r/whenthe • u/BagguteGamer • 16d ago
🚨OP's stupidly specific life event🚨 Ive had a generational year
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u/Error_Valkyrie Time to storm arasaka tower 16d ago edited 16d ago
Idk what's worse - the fact that he cheated, that he cheated on her with 30 ppl or that it was on discord
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
Genuinely felt like being hit by a brick every time we found out something new
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u/WeirdAssBeings 🍆literally a femboy🏳️🌈 16d ago edited 16d ago
Got hit with a huge fucking brick a few months ago.
Had a friend of 2 years that was amazing at singing and saw on a daily basis(we weren't too tight or anything, but we did see each other a lot.), we always met up in VRchat and did Karaoke and shit, guy has the Voice of an angel, I had my own group of like 1K members and I hosted events like singing competitions and shit, he missed the event that he would participate in and I was like, y'know, no biggie, people miss shit.
So a guy suddenly comes into my DM's and says he's got this Google doc, shows it to me, and turns out the guy has been a pedophile/child molester for years and keeps on changing identity online, I go on to verify everything(you HAVE to in these situation cuz god knows they're lying about it and shit), and it's all real screenshots and videos, and I go on to confront him about it, and he instantly blocks me and deletes his Discord account.
I decided to just contact his mother and the FBI, turns out his mom was in the dark about all of this shit, but she was happy I told her about it, she did see some signs here and there but it wasn't enough to proof anything and it wasn't as bad as what was in the Google doc, I still have no idea if the guy ever got arrested or not. Shit was sad af cuz his mom is sweet as hell the way she talked and shit.
Shit impacted me so much that it caused me to give ownership of my group away cuz I did not want to deal with that shit ever again lmfao.
The fact that this guy was going to be in the competition, and potentially win, just yughhh, this also just goes to show that no matter how much talent a person has, that does not mean they're a total saint.
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
Ok so like high key something similar but way less happened to me as well, hope you're ok tho dude yikes
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u/WeirdAssBeings 🍆literally a femboy🏳️🌈 16d ago
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u/ThorThulu 16d ago
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u/WeirdAssBeings 🍆literally a femboy🏳️🌈 16d ago
Fuck that looks disgusting- I WANT IT NOW PRONTO
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u/ThorThulu 16d ago
Gonna cook a brisket in the next few weeks once I get the new job, come get some!
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u/Winters067 16d ago
I found out one of my coworkers, whom I've worked closely with for close to two years, is a pedophile. Had no idea. Got exposed by a TCAP show. He's a brilliant mechanic and engineer, friendly at work and always super helpful. Had a wife and kids and a huge house - living the American dream.
Crushed so many of us at work when we all found out.
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u/1funnyguy4fun 16d ago
I’ve dealt with three killers in my life.
I bought a used car for one of my kids at a small dealership. The sales guy was fair and honest. He made some minor repairs at no extra charge before I picked up the car.
When it came time to buy a car for the next kid, I looked the guy up. In jail for killing his wife.
One afternoon I’m on the treadmill at the gym. The TV is on with the sound off. A mugshot of my cleaning lady pops up. She’s in jail for allegedly killing her husband.
I told my wife I fired her because she never cleaned the ceiling fans.
I had some extra time at work last week and was cleaning off my desk. I came across the card of a prospect that was due a follow up call. Turns out he’s doing eight years in the state pen for a hit and run that killed a motorcycle rider.
This is why I avoid conflict, stay away from road ragers, and generally mind my own business. Crazy folks are everywhere.
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u/WeirdAssBeings 🍆literally a femboy🏳️🌈 16d ago
I'm so sorry that happened to you, that has to had sucked ass.
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u/fartew 16d ago
Talented and pedophile? That mf has a future in the music industry
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u/Me_how5678 16d ago
Hey man, thanks for showing his mom and holding him more than internet name and shame accountable. You saved alot of people from life altering truama. I wish you the best
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u/WeirdAssBeings 🍆literally a femboy🏳️🌈 16d ago
Oh I definitely did also mame and shame, mf has no chance of coming back in any of our communities lmfao.
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u/ZincMan 16d ago
VR chat world. Wild. I know nothing about these spaces, crazy you ran such a large group too. 1k people is nuts. So many things people are into I don’t know about
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u/WeirdAssBeings 🍆literally a femboy🏳️🌈 16d ago
Wild thing is 1K ain't even that much in the VRchat space, biggest group is like 80K members of some shit.
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u/I_Eats_Cheese 16d ago
"we always met up in VRchat".
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u/Ornery_Tie_4771 16d ago
reminds me of someone who was claiming to port undertale/deltarune/one shot freeware to the 3DS/Wii U and kept saying shit like that she got a lawsuit from materia, that she was getting a lot of hate, leaks, that she was suicidal and doing self harm... Even gave the project to a friend from "stress" but then it turned out that not only all she did was fake but also stole art, possibly a pedophile and a looot of bad stuff I dont remember who kept changing names and suicide baiting. Her name was iza/yuzu or something. Good thing is that her ex friends are ACTUALLY doing the project and porting undertale/deltarune to wii u and 3ds (one shot was replaced for practically being playable in both and because undertale yellow)
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u/Gold-Cry-7520 16d ago
If he cheated on her with 30 REAL people, that would be morally disgusting but it would also be kind of genuinely impressive.
But he didn't. He cheated on her with discord kittens.
Like you're throwing away a human being you can love, touch and fuck for 30 people you will almost certainly never meet. what is even to be gained from that
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u/I_SNAIL_I 16d ago
Some people feel that their value is better if they are lets say dating 30 people at the same time it is an achievement for them and for people like this one normal realationship will not be enough and they will never be happy with only one partner (they can change obviously)
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u/TheGoldenExperience_ [the jojo they{them} called may] 16d ago
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u/Zestokist 16d ago
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u/West_Ad6982 16d ago
Polyester??
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u/Puzzleheaded-Pea-202 Ah! So green! 16d ago
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u/Polygonal_squid This user simps for a ZZZ furry ‼️‼️‼️ 16d ago
Dick occurrence, even
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u/druppeldruppel_ 16d ago
Feet event, perhaps
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u/Kinosa07 16d ago
HOOOOW??!
How do people manage to pull off amorous relationship with the entirety of a WoW raid group WTH??
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u/Antique-Tourist4237 16d ago
But like how😭
I don’t even know one person that (if I had a partner) I’d be willing to cheat on them with. Never the less 30
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u/gaming_demon4429 16d ago
I'm sorry THIRTY???
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
And he was spending all his money on them too bro its so bad
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u/Dr_Bodyshot 16d ago
How the fuck does a person acquire enough capital to placate 30 people, himself, and a real relationship at the same time
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u/summonerofrain 16d ago
Somehow that bothers me more than the actual cheating
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
Well he would always say hes broke despite having a decent job and would get his gf to buy stuff for him
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u/summonerofrain 16d ago
Sounds abusive, do you know the gf?
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
Yeah ive sent my regards and safe to say im definitely not gonna just be friends with this guy anymore
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u/Sliver_Squad 16d ago
Ok this has to be a coincidence bc my friend just broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years because he kept chatting with e-girls on discord behind her back
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
No way
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u/Andrew_Nathan8 16d ago
Hold up is it one of those moments two ppl on the internet might be in the same-ish circle? If so what are the frickin odds?!
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u/summonerofrain 16d ago
As in you told the gf?
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
She knew before we did
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u/CattleMc 16d ago
Cheating on a partner who is willing to spend their money like that is horrible. Know it all too well.
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
Yeah it makes me feel so awful for not thinking about it more before it was found out
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u/Carthage_ishere Cutie patootie 16d ago
30? people was bro that fucking honry?
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u/LeDarm 16d ago
He wasnt having sex with thme mist likely...
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u/P1ayer2008 16d ago
This post gave me such a massive flashbang of information that I can't just scroll away from it, this is a crazy situation to witness firsthand
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u/secretonlinepersona 16d ago
your comment was the closure I needed after scrolling for like 15' reading through comments
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u/ponteencuatro 16d ago
I hope all of them were adults because this sounds insane 🤨
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u/Salty_Wall 16d ago
On discord? Was he e-cheating?
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u/PHANT0MXDD purpl 16d ago
"E-cheating" is one of those words that when you hear and try to understand makes your brain, which is an organ that has no pain receptors, actually hurt you.
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u/LucyShortForLucas 16d ago
Technically all pain happens in your brain. Pain receptors just send signals up there, the brain then CHOOSES to make it hurt. You know, for fun.
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u/cl0verturtle 16d ago
there is an extremely rare syndrome that you can be born with that causes you to feel no pain at all. that causes funny things like getting ran over by a car for 200ft straight, not feeling anything, and having to be hospitalized without knowing why. that happened to a kid with the syndrome once.
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u/Responsible_Ad_9806 16d ago
Plus most of the toddlers with it chew off their own tongues because they have no reason not to, doesn’t hurt so they just do it
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
Yeah
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u/Ecstatic_Specialist3 16d ago
Wtf is e-cheating??
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u/Competitive_Wave2439 🇵🇱🔥completly unbiased polish patriot🔥🇵🇱 16d ago
I guess sexting with people who are not ur partner? Sending pictures and stuff, so cheating but like never actually doing it.
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u/Mikhail_Mengsk 16d ago
So you get all the risk, all the consequences, and none of the actual "perks" of cheating?
Smart.
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u/Gold-Cry-7520 16d ago
cheating on a physical partner with someone online, it's a pretty intuitable word
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u/EmbarrassedPizza3952 16d ago
970 to go
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u/DizWhatNoOneNeeds 16d ago
GTX 970 4gb
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u/fakeforsureYT i make music sometimes :3 16d ago
Not bad, I have the GTX 1660 its not the best nowadays but it gets me by
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u/Wolfy_Packy Secret Heather 16d ago
the other day or so, me and a buddy watched some random open cases in CSGO. dude pulled like 4 knives in one morning and obviously had walls on. streamed his discord for some reason, had a ticket open to a cheat provider in discord DMs, so on
he dodged and got intentionally stupid and dense when we eventually jumped on him about it. we were hinting at it while he was playing before we decided to confront him, blaming "Clara". he faked his entire CS inventory and paid for cheats 🥀
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u/Me_how5678 16d ago
Faking an inventory, now thats just sad and confusing. So he fake pulled 4 knifes?
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u/Wolfy_Packy Secret Heather 16d ago
yup, he had a bunch of fake cases and pulled fake dopplers and shit. even traded up for fake shit. the idiot had his steam profile linked, so we looked at his inventory and the dawg ain't had shit lol
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u/Alarming_Scientist 16d ago
Perplexed, confused and mildly curious.
Like... how? Why?
Beyond all that, how does one even... have the time for any of them? Were they in the same group? Did they know each other? What man gets up in the morning, looks at his 29th partner and goes "you know what, let's make it 30, really even it out."
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
I wish I knew more about it but I feel it would be rude to ask for such specifics
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u/sears_robux 16d ago
Bro what do you mean he was cheating with 30 people on his discord? Like, was he actually fucking people from his discord server like some kind of sex cult or was it a dude and his legions of e-girls sexting each other?
I’m so fucking confused lmao
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
He was paying a bunch of people for discord e-sex and nudes
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u/Narrow_Top_4352 16d ago
Why bro had the real thing 😭
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u/BagguteGamer 16d ago
Took him years to get a girlfriend that actually liked him too
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u/Darth-Lazea 16d ago
Jesus Fucking Christ. She is going to be devastated when she finds out ( if she doesn't know already )
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u/Dzzplayz Get loved, idiot! HOPE BLAST!!!!!! 16d ago
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u/TheGuyInTheGlasses 16d ago
The fact that it’s 30 people makes me want think it’s a young couple with narrow ideas about relationships and the girlfriend has just found out that her BF takes part in some sort of close knit gooning server 😅
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u/Obootleg 16d ago
WHAT IN THE ISEKAI HAREM PROTAGONIST BRO
HOW. LOGISTICALLY HOW?!?!?!?!
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u/algotrader_ 16d ago
How do you find people to cheat with on discord? Just curious. I didn't know it was a dating site.
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u/Total_Marketing5844 16d ago
What, on Discord? You mean like emotional cheating? Or irl? Do people use Discord like regular social media? Discord users are the last I'd ever think of trying to meet irl.
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u/summonerofrain 16d ago
How the heck do you meet people near enough to cheat on discord?
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u/Boundlessintime 16d ago edited 16d ago
Lmfao my ex did this too! Noelle/Trit, if you're reading this, I practically never think about you anymore and you mean nothing to me anymore
I gave you a lot and recovery was a long ride, but I hope you're happy now. I heard you're huffing compressed air nowadays. I don't miss you
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u/Siwach414 16d ago
I mean that’s worse for him more than you but I can understand why u would feel that way op
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u/sears_robux 16d ago
It’s worse for the girlfriend that got cheated on man the cheater can go fuck himself and the thirty people he cheated with
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u/WeirdAssBeings 🍆literally a femboy🏳️🌈 16d ago
Eeeecactly, fuck him, this guy can never be trusted ever again with any person imo.
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u/Rhiannon21 16d ago
I think it's worse the Cheating on Discord part
Meant he had no personality to woe to cheat on with in real life, kinda pathetic
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u/Helpful-Fisherman659 16d ago
Hey bro, its been a few hours and this may get buried but for what its worth, I'm proud of you for holding your friend accountable when you KNOW he fucked up.
A lot of people make excuses for their liked/loved ones when shit hits the fan and you did the opposite.
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u/MrSirDBA 16d ago
Like, 30 people at once? Did they know of each other?? Did he just Any% his relationships through 30 people in a row or did he have a small House of Representatives in his dms???
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u/Lyonwytchwardrobe 16d ago
To be clear I think op means like sexting/sending risky photos. Theres no way hes been cracking 30 people.
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u/LetMeLiveImNew 16d ago edited 16d ago
From a utilitarian point of view if he cheated and they never found it it’s a net positive
So really just dealt a bad hand
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u/hudson27 16d ago
My best bud cheated on his highschool sweetheart of 9 years. Then he started dating the second girl, and cheated on her as well 😭
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u/Dania-the-orange-cat 16d ago
....huh odd that a while ago I got some discord DMS of someone I knew but it was there partner asking if I was in relationship with them... And they explained that they got cheated on with a lot of people on there ....
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u/BudgetYouth173 16d ago
The fact that it was with 30 people id makiglng think of that one gif/video of that guy doing the fnaf motions super fast checking evrything
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u/Bulky_Significance55 16d ago
Got a longtime friend who my whole friendgroup just found out has been cheating on his wife with some chick he met on Red Dead. And then the Read Dead chick found out about his wife and dumped him so he’s uber-fucked now.
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u/PlasmaGuy500 yellow like an EPIC banana 16d ago
I genuinely cant comprehend how you are even able to manage to double cross people like that
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u/poopnip 16d ago
Was friends with this dude online for a long time. We played a ton of games and hung out. We became great friends.
A few years later, I found his name under the sex offender list in his state. His picture matched up with the profile. All details matched up.
I confronted who I thought was my best friend, and he lied to my face. I am not getting into details, but I had figured it out and he tried to make it seem like it wasn’t him.
Dude.
I don’t speak with him anymore. It makes me so incredibly sad.
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