r/nanjing 8h ago

[Chapter 1] From age 3 to 6 (1959-1961), I lived in a government kindergarten INSIDE Sun Yat-sen’s office in Nanjing Presidential Palace

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From 1959 to 1961, from age 3 to 6, I lived inside the Nanjing Presidential Palace.
Not just me - our entire government kindergarten lived in the row of houses that included President Sun Yat-sen's office. The building was built in the early Republic of China, with bricks from the old Nanjing City Wall. It was President Sun's office. He handled national affairs and led the newly founded Republic here. Later, when President Chiang Kai-shek became president, he built a new office building to the west of it.
My little bed was in the big open room on the second floor. In the center was a stove for boiling water, surrounded by small beds. That was our kindergarten. During the day it was an office and a kindergarten. At night, it was our home. My bed was right behind President Sun's big desk.
In 1959, my father was an official of the Jiangsu Provincial Government, my mother was a doctor at the Jiangsu Provincial People's Hospital. Our family lived in a small grey-brick Republican-era house in Yanggongjing, Daxinggong, Nanjing.
Shortly after the Spring Festival, I had just turned three, my father took me into the Presidential Palace, where the provincial government was located. Our kindergarten was in the West Garden, by the Taiping Lake.
My father's colleague, Uncle Qi Luhou, a kind and amiable old man, picked us up by bicycle every week. Every time he dropped me at the boathouse by Taiping Lake in the West Garden, he had to go back to work in the Executive Yuan building in the east. Every time, I walked reluctantly towards the kindergarten building, looking back every three steps, watching Uncle Qi's kind smile and his waving hand. Six days later, he would pick me up at the door of the small building, and I would jump into his arms with joy.
At that time, we entered and left the Presidential Palace through the middle gate of the main entrance. Whenever we saw the soldiers with rifles standing guard at the gate, we children were full of admiration. Sometimes, when the kindergarten line came to the main gate, the teacher would negotiate with the soldiers and let each small hand touch the submachine gun. The red pillars of the front hall, the Taiping Lake in the West Garden, and President Sun's office left me with memories that will never fade in my life.
My father was born in northern Jiangsu. For generations, his family were peasants who lived by renting land. By my grandfather's generation, he suffered because he was illiterate, so he wanted his youngest and smartest child to study and become a cultured person. My grandfather dug out the silver dollars hidden in the mud wall. This money was saved by generations of hard work, who could not bear to eat or wear well. Generation after generation of my ancestors longed to save enough money to buy their own land. For a farmer, the greatest wish for generations is to own his own land.
During a flood in northern Jiangsu, my grandfather's second brother fled the famine and went to Jiangnan, the land of fish and rice. After hard work, his family stayed on the land outside Guanghuamen in Nanjing, living a life half vegetable farmer and half vegetable vendor. My grandfather keenly realized that staying in his hometown and farming his own land might not lead to a good life. Inspired by his second brother's experience, my grandfather thought more ahead. His youngest son would no longer be a farmer, but a city man.
My grandfather took out all the family's hope - the money saved for generations to buy land. He sent my father to a private school, and then to Wangji Middle School in Siyang, Jiangsu. My grandfather set a great ambition for my father: after studying well, he would no longer be a suffering farmer, but go to Nanjing to join his second uncle, work as a shop clerk who could do accounting in the city, and become a city person. In my grandfather's view, being able to do manual labor and also do accounting was being both civil and martial; becoming a clerk who could do accounting meant becoming a city person.
In the year he graduated from junior high school, my father was fifteen years old. The village Party branch secretary secretly recruited him into the Communist Party. The branch secretary told my father that a knowledgeable person like him, if he was willing to join the National Revolutionary Army's New Fourth Army after graduation, would not only have an official position but also money. For a child from a poor family, these words were a huge temptation. Soon after graduating from junior high school, under the guidance of the village branch secretary, he secretly joined the New Fourth Army without telling his parents. A young man educated in the traditional Four Books and Five Classics, he muddle-headedly joined the anti-traditional revolutionary army.
In the army, my father was given an officer rank equivalent to a platoon leader; but the promise of money was pure fiction. At that time, the Nationalist Government gave one soldier's pay, and the Communists used it to support several soldiers. My father became a clerk in a company of the New Fourth Army. Company Commander Zhang Lin was an old fellow villager from a neighboring village. The company headquarters had only the two of them as officers and a few soldiers. After my father joined the army, my grandmother Mrs. Hu had no news of her youngest son and cried all day. Soon, my father was shot in the leg in a battle with the Japanese army, but it was mistakenly reported that he had died in battle. My grandmother heard the news and, in extreme grief, passed away soon after.
At that time, transportation in northern Jiangsu was very inconvenient, with many ditches and rivers. More than twenty years later, when I was in middle school, my father took me to look for the stations of his New Fourth Army company and the Japanese army. The Chinese and Japanese stations were interlocked. My father sighed that the distance was so close that it was no wonder the Japanese often raided them. At that time, the troops had to sleep fully clothed, and at the slightest sign of trouble they had to prepare to fight.
My father recalled that one night, the Japanese army had quietly surrounded the village. At that time bullets were scarce, he threw a grenade and took the opportunity to jump out from the thatched roof and break through into the cornfield behind the house to escape. At that time, the movies I saw were all about the New Fourth Army chasing the Japanese devils. So I asked puzzled, why didn't you chase the Japanese? My father showed a bewildered look, and after a long while he replied, that's bullshit and bragging, the Japanese are not so easy to chase. He sighed that first, the protection of those ditches and rivers, and second, being able to hide and run well and escape, being able to survive in such an environment was already very good.
At that time, my father's New Fourth Army unit was a front-line combat unit. They did not eat well, dress warmly, or sleep soundly, and had to eat earthworms and wild vegetables out of necessity, and their clothes were patched. The Japanese often raided them, they often fought with the Japanese army, and there were always casualties. Because this New Fourth Army unit was in a dangerous situation, with a hard material life and a lack of medical care and medicine, many comrades left the unit and fled back to their hometowns.
On a Sunday in my childhood, a farmer in dirty and torn clothes found my home in Yanggongjing, Nanjing. He said he was once my father's comrade-in-arms in the New Fourth Army, but my family didn't believe him and wouldn't let him into the yard. At that time my father almost always worked overtime in the provincial government on weekends, so it was not until my father talked to this man on the phone and asked the family to give him a bath and food that we believed this comrade covered in lice.
From 1959 to 1962, during the Great Famine in China, many people starved to death, and there was a lack of clothing and food in the countryside. This former comrade-in-arms' family was in a state of cold and hunger. He was my father's comrade-in-arms. When my father joined the army, they had not known each other for long. This old soldier really could no longer endure the hard life and frequent fighting in the army, so he left the New Fourth Army on the pretext of recovering from an injury and went home, and never returned to the unit. Because he had no money for a car, he walked hundreds of miles, begging all the way to Nanjing, hoping to get help from his old comrade-in-arms.
At that time, when someone from his hometown came, the first thing before entering the house was to take off all the clothes on his body and put them into a large pot for the nanny to boil, to prevent the spread of lice and fleas. After this former comrade changed his clothes, his family took him to the kitchen to eat. There was no need to stir-fry or cook at all. Hunger robbed people of their dignity. When he saw the leftover rice and lard in my house, he pounced on it. He was so hungry that half a pot of rice and a jar of lard in the kitchen were eaten clean in an instant.
My father's hard days in the New Fourth Army lasted until Japan announced its surrender. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, my father's New Fourth Army unit was divided into two groups, one to the Northeast and one to Shandong. Commander Zhang Lin was in the group going to the Northeast Field Army, and my father was in the group going to the Shandong Field Army. Before departing for the Northeast, Zhang Lin, with deep comradeship, rode a horse in the middle of the night to my father's station and woke up my sleeping father. Zhang Lin, who was the company instructor at the time, offered my father the position of battalion instructor and asked him to go with him alone. My father, due to various concerns and reluctant to be far away from his hometown, thought it over and did not agree.
After that, my father moved with his troops to Lunan and Jiaodong Peninsula in Shandong, and was incorporated into the Shandong Field Army. After the troops assembled, conditions improved, he could eat his fill, have warm winter clothes, and sleep soundly. Later, the Shandong Field Army was merged into the East China Field Army. Thus, Commander Zhang Lin and my father belonged to two different major field armies. The political commissar of Zhang Lin's column in the East China Field Army (later Minister of Coal Industry) and the director of the political department (later Secretary of the Jiangsu Provincial Party Committee) Peng Chong, were all my father's superiors during this period. One year, my father's buddy Commander Zhang Lin came to my house, and after drinking, talked about the hard years, recalled his comrades who died in battle, and shed tears in emotion.


r/nanjing 1d ago

Movie theatre

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Is there any 4dx movie theatre in Nanjing?


r/nanjing 5d ago

If you are NJU exchange students...

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Recently I saw many posts on registration, dorms, programs asking for help. Me personally working at NJU as an admin., and I am thinking maybe we can set up a wechat group for Q&A or I've already set up a Nanjing expat group where NJU students that I know have joined.

If you are interested, add my wechat xingxing1520.


r/nanjing 7d ago

18M moving to Xi’an soon looking to meet some girls 👋🇨🇳

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Hey everyone!

I’m 18M and I’m moving to Xi’an soon for my studies. I’d really like to meet some girls around my age and make some new connections. 😊

I’m interested in meeting people who are down to chat, grab coffee or food, explore the city, go shopping, visit interesting places, or just hang out and see if we get along.

I’m open to friendship, getting to know each other, or potentially something more if we genuinely click. No pressure either way!

If you’re a girl around my age in Xi’an and you’d like to meet someone new, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself!


r/nanjing 8d ago

mental health help

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hey guys, is there any psychiatrist/psygchologist (preferably an english speaking one) in the city where i could get a diagnosis? thanks !!


r/nanjing 11d ago

Interested into fishing

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I’m based in Nanjing, Xianlin and am really interested into trying fishing for the first time.

If anyone is into fishing or have experience or have tried it before and knows some place to try, please let me know so we can fish together.


r/nanjing 11d ago

looking for eng speaking friends

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I will be studying in Nanjing this September, so i would really love to meet some international students as well. if there’s any gc or anything like that, would love to be added!


r/nanjing 11d ago

Is 2,000 RMB/month enough to live in Xi’an as a student?

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I’m moving to Xi’an soon for uni, and my tuition + dorm are already paid for. I’ll have about 2,000 RMB per month for everything else — mainly food, transportation, phone, laundry/toiletries, and maybe going out once in a while.

For anyone living in Xi’an, is 2,000 RMB/month actually enough? 😂

I’m not expecting to live luxuriously, just wondering if I’ll be able to get by comfortably or if I should try to get a bigger budget.

Also, any tips for saving money in Xi’an would be appreciated!


r/nanjing 12d ago

NJU RegistrationDay confusion

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r/nanjing 13d ago

Student-friendly gyms around Xianlin?

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Hi everyone! I’m a student living around Xianlin and I’m looking for a decent, student-friendly gym nearby.
Ideally looking for something that:
Has reasonable monthly/annual membership prices 💰
Isn’t too crowded
Is welcoming to international students
Is within/near the Xianlin area
I know some universities have their own sports facilities, but I’m also interested in commercial gyms.
If anyone around Xianlin has recommendations, I’d really appreciate it! Also, please share approximate membership prices if you know them.
Thanks!


r/nanjing 15d ago

Looking for a Latin Dance Teacher in Nanjing! 💃

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We're a small, friendly group looking for a passionate Latin dance instructor to teach us Bachata & Salsa in Nanjing.

What we're looking for:

  • Experienced in teaching Bachata and Salsa (both welcome!)
  • Good with beginners — we're not professionals, just eager to learn
  • Can teach in English or Chinese
  • Flexible on time — we can work around your schedule
  • Ready to commit to ongoing classes

If you're interested — or know someone who might be — please DM me! 🙏

Location: Nanjing (exact venue TBD based on discussion)
Start date: Flexible

Would love to hear from you! 💃✨

Also, if anyone wants to join me in learning, feel free to let me know! 💃 but we have to first find our teacher.


r/nanjing 16d ago

Nanjing University Sports?

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Myself, 19 (F) am going to Nanjing University next year for a semester exchange. I currently play club volleyball and am wondering if anyone knows of clubs or programs at the university that have trainings or tournaments I would be able to join as an exchange student - its hard to find any information online.

I would also love to know about the social life on student accommodation, specifically in Spring semester

Any info is appreciated :) thank you


r/nanjing 16d ago

Is it possible for 8 friends to get assigned to 2 neighboring dorm rooms in a Chinese university, like for bachelor programs?

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r/nanjing 16d ago

🇨🇳 Moving to Xi’an soon — looking to make some friends!

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🇨🇳Hi everyone! 👋

I’m an 18-year-old guy from Morocco 🇲🇦, and I’ll be moving to Xi’an soon to study Chinese.

I’m hoping to meet some people before I arrive—or after I get there! I’d love to make friends with both locals and expats/international students, whether you’re a guy or a girl.

A little about me: I’m easygoing, curious, and I really enjoy exploring new places, discovering new things, meeting different people, and experiencing different cultures. I’m also interested in Chinese culture and looking forward to experiencing life in Xi’an.

I’m pretty open-minded, so if you’re also looking to make some new friends, feel free to comment or DM me. We could chat online first and maybe hang out when I arrive.

Would be especially cool to meet people around my age, but I’m open to getting to know anyone friendly.

Looking forward to meeting people in Xi’an! 🇨🇳


r/nanjing 18d ago

CS student from China, would love to meet up (in person or a trip) to talk about life abroad — no scams, just curious

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Hey everyone,

I'm a computer science student in China, currently based in Huzhou, Zhejiang — pretty close to Shanghai. I've been really curious about what life is actually like in other countries, but I'm tired of only getting that picture through articles and videos online. I'd love to hear real, first-hand perspectives instead.

If you're nearby (Shanghai/Zhejiang area) or just happen to be interested in this kind of exchange, I'd genuinely enjoy meeting up for a coffee/chat, or even traveling somewhere together to talk in person. I'm interested in comparing perspectives on daily life, work culture, education, and just general day-to-day differences.

To be upfront: I know posts like this can sound sketchy, so let me be clear — I'm not trying to scam anyone or sell anything. Just a student who wants genuine conversation and maybe a new friend who's open to sharing their experience.

Feel free to comment or DM if this sounds interesting to you!


r/nanjing 20d ago

Restaurant for Mexican/Indian food

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Hi everyone, I am traveling with my school to Nanjing for two weeks and though I am super excited I have Celiac. We are staying in a hotel so I will be taking my own breakfast options and lots of snacks. I am pretty worried about lunch/dinner.

I have read through a few forums and some stated there are Mexican restaurants as well as some Indian restaurants. I'm just having trouble finding these places and specific recommendations.

I am an android user so I know I can't use Google maps and have downloaded amap.

If anyone has any recs, I would be so grateful!

EDIT: I'll be around Gulou, Nanjing University and Xuanwu!


r/nanjing 21d ago

Asking for Vpn Reccomendations

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Guys, i'm gonna go for a degree in nanjing. Any VPN reccomendation that is relatively stable in Nanjing??


r/nanjing 23d ago

Looking for Chinese friends 🇨🇳

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Hey! I’m an undergrad student looking for Chinese friends to practice Mandarin with. I can help you improve your English, and we can chat or even hang out if we’re nearby!
Would love to make some genuine friends along the way. Feel free to DM me! 😊


r/nanjing 25d ago

Family accomodations in Nanjing

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Hello, we are traveling with my two kids and partner to Nanjing for a month. We are looking for an apartment to rent (rather that a hotel) as it's easier to handle small children. I will be studying in the the Nanjing university of Chinese medicine, something close would be ideal. Any recommendations? Thank you !


r/nanjing 27d ago

CrossFit Gyms in Nanjing

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Will be visiting Nanjing in the month of August, looking for CrossFit gym recommendations to drop in!


r/nanjing 28d ago

Nanjing Foriegn Social CLub

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Hey everyone!

We run the Nanjing Foreign Social Club (NFSC), a casual community for internationals living in Nanjing and Chinese friends who have studied, worked, or spent time abroad.

We organize relaxed social events—bar nights, live music, games, cultural activities, city walks, and other meetups around Nanjing.

If you're new to Nanjing or just looking to meet some new people, you're welcome to join us!

Add me on WeChat: Minimalistic_92

Just mention NFSC/Reddit when adding me so I know where you found us. 🙂


r/nanjing 29d ago

Hanfu photoshoot

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Hello!
Do studios there accept walk-in with no reservation? If not, where can I reserve? Can I still do a photoshoot with its current weather (rain)?
Would you also recommend to include make-up? I don't mind make up, but i don't want to look too white.
Thanks!


r/nanjing 29d ago

Mahjong in NJ!

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Hello everyone! I'm an Italian mahjong enjoyer. I'm part of a group of nerds that usually plays board games, but in the last few months we started playing mahjong (MCR ruling). I'm going to be in china for 6 months, starting this September, as an exchange student at NJ Normal University. I'm not familiar with "realistic mahjong culture" in China (my references are WKW and Jia Zhangke movies lol), so I'd like to know if there are places to play and how welcoming they are to foreigners/HSK4 Chinese speaker/ mediocre but determined player. I'll stay at the Suiyan campus, but I understood that it's quite easy to get around in the city. Thanks for any info :)


r/nanjing Aug 09 '26

Any expats in Nanjing into fitness? Looking for a gym partner

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Hi everyone,

I’m in Shanghai now and moving to Nanjing soon and I’m looking to find a gym buddy from the international community.

I’m a female beginner getting into fitness, and I’d love to meet someone who already has some gym experience and enjoys working out regularly. I’m hoping to find a friendly workout partner who can help me get familiar with the gym, share some tips, and keep each other motivated.

I’m not looking for a personal trainer — just someone who enjoys fitness and would like to have a consistent gym partner.

A little about me:

  • Female
  • Global Talent Advisor& Digital Nomad
  • New to Nanjing
  • Interested in strength training, fitness, tennis, dance, Yoga, hiking, travelling and healthy lifestyle
  • Open to meeting international friends in the city

Ideally, I’d love to connect with other expats living in Nanjing, but anyone who is respectful and serious about fitness is welcome.

If you’re looking for a gym buddy too, feel free to DM me. Maybe we can grab a coffee first and find a gym that works for both of us :)

Looking forward to meeting new people in Nanjing!


r/nanjing Aug 09 '26

Looking for a part-time Native English Tutor for kids in Xianlin (280-400 RMB / 1.5h)

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Hi r/nanjing! 👋

We are looking for an engaging and patient foreign teacher to teach English to kindergarten and primary school kids.

What we are looking for:

  • Native English Speaker (Strict requirement).
  • British accent is highly preferred! (Since we focus a lot on specific phonics). 🇬🇧
  • Must be good with young kids—patient, energetic, and fun.
  • Location: The classes are held in the Xianlin / Qixia District area, so ideally you live nearby or don't mind the commute.

Pay & Schedule:

  • Rate: 280 - 400 RMB per 1.5-hour class, depending on your experience.
  • Schedule: Part-time / flexible (we can figure out a schedule that works best).

If you are based in Nanjing and this sounds like something you’d be interested in, please send me a DM!

(Tip: It would be super helpful if you could leave your WeChat ID in the DM so we can connect more easily!)

Thanks!