r/Bumble • u/Warm_Swan_793 • 15h ago

Rant Just wanted to show a different side to things

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I’m a woman who reaches out and I don’t get responses either. It goes both ways fellas. It’s not just y’all, it happens to us too.

Edit: The assumption that I must be ugly or I’m aiming too high out of my league is a reflection on how many of you are broken on the inside and should take some time to find some healing. Your projection & insecurity is not my truth.

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u/Itacira 14h ago

So sad to learn this about Canada, though I suppose it depends on where you live. Funnily enough, I know multiple guys who went to work in Quebec and came back having gone through a speedrun of feminism 101. One is a friend of mine who even approached me after he came back to apologize for the way he used to be a bit dismissive of my feminist concerns back when we were students. Hah !

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u/StrbJun79 14h ago

Oh Canada has its douches. We just have an image of being progressive but we have our MAGA type crowd here as well.

But yeah even I as a guy won’t date a woman if she says she’s not a feminist. I 100% agree it’s important. But even here we have plenty that aren’t or are anti feminism. The stereotype of Canada is just that. A stereotype. :) but our racists and bigots used to be polite in their racism and fit that stereotype. Just is weird that they’re not anymore as they’ve gone MAGA-like and don’t mind being aggressive. But like I said at least it makes it easier in dating on who to avoid.

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u/Firm-Force-9036 11h ago

Can confirm. Worked for a Canadian veterinarian (in a town just over the border) and that lady was perpetually gargling trumps balls it was so weird. She was certifiable.

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u/StrbJun79 11h ago

It’s sad. Especially when Trump has made our countries into enemies when we were close friends before 😢 I hope we can build back the alliance one day but won’t happen with Trump at the helm. I cannot date any maple MAGA respectfully when I see them as traitors to my country. Sadly my city is full of them.

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u/jasminehead 4h ago

I assume you live in a smaller town in Canada? Because Toronto and Vancouver are extremely liberal