Looking for a solid wingman in Los Angeles

[u/NaturalLeague81]

I’m looking for one (maybe two) solid guys in LA to go out with and practice approaching.

Only message me if you actually fit this:

• You work on yourself
• You’re not afraid of rejection
• You understand social dynamics
• You don’t care what random people think
• You have real standards and principles

My rules if we go out together:

• We take turns opening our own sets
• Each man has the choice of who he wants
• Never hit on the girl the other is talking to
• Open communication at all times
• We give each other solid criticism, even if it’s hard , but based on actual facts, not ego
• We’re not here to say yes to any woman just to get laid

I’m open to both day game and night game (coffee shops, farmer’s markets, chill busy events, etc.).

Important:

We’re not going out to get drunk.

Maximum one drink (or no alcohol).

The mission is to practice game, open sets, and improve, not to party.

I believe success comes from abundance, standards, and not giving a fuck what women say or think. Discipline > desperation.

If you’re the type who just wants to get laid by any means and has no frame, don’t message me.

If you’re serious, disciplined, and actually working on your game the right way, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself and where you’re at.

Looking for quality, not quantity.

[u/Disastrous_Affect742]

Ya night game is my forte... but dude your going with the wrong frame of mind. One drink or no alcohol? Dibs on girls? I get the most success when I go solo out for a buzz and tacos. No plans to get laid or any outcome just have fun

Also try out silver lake , echo park , and highland park! Great scene

[u/NaturalLeague81 → u/Disastrous_Affect742]

I never said “dibs.” What I said is simple: if one of us opens a set, chooses the target, and is building momentum, the other doesn’t jump in on her. Basic respect.

About the alcohol, I’m not against having fun. I’m against going out with the main goal of getting buzzed and hoping something happens. I go out with structure and intent (openers, practice, standards), while still staying outcome-independent. That’s the difference.

I already live walking distance to Echo Park and Silver Lake, so I’m familiar with the area. Highland Park is good too.

I’m looking for someone who wants to practice with a clear mission, not just drift.

[u/HuskerDue]

LA here looking for a solid wingman as well. Let’s set something up.

[u/asdf714]

Im moving in from NYC in 2 weeks near LA....Def would do some approach with you bro

[u/breaktheice7]

Are you In or near the valley?

[u/NaturalLeague81 → u/breaktheice7]

I'm in the heart of LA.

[u/JaytheSunGuru]

I’m game brother
You sound like you have good standards I’m the same, only looking to grow, message me your number and we’ll text, I’m a 40 min drive to down town

[u/CoachSlyDating]

Good luck finding a solid wing. It’s almost as rare as finding a super model that’s available. Most “wings” will parasite off your sets or sabotage them while occupying the obstacle. In my experience the wing is only useful with good two sets. With solo girls you don’t need a wing, and with three sets the wing is also detrimental because one of the girls is left out. So the primary benefit of the wing is mostly to help keep state high.

The rules you outlined are reasonable. The only one I take issue with is that the criticism needs to happen after the night is over. While stuff is happening it’s better to just keep chatting up girls. I am in LA a few times per year and would be open to winging with you on those occasions.

[u/becomesharp → u/CoachSlyDating]

Agreed on criticism waiting until the end of the night. Gets you in your head.

You technically dont need a wing in most sets, yes, but 99% of guys benefit from the push and accountability a wing provides. It's like working out. You dont NEED a workout buddy, but it makes it way easier.