r/xxfitness 3d ago

Shopping and Style [WEEKLY THREAD] Shopping and Style Saturday/Sunday - Gym clothes, gadgets, shoes, makeup, hair, skincare, and sales!

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Your place to talk about anything fitness shopping and style. Whether you want to ask where to buy the best gym leggings or most supportive sports bra, which shoes or belt to get for your favorite activities, the latest on headsets and sports watches, how many times you should wash your hair when you're working out lots, how to deal with body odor, any skincare questions, or how to stop your makeup running when you sweat through a spin class. This thread can include photos of you in your favorite fitness outfits, or requests to find the perfect app, playlist, or fitness technology so you can kill your workouts.

We also allow sharing promotion codes and sales for fitness-related stuff, keeping in mind that our rules on self-promotion and affiliate links still apply.


r/xxfitness 1h ago

Talk It Out Tuesday [WEEKLY THREAD] Talk It Out Tuesday - Advice and commiserating about struggles with self, others, and the world

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The place for all of your fitness based interpersonal advice (is someone being creepy at the gym? Is your family telling you you’re getting too muscular? Do you want to date your personal trainer?), but also the place to talk about motivation, self-esteem and body image, and all the ways fitness affects your life. This thread is for those in need of (and willing to lend) a sympathetic ear.

Want to ask how mothers juggle family and fitness? How to structure Intermittent Fasting? When to work out when you do night shift? How to deal with being the only person in your friend group who works out? If you're feeling emotional, want to up your mental game, or need ideas for how to juggle everything on your plate, this is the place for you!


r/xxfitness 1h ago

Please help me with my workout routine.

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Hello,

I am 26, 5 feet 7 inches tall, and weigh 76 kg, and I want to lose weight and gain muscle.

My problems are

  1. My fat/weight concentrates mostly on my upper back, upper arms, and thighs.

  2. I am a medical student and have spent the majority of my life hunched over a table. So, I have bad posture and back pain

  3. My arms are flabby, and I have no upper body strength.

  4. So are my abdomen and back.

My goals are

  1. To lose some weight

  2. To get toned arms, back and legs.

  3. I like my thick thighs, so I don't want to reduce them but get more definition and strength.

  4. My ultimate goal is to gain strength; aesthetics is also a part of it.

The gym I have access to has

  1. A leg press machine

  2. A cable row machine

  3. A treadmill

  4. A bicycle

  5. A leg extension machine.

  6. A large variety of dumbbells

  7. A stepper.

However, they don't have a trainer. I am going to the gym 6 days a week. Please help me with a 6-day-a-week workout routine.


r/xxfitness 3h ago

Looking for Step or Dance Workouts/Programs

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Heya,

Me 42 yo female and mother 69 yo female. Looking for some step or dance workouts that either I (alone), her or both of us can do together. Trying to improve our physical fitness in a fun way. In terms of health; mother has no health issues except nasty bunions and a not so flexible hip. Me, my hips are super flexible - rest not so much + have flat feet. Cardio-wise; we're okay-ish. Not terrible - trying to improve our overall fitness - cardio, strength, flexibility - anything is better than nothing.

Step/Dance Workout:

1-Preferably Free

2-EASY to follow. Example we just started Christina Dorner's Step Dance on Youtube. EASY to follow! Only (small) issue is; videos not in order but they are listed under categories of difficulty. Why is that an issue? You may do video 6 (because of order) when the moves were taught in video 2. Yet STILL easy to follow. On the other hand tried 375 Dance Studio Easy video on youtube and could not follow it

3- Progression/step wise videos - easy, medium, intermediate etc etc

4- This may seem silly but... where they teach you the moves while you do the lesson. To elaborate (mostly in strictly dance videos); they do separate 2 min videos showing you moves, then BOOM a 15-30 follow along video where they throw it all at you - I feel lost

5-Fun?

Appreciate any recommendations for programs. Thanks!


r/xxfitness 4h ago

27F, returning after a 4-month break — is my 3-day full-body routine balanced?

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Hi everyone! I’m 27F and getting back into strength training after a 4-month break. I want to follow a 3-day full-body routine for body recomposition.

I’d appreciate honest feedback on the exercise selection, weekly volume, balance, recovery, and progression. I’m not trying to maximize strength; my goal is to build muscle, improve strength, and gradually reduce body fat.

Tuesday – Squat + Horizontal

Barbell back squat — 3×6–8

Incline DB bench press — 3×8–10

Seated cable row — 3×8–10

Lying leg curl — 2–3×10–12

DB lateral raise — 2–3×12–15

Incline DB curl — 2–3×10–12

Cable crunch — 2–3×12–15

Standing calf raise — 3×10–12

Thursday – Hinge + Vertical

Romanian deadlift — 3×6–8

Neutral-grip lat pulldown — 3×8–10

Seated DB overhead press — 3×8–10

Reverse lunges — 2–3×8–10/leg

Cable face pulls — 3×12–15

Overhead rope triceps extension — 2–3×10–12

Swiss-ball rollout/ab roller — 2–3×8–12

Calf raises — 3×12–15

Saturday – Glute + Unilateral

Barbell hip thrust — 3×8–10

Single-arm DB row — 3×8–10/side

Flat DB bench press — 3×8–10

DB Romanian deadlift — 2–3×10–12

Cable lateral raise — 2–3×12–15

Hammer curls + cable triceps pushdowns — 2–3×10–12 each

Pallof press — 2–3×10–12/side

Seated calf raise — 3×12–15

I plan to start with 2 sets per exercise for the first 2 weeks and then gradually build toward the volume above.

For progression, I’m planning to use double progression: stay within the rep range, and increase the weight once I can reach the top of the range with good form and still have ~1–2 reps left.

There’s also some family context: my parents are both 45+ and are also returning to strength training after about a 4-month break. I’m considering having them follow a similar 3-day full-body structure, although I assume their exercise selection and starting volume may need to be different.

I’m also particularly interested in recovery. We would all be training on Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, so there is at least one rest day between sessions. I want to know whether that spacing and the proposed volume are enough for adequate recovery after a 4-month break, both for me and for adults 45+.

Questions:

Is this too much volume for someone returning after 4 months?

Is the exercise selection balanced across the week?

Is having RDLs on Thursday and Saturday unnecessarily redundant?

Would you change or remove anything?

Is 3×6–8 / 3×8–10 appropriate for the main lifts?

Is Tuesday/Thursday/Saturday enough recovery between sessions for someone returning after 4 months?

Would recovery requirements or recommended volume be meaningfully different for adults 45+ returning after the same 4-month break?

Are there any signs I should watch for that indicate the volume is too high or recovery is insufficient?

Looking for genuine criticism rather than reassurance. Thanks!


r/xxfitness 19h ago

frequency of weight lifting

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Hello! Looking for some advice. I run 10-20km a week (broken up across 3 runs, a 5k on Monday, 5k on Thursday and a slow 5-10 on the weekend) and do 20-45 minutes of pilates or yoga daily. I am hoping to incorporate some dumbell work. I sporadically do a weighted leg or upper body workout 1-2 times a fortnight but would like to incorporate this into my weekly schedule. Would it be enough for me to do 1 leg workout and 1 upper body workout per week?

When I do legs or arms I typically do 3 sets of 12 of 3 exercises. For legs I'm currently using a 10kg weight (except for BSS- I do those unweighted because I can't do them otherwise :'( ) and for arms I'm using a pair of 5-7kg dumbbells depending on the exercise.

I am 29, 164cm and 56kg- looking to build more muscle (most importantly a juicy bum!!!) and overall strength. I think I have a good base of fitness and strength but I currently work in a caring profession where we face pretty frequent incidents of aggression towards staff. I've had some pretty significant musculoskeletal and soft tissue injuries over the past couple of years. I have been fortunate enough to recover well from them but I am worried about them coming back to bite me in the future. I am hopeful that building some more muscle would potentially prevent me from a longterm injury.

Open to any and all advice! Thankyou


r/xxfitness 16h ago

Daily Thread 7 September 2026

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r/xxfitness 1d ago

Having realistic goals

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Yesterday I was hanging out with a group of friends and had an interesting train of thought while we were discussing topics such as Hyrox and marathon running. For context, my partner and I do strength training and I run, but we have never run a marathon OR done Hyrox. This led to strong suggestions that “we should DEFINITELY want to do those things and WILL want to do those things eventually!”.

I think it’s great that so many people are getting into fitness and finding different forms of exercise that they enjoy. That being said, I think we forget that sometimes people just want to have the simple goal of moving their body and feeling strong/good. I know that they didn’t mean any harm with these suggestions, but I think it’s important for people to be cognizant of the impacts these statements have sometimes. Sometimes I walk away from those conversations feeling like I’m not doing enough. This is actually why I’ve taken a very casual approach to running; I tend to be someone who pushes myself too hard so I wanted to develop a habit that I could work on casually and at my own discretion.

Just curious to hear thoughts or if anyone has had the same feelings regarding the surge in popularity of these things.

(and just in case it wasn’t clear: you are a badass if you’ve done either Hyrox or a marathon!!)


r/xxfitness 1d ago

Daily Thread 6 September 2026

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r/xxfitness 1d ago

Bracing for barbell to enough relaxation to row on water

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Long time barbell person here. I am rather fluffy (haven't weighed myself in a long time but I am probably just under 100kg) and average height for a woman, which is not a problem in barbell. I am also hypermobile, which especially after hitting perimenopausal hormonal shifts, has required some attention and babying, but also has been fine in barbell with enough coaching and bracing.

I decided to try rowing. I love it and want to continue. But I can not relax enough to make a single racing shell not make me sweat the whole time I'm in it. The coaches keep telling me to relax and I keep bracing. I think I need this skill badly in my life but I feel like I have been hypermobile and trained for barbell for so long that it is going to be really hard to unlearn habits that have helped me in the past. I know this is a really specific question but has anyone gone through this? How have you learned to relax enough in a single to actually enjoy it?

Bonus if anyone who rows has any tips for rowing with a tummy and large chest, I seem to always end up with my hands in my lap or at my chest and that's not helping my balance at all.

Thank you friends!


r/xxfitness 2d ago

Daily Thread 5 September 2026

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r/xxfitness 3d ago

Feeling so weak!

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Hi all,

I've just finished the beginner strength training 6 week program with Olivia and Matty and I'm having a little pity party at how weak I feel!

I'm not sure if it's the high reps but I've only been using 2.5kg dumbbells (2.5kg in each hand, does that count as 5kg for squats etc). But on my last leg day I had to take 4 recovery days before being able to do the full body workout at the end! I'm doing home workouts as I can't afford the gym at the moment.

Should I up my weights and decrease reps? More reps but less weight? I'm so confused as to why leg days kill me so much with such light weights.

Stats in case they are needed 39F, 142lbs, 5ft 3in. I'm hoping to recomp.


r/xxfitness 3d ago

Daily Thread 5 September 2026

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r/xxfitness 3d ago

Squat form check

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Can I please get a form check? This is pretty heavy for me and I only remembered to film it after a 3 rep set. I feel like I lose tension in my trunk and sort of fold into a good morning when it gets hard. This is a fresh rep and it still happened. I also wanna know if I’m breaking parallel or close as I’m not sure

https://imgur.com/a/cYrXRIo

ETA: I took another video from a different angle at a lower weight too https://imgur.com/a/FWNWD1w


r/xxfitness 4d ago

Daily Thread 4 September 2026

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r/xxfitness 4d ago

[WEEKLY THREAD] Gym Story Friday

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This is your place for rants, raves, gym fails, feats of strength, and celebrations of success. Complain about the guy curling dumbbells in the squat rack, or sing praises for your gym bestie. This is also the place to post your PR videos and physique photos.

Lovers of the old WTF Wednesday thread, this thread is for you too! Rant away, but be mindful of the sub's civility rules.


r/xxfitness 5d ago

Am I extremely out of shape??

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I’m not sure if this is the right place to put this but I’m extremely sensitive and I thought this sub would be much nicer than a general sub 🥺

I have been running like 1-1.5 miles 4 out of 7 days of the week. I have been doing this for a few months now. I have went from a 14 minute mile to a 13 minute mile

First off I feel like this progress is very slow but I’m very out of breath and close to giving up at every run so it’s not like I’m being casual about it and I can push harder lol

I also didn’t run for 1 whole week and when I came back this week I could barely run 0.5 miles at like a 14:30 pace..

Considering I’ve been doing this for months now I didn’t think one week would set me back so much..

Am I just that unhealthy?????

I am 150lb and 5’3 so I know I’m heavier and I have a high body fat but I used to be 180 just a year ago

Anywaysss I just wanted to know if this is normal lol it sucks to feel like I’m at the beginning again :(

EDIT: wow I did not expect so many people to respond thank you!! It’s overwhelming to respond to everyone but just know I am reading the comments and really taking into consideration all the tips and will be utilizing them! Also thank you for the kind comments! I felt really discouraged from this especially with me gaining back some weight I lost but you guys have all been so kind and encouraging so thank you!! 🥰🥰🥰


r/xxfitness 4d ago

Front loaded squats never work legs?

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My trainers love giving a variety of front loaded exercises like landmine squats, front rack squats, zerchers etc. I never ever feel it in my legs, I need to keep the weight very light to do the movement without comprising form as my upper body and core fatigue before my legs feel a thing. Do I abandon this movement pattern? Or do I just stay at low weight to build the upper body strength and accept that it will be a very very long time until I'm strong enough to work the legs? Any other advice on how to make these more lower body focus?

I've been doing narrow stance leg press and leg extensions as my quad work where I do feel it and then regular stance leg press, back squats, split squats, RDLs and glute hyper extensions as the rest of my own program


r/xxfitness 5d ago

Someone keeps filming me in the background of his workout videos

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There's this college-aged kid at my gym who seems to always end up working out in the equipment right around where i am and sets up a full tripod and starts filming "himself." But there's always myself or others in the background, and every room is full of mirrors so if there is another person in the room, its going to capture them.

He does this during the gym rush hour from like 4:30pm-6pm. So a super inconvenient time to try to film unless your objective is to capture background folks.

He doesn't just take a quick selfie or Snapchat. I get that, I have no problem with that. Bro has a whole studio in his bag. Full size tripod, whole set up, takes a good while to set it up and set up his camera.

Not only is it super inconsiderate of everyone he's capturing in the background, its also super inconsiderate of everyone's time as he uses the equipment area more as a studio and does multiple "takes."

Its new behavior he just started doing recently. Not sure if hes a new member or if I didn't notice him until the tripod came out.

Its also not the gym for it. There are no other content creators there.

No one is dressed up, we're all there to get sweaty and thats it. No pretty lights, no make up, no flexing for the vids, etc. Just people minding their business working out.

Been going there for years and he's the only person I've seen do this. Its a smaller midwest gym, mostly older people utilizing the silver sneakers program or families with kids.

Theres also a pool there and kids running around in bathing suits so theres concerns there as well.

I've complained to management twice when he set it up in such a way he was going to get me doing very easily exploited workouts like squats. They said they'd talk to him but he's still there doing it.

Do I just switch gyms? Leave a bad review?

I did try to talk to the kid once but he had headphones in and straight up ignored me. There was no way he didn't see / hear me but he definitely pretended he didn't.


r/xxfitness 5d ago

Daily Thread 3 September 2026

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r/xxfitness 5d ago

Side lying hip abduction- only a physio exercise?

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I work out at home and wanted to try hip abduction exercises because I heard they're helpful for making the side of your butt look nice. But naturally I don't have access to a hip abduction machine.

I already have access to ankle weights, so I've been doing side lying hip abduction with them. At this stage even with light weights I find them very challenging, but I noticed when I watch video tutorials for them online they all seem to be physiotherapy videos. Despite feeling pretty hard, does this mean it's not a good exercise for building muscle? I'm also doing heavy compounds as well such as squats and rdls


r/xxfitness 5d ago

[WEEKLY THREAD] Weight Change Wednesday!

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Welcome, everyone! Here is your place to discuss, question or relate to everything about weight loss, weight gain, cuts, bulks and diets. Standalone posts regarding these topics will be removed and redirected here or either of the daily threads.

Here are some useful links from our comprehensive FAQ and otherwise to help you get started:


r/xxfitness 5d ago

Daily Thread 2 September 2026

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r/xxfitness 6d ago

Struggling at starting weight bench press.

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My upper body strength is really awful. I’ve been training weights for a few months now but can’t seem to even get 8 reps on a 20kg bench press. I don’t feel like I’m progressing. When I do 10kg it’s too easy. I don’t have access to many weights as I just train from home. I keep failing after 5-7 20kg. I am 5’8 and 55kg. All my strength seems to be in my legs and I can barely do a push up. Just feel really frustrated. I’m tracking protein and trying to push myself but unsure what to do to really see progress when it comes to upper body strength.

If anyone has any tips for me I’d greatly appreciate it!


r/xxfitness 6d ago

Daily Thread 1 September 2026

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