r/CPTSD Dec 30 '25

Question Boundary Setting Phrases/Responses to Subtle Digs

Give me your favorite boundary setting phrases in response to subtle digs. Digs that aren’t hugely overtly offensive, but given history with a person, you know they are being passive aggressive. Often, these subtle digs that are handed out by people with whom you are forced to have interaction with, so “just cutting them out of your life” isn’t always an option. Please give me your favorite responses!

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u/Miserable-Wedding731 Dec 30 '25

"Small things amuse small minds..."

"It takes one to know one."

"There is always a reason WHY."

u/ShadeofEchoes Dec 30 '25

"To each their own."

Though if my wit were quicker, I'd all too quickly offer a more scathing rejoinder.