Tops is it a turn on for you if your bottom is smaller than you in body and in equipment?? I’m lucky I’m a grower not a show in the first place and I usually don’t get super hard during being used, but I also wear a cage a lot

I stay completely smooth pretty much everywhere. I shave like every 2-3 days or so. I just like having the twinky and slightly feminine look. I just don’t like having body hair. I feel sexier and more comfortable smooth. In a way I feel it kind of boosts my twinky vibe. I wouldn’t class myself as a femboy either. I dress masc mostly. With like a twinky edge sometimes if you get me. Do you prefer smooth bottoms or prefer the more traditional masc hairy type. Interested in getting peoples opinions on this

Hey yall! First time posting on this sub so forgive me if I format or post incorrectly.

In like 99% of my sexual encounters, I’ve taken the bottom role, which I love, don’t get me wrong. I do, however, get very interested in the idea of topping other guys, but I get a little nervous around if I’d perform well in the moment.

Are there any tips you guys could provide for how to get over that anxiety, or even some techniques you use while topping? Anything is appreciated!

There seems to be some controversy surrounding this word and I don't expect everyone to feel the same way. But personally I identify with this word. First let me say that all self identified faggots are human beings and deserve no harm to come to us. We are what we are and its ok for us to be what we are.

I am a believer in a sexual hierarchy. I do believe that some amab people were born to be dominate and to command sexual submission from other amab people. I also believe that some of us were born to be weak to this domination and naturally crave submission to those stronger and more deserving. I happen to believe that it is simply nature and we cannot change it.

I tried to fight nature for many years. I tried to be macho and masculine and to have sex with women and pretend to be something I was not. I occasionally would allow my shield to be penetrated and get on my knees for a man or bend over for him. I thoroughly enjoyed it but was ashamed at the time and scared to death what others might think.

About 8 years ago my whole world changed. I was so unhappy not being genuine and my life was miserable hiding my true nature. I had to look in the mirror at myself and stop denying the truth. I am a faggot and thats all there is to it. I always had been and always will be. There is nothing I can do to change it and all I was doing by hiding it was making myself miserable.

I finally stopped denying it and came out as a proud faggot in line with my nature. I am at my happiest when I am able to be open and honest about it. I am at my happiest in the presence of my sexual bullies that are much stronger than me and realized it was ok to fail at manhood and to be weak. We can only deny nature for so long before the truth finally comes out. It is better to bring it out ourselves with our own narrative.

Some are the predators and some are the prey. I'm not talking about anything non consenting here I am simply saying that some are strong and pursue those that are weak and will submit to them without hesitation because they like to and enjoy it. I am the prey and I am most comfortable in the presence of my pursuers.

When a man pursues my sexual submission my mouth starts watering and my sissy pussy starts twitching profusely. I no longer fight it or resist I simply hit my knees in surrender and do as I'm told. He gets what he needs and I get what I need. If its a group the its the same thing. Sexual bullies are what I crave and I am proud of my submission.

I know others might feel differently but if you're a faggot like me I want to let you know it's ok to give in and it's ok to be one. It's just who we are and it's a part of nature itself. Don't ever be ashamed of yourself for who or what you are. You are still human and you are still beautiful. There is nothing wrong with you so enjoy your existence as your true self.

I am a faggot and I am at peace with myself. It is a relief to admit that and live accordingly.

I’m just wondering because it’s seems like a very widespread phenomenon to hookup with people. How does one overcome this? Or is it perennial?

I had sex last time but it was really weird. During and after sex my body felt like there is something strange inside me. It doesnt hurt or ache at all but it feels like tingling or my body feels like electrocuted in low voltage lol. My whole body is so sensitive, its like poking/pulsing feeling inside, and i had to curl to ease the weird feeling for half the day. My body cant calm down during that time.

Is that normal? I stopped doing anal sex after that because i got scared. I only do anal sex like once in a blue moon when the guy/girl is nice. Sorry about my english.

I went as a bottom my first time. Ask me anything.
For anyone not familiar - read the official website, just google it.
The gist is: you participate as a top (stallion) or bottom (mare). If you’re a bottom, you enter the space, get blindfolded, and you are being fucked for 2+ hours by a bunch of stallions. You can not reject.

How should it sit and why?

Options:

1. on the waist where if the top rises up, it is clear i am wearing a thong/string even without the need to bend forward
2. on the hips and just above the top so it peeks out but may only be obvious when bending over
3. at the same level as the pants so it only peeks out when bending over
4. way below the pants so it never peeks out

Quiero consejos experiencias va ser mi primera ves como pasivo

This is more of a vent because I don't have a lot of places to talk about this. Long post.

TLDR: My long-term boyfriend started to fuck me and I have complex feelings about it.

My boyfriend and I recently started to switch roles. I used to be top only and he bottom only (except for fisting with others, there he's vers bottom, I of course don't get fisted), like for literally decades or in my case because I'm younger almost a decade. We've been together for 4.5 years now, so we also had our set roles with previous partners. It's also sort of part of your identity I guess.

Anyway, the reasons why we started to switch are: We discovered that I'm clean just like that. For fingering basically always, for getting fucked we got lucky the first three times and the fourth time was scheduled for the first time so I douched, which took 5 minutes (would have been done in 1 minute but I wanted to make sure). He on the other hand is never clean just like that, not even for fingering. As we're both not into getting dirty, I'm not allowed to touch him unless he's prepared, which kills any spontaneous play.

Another reason is that when he does clean out, he also wants to get fisted. It hasn't happened too often that we only fucked. He's into big toys and fisting, so we can't do that too often. We used to do it once a week but he also started to abuse some substances that I don't approve of and we both don't want him to use anymore, maybe once or twice a year but not doing it at all seems safer. It's been hard for him to want to bottom and get into the right headspace without the harder stuff, and he's competitive against himself so he gets off on doing extreme things which are hard/impossible to pull off with (semi) legal things, at least after trying harder stuff.

So after a long time of only having oral sex (which is also sex of course! But it's not the same), we started to explore the other option: me being the bottom.

I've bottomed in my youth a few times but never got into it and after I topped for the first time, I never went back basically. I know the mechanics of it and everything worked out pretty well so far, but I'm a beginner of course. Not interested in ever getting fisted, especially because he's got very large hands. We've fisted others together and he only gets his full fist in if I got both of mine in. So no, him fisting me is not on my to do list.

The switch also makes another practical sense because he's a bear, much larger than me, and I'm flexible and atheltic, so I can get into more positions and I was never able to just grab him and get him into a different position because he weighs twice as much as me, he always had to cooperate. Which makes being dominant harder in bed, I mean I'm more of a service top anyway but still.

He used to never be able to top because even though he doesn't have any issues getting an erection, when it was time to enter a hole it would get soft. So he thought he was a total bottom. With me after a long time of just doing outside stuff (him rubbing the head of his dick on my hole), he was able to stay hard for penetration as well.

I heard it was pretty common in relationships to at least explore the other constellation or flip, but it's still a huge deal for us. I personally am not really ashamed of bottoming I don't think, I was proud that I was able to pull it off so well thus far. When he's not horny, he keeps saying he's not a top but like, he initiated the whole thing and it was his idea. And when he's horny he loves to play with my hole. When it comes to sex, I still need to do most of the work but it's fine.

There's a lot of upsides as well. We're able to have sex a lot more often now and even spontaneously without getting dirty, which of course is a huge plus. Our libido went up a lot and I actually have a small list of things that I want to do. Like I'm almost 30 and I haven't done a few basic sexual things because I exclusively topped, there I did basically everything there is to do and for bottoming I'm like a few steps above a virgin.

It's changed the relationship dynamics a bit but I think things are starting to normalize. That he topped me got into his head outside of the bedroom at first.

We haven't flip fucked yet, which I'd really love to do, but he hasn't wanted to bottom lately. The first time we switched roles was two weeks ago though and one week we were on vacation with no means to douche. He also overdid it with his fingering once so I needed a break for a week. He inserted four fingers at some point with just spit and cum as lube, it didn't hurt at the time at all but we didn't leave it alone and then it hurt. Four fingers of his are like almost my fist, to put things in perspective. But it doesn't seem like he wants to flip fuck anytime soon, which is rubbing me the wrong way because like, yeah I can bottom if it means we can have sex more often, but not topping at all is not really my cup of tea.

Anyway, a few questions. The spontaneous sessions were a lot hotter so far and I got a glimpse of what bottoming is supposed to feel like, but only briefly. The scheduled session took longer and I was sure that I was clean so more relaxed, but I guess he wasn't as into it because I initiated it (and he likes to control things...). The scheduled session wasn't as good, it felt like bottoming always used to feel like, a chore. I'm willing to try more often now though. How long does it take for it to click? And how long until you get more stamina? We fucked for quite some time that one time but even a finger hurt after and I needed two days until it didn't.

Anyone else have a similar story? Anyone want to talk about it... It's a big deal for me to also bottom for some reason, but I can't talk to people I know because they also know him and you don't do that.

I'm 29 (almost 30) and he's 44.

I’m a full bottom and I have experience but I’m just curious I seen a video recently where a top was telling their bottom to “push like you’re pushing out baby” what does that feel like for the top? Is it just a dom thing? video

Im afraid of becoming more muscular and lean with lifting weights i want to be soft and jiggly what can i do to achieve this

I’ve always considered myself very straight, but recently I bought a dildo out of curiosity and started experimenting with anal and prostate stimulation.

I was absolutely not prepared for the difference.

Orgasms from normal penile stimulation feel amazing, obviously, but when I get the angle and intensity just right with the dildo, the orgasm feels like it is on an entirely different level.

My whole body starts shaking uncontrollably, literally from my toes all the way up through my body. It almost feels like waves of electricity are moving through me.

There is also this incredibly intense pleasure that feels like it is happening throughout my whole body and even in my head, rather than being concentrated around my penis.

It usually lasts maybe 10 to 20 seconds, and during it I basically lose control of my body.

Compared with a regular orgasm, it honestly feels absurdly more intense.

For guys who bottom or regularly use toys, is this similar to what a prostate orgasm feels like for you?

Do you also get the full-body shaking and electric feeling?

I’m especially curious whether this is pretty normal once you figure out the right angle, or whether people experience prostate stimulation very differently.

I’d love to hear about other guys’ experiences.

I feel it gets loose when you have sex every day o more than once per day. I want to stay tight for him.

And what’s your best experience being a dom?

I don’t show my face for privacy and don’t have extra lighting or equipment — just wanting practical advice on poses, posture, body language and simple ways to tease that work well for a body like mine. Any tips appreciated!

Help a fellow bottom.

For me it started around the time I was 23 years old and bi-curious. I was pretty well experienced with dildos and buttplugs up until that point, but a growing desire to experience a real cock was something I couldn’t get out of my head. So naturally I started chatting with guys on Grindr and began hooking up every other day or so. Eventually I would come across a guy that had an enormous cock that would change my preferences forever. His dick had to be like 10” and as thick as my wrist and man did I feel every bit of that girth and length. At first it really HURT but he was a very patient and passionate guy so he made sure to ease it into me gradually and with lots of kisses. It wasn’t too long before I was cock-drunk and begging him to go balls deep in me. I still miss that guy sometimes.

But what about for you guys? What made you a size queen?

Hii everybody, i'm 22, anal virgin and a sub (i've been an online sub to a master earlier), but this sunday i'm finally getting my seal broken to a person double my age. i want to please him (even tho he promised to go slow and take care of my) but i wanna reciprocate it by being a good boy.

the is into humiliating and stuff like that. and i'm okay with it. would appreciate any tips or ideas i can do to please him.

and my fellow bottoms would love some tips from y'all as well. thanks :)

Yo nunca he sido el pasivo creo que me va a tocar y no twngo ni idea como serlo porque soy activo

When im hooking up with someone I like to wear an anal plug when im on the way to meet them.

Most guys are surprised when i tell them/ show them im wearing one.

So i started wondering what are some other toys i can bring with me to a hookup. Does not matter if i start wearing them before we meet or not. Also there might be some toys i could enjoy with my top together, any suggestions?

Was just kind of wondering whether it’s more common for a gay guy to have their first time with someone they already knew or a hookup

I'm a top and I hear there's fewer of us to go around but I'm still having a really hard time making hookups happen. How are you tops finding all these sexy bottom boys? Bottoms where you meeting them?

Trying to see if I should be doing anything differently.