have some fun!

Hallo zusammen, ich bin 19, Bottom und habe bisher eher mit kleineren Toys Erfahrung. Jetzt würde ich gerne etwas Größeres ausprobieren und das möglichst sicher und angenehm machen.

Deshalb meine Fragen an euch: Wie bereitet man sich am besten auf eine größere Dimension vor und welche Techniken oder Vorstufen haben euch geholfen?
Wie benutzt man eine Analdusche richtig und schonend, worauf sollte man bei Wassermenge, Temperatur und Häufigkeit achten?
Danke für eure Tipps und Erfahrungen!

Question is in the title.

And I'm not talking just during sex, but all the time, in day to day basis.

Because me and my boyfriend are starting to experiment with this; basically i bring it to the table and we both like it.

If someone is into this, how was at the begging? How did you get used to ignore yourself when alone? How much it took?

All those kind of questions answered will be appreciated.

Thank you!

I want to shoot a video but only for my own viewing and enjoyment. How do I ask my tops to film them fucking me?

Hello!

For Tops: What is the hottest/sexiest outfit a bottom sissy/fem has worn for you in terms of clothes, accessories, makeup, etc.?

For Bottom Fems/Sissies: What is your favorite outfit you have worn for a top?

A thought that never fails to get you hot.

Just not my type of kink I suppose. I’m into tops who spoils me as a lover and won’t try to make me their subs and humiliate me like I’m a worthless person. Tops should know that bottoms have the power to make them feel good and feel loved and can make a top cum hard too.

I love big, strong and hung tops who are passionate lovers. Do they exist in this sub?

Not everyone enjoys music while having sex, but even if you do not have it on during the activity, I feel like it does help get in the mood before while planning / fantasizing about it.

I compiled a 17-song playlist (youtube link below), about ~1h long, no searching was done for specific songs, they were just part of my top songs playlist that I have been compiling/hearing for years and evoked different feelings, which I have attributed to different sex roles below for fun, but really its just all great music to get everyone's blood flowing! Enjoy and make sure to post your own preferences below ❤️

Pre-Sex Preliminaries:

Relax - Sultry, Dark, Moody Vocal Synthpop by Megan McDuffee

Bottom:

Vanic x K.Flay - Make Me Fade

Goddess (Official Audio) - Megan McDuffee x Nathan Kidd

CTH - Something

Lightning - Megan McDuffee & Nathan Kidd

Scandroid - "Dark Tide" (feat. Megan McDuffee)

Vers:

Anevo & Laura Brehm - Universe

Bim - Stay In My Memory

Oh Wonder - Technicolour Beat

Seraphine, The Starry-Eyed Songstress | Champion Theme (ft. Jasmine Clarke)

Porter Robinson & Madeon - Shelter (Nolan van Lith Flip)

Top:

Arknights EP - [Renegade]

Kannibal Kitty - Mewgenics Official Lyric Video

Take Over (ft. Jeremy McKinnon (A Day To Remember), MAX, Henry)

Your Idol

Unlike Pluto - Everything Black (ft. Mike Taylor)

Post-Sex Relaxation:

Transistor Original Soundtrack - Paper Boats

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYR7Hmd0teh0

I'm currently mainly bottom. But I don't have sex quite often because I actually would like to top. But I'm struggling with some premature ejaculation (I'm talking about seconds). Anyone with some (un)usefull advice?

I read about the Horse Market parties and the Lodge parties in New York City. But how does anyone become a power bottom. I get no pleasure trying to take a well hung man, but many men one after the other is a big attraction for me. I was told a while ago, that I just need to get topped by many men and a variety of men of all sizes and shapes. So what would you advise to attain my goal of power bottom or "Pig Bottom", or is there a difference in Bottoms?

I consider myself a total bottom. I literally get off on the idea of a man using me for his pleasure with little no reciprocation at all, but I have found that there’s been two instances that I really enjoyed a little shift. they honestly don’t happen very often.

The first one, when you know, it’s literally been weeks for him and the underwear slides down, and he is throbbing hard. Bobbing, His balls are swollen and full. probably even a little tender.
You start sucking and licking his balls and the rest of him knowing that it doesn’t matter how nice of a guy he is , in just a few moments he’s gonna call you a slut or something similar. He’s gonna make a growl that sounds like an animal and start coming.
I’m gonna hold on like a leech and keep doing exactly what I’m doing trying to drain ever drop till he literally pushes my ass away and gives me that half crazy look

The second one has happened a couple of times, he’s leaned back on the couch and I’m riding him and I know a lot of people don’t consider this very submissive anyway, but he will start to really get into it and start thrusting up so I will grab the back of the couch and start to bounce on him meeting him hard with a defiant look on my face. This never fails to get me on all fours in the floor him holding my ass pounding the hell out of me.

I really don’t consider this me taking power away from my top at all, but I guess some people do

Im on my way to meet with a guy that wants me to sick him and want finish down my throat what’s the best advice to swallow? Quick taste it or just keep his dick until he dumps

What are some of the kinkier things y’all have done?

have you ever locked your bottom in chastity? or made them sniff your pits? or made them drink your piss? what are some of the other things you’ve done?

We'll be kinda switching,so both of us gotta learn to be on the two ends,so

I suppose we'll get tested,but firstly we'll js do it with condoms.

Most of all I need to know what lubricant/s to use,so I'll.be very thankfull for suggestions and a bit of an explanation,but keep it simple.I knoe most people in this sub ask about this,but I want to be perfectly sure so as not to cause any of us harm or inconvenience.

Also,things to know during sex.Like,if we should avoid something that could cause harm or smth

What aftercare is absolutely necessary also lingers on my mind

Something the top should know

Smth the bottom should know

I know a lot of tops enjoy bottoms wearing panties and a whole lot of them are turned off by it.
My question is… for those who don’t like seeing their partners in women’s underwear - how do you feel about bottoms wearing thongs??
Thongs are actually male underwear so I’m just curious :)

I’m a straight guy. Attracted to women, date women, have only ever been with women. That’s not in question for me.

But for a long time now I’ve had this recurring fantasy of getting fucked. Not “maybe someday I’ll experiment.” More like… I keep coming back to the thought of being bent over, held down, and taken. The idea of a cock inside me, the stretch, the loss of control, someone using me like that. It hits hard.

The problem is the shame that comes with it is almost as strong as the turn-on. I feel like I’m betraying something about myself just by wanting it. Like I’m supposed to be the one doing the fucking, not the one taking it. Every time the fantasy gets intense, that wave of “what the fuck is wrong with me” crashes in… and somehow that only makes me harder. The self-disgust and the arousal are tangled up so tightly I can’t separate them anymore.

I’ve never acted on it. Never even come close. Part of me is terrified of actually doing it because I’m not sure I could handle how it would feel afterward. Another part of me is terrified that if I ever did, I’d like it too much. And then the shame would get even louder.

I don’t know if this is just a kink that stays in my head forever or something I eventually need to face. Right now I just feel stuck between wanting it badly and feeling like I shouldn’t want it at all.

Anyone else been in this exact headspace? Straight (or mostly straight) guys who get off on the idea of bottoming but the guilt/shame is half the turn-on? How do you deal with it without just spiraling?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Quiero consejos experiencias va ser mi primera ves como pasivo

I stay completely smooth pretty much everywhere. I shave like every 2-3 days or so. I just like having the twinky and slightly feminine look. I just don’t like having body hair. I feel sexier and more comfortable smooth. In a way I feel it kind of boosts my twinky vibe. I wouldn’t class myself as a femboy either. I dress masc mostly. With like a twinky edge sometimes if you get me. Do you prefer smooth bottoms or prefer the more traditional masc hairy type. Interested in getting peoples opinions on this

Are there any moments that you’ve experienced that stand out in terms of intimacy? For me (top into bottom fems), one of the hottest was when a cute sissy was on her knees blowing me and we held hands with fingers interlocked. It was incredibly sexy. Would love to hear any of yours!