Being a team - r/lovememes

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Never wanted something so bad

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u/girlbartender99 2h ago

I know it doesn't feel like it hun, but there are girls out there that are ride or die. I know because my husband could k*ll someone, and I would help him bury the body. That is a hyperbole to people out there with no sense of humor. But you get my point. Hang in there and she will find you! ❤️

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u/No-Security-7518 56m ago

God, I'll give the world for someone like you. What a lucky man!

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u/girlbartender99 27m ago

Omg what a sweet thing to say! ❤️ 😄 Ty so much! You just made my day while I am peddling away on the Peloton here!

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u/Cosmic_Jane 1h ago

To be fair, men who are willing to go to extremes are not cowards, and women love confidence. Men love confidence too.

The confidence to do something is appealing.

It's those depressives who self-victimize themselves and never try that are such a buzzkill.

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u/girlbartender99 29m ago

Preach!!! Have you dealt with the wrath of the Incels of Reddit ever on a comment or post? Its like dude it doesn't take a degree in psych to figure out why you have no luck with us!

I watched my husband give like a little pep talk to a guy friend of mine (my husband is older than me and lets just say attention from the opposite sex has never been a prob for him) and was telling him dude you are good looking kid, stop acting scared of the world, and lighten the frig up. Girls like to laugh, stop looking to be offended by everything! And after he said to me after talking to a handful of dudes your age its starting to become clear to me why you fell for my dumbass. Lol 😂

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u/Generally_Confused1 1h ago

Same, not sure if I've ever had that care and loyalty lol

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u/girlbartender99 2h ago

Its cool to see a post on reddit that isn't by some Incel that thinks we are all the devil. In my life it was the opposite. Mine would read like I am not successful and you are to my husband and he would say yes you are but its not you or me its we are successful

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u/Mysterious_Tart3377 59m ago

Tbf I've seen a lot of couples that worked their asses off for success. It happens.

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u/Bleak01a 3h ago

I am in a relationship right now that I am hoping will grow into one pictured here. A woman who loves, cares and will support me to better myself in every way.

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u/R8iojak87 2h ago

The real truth is you need to have the same focus on her. One person isn’t always the “giver” and the other the “receiver” relationships have to be reciprocal. Expecting someone to sacrifice any and everything so you can achieve what you feel is important, is sort of an unrealistic expectation imo.

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u/SomeGuyOverYonder 3h ago

I’ll remain unsuccessful then, because there is no “we”.

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u/arbitarytw289 3h ago

Dw mate, we got you

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u/mikasaxo 1h ago

To the people thinking it’s not a team effort, you’re mistaken. It’s always a team effort. Your partner is there to help you.

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u/Twitxx 12m ago

Even the loveliest partners I've ever had didn't practice this in reality. They say the right things, but then don't follow up on it and in the end, if you stop being able to provide, they leave. My ex was very supportive and full of love, up until I got sick and didn't manage to become the successful business owner I planned to be, and she left. After the last one, I don't think I'm letting myself believe that people like that exist. In the end, it's not an equal partnership, but a relationship, and there will always be hidden expectations from your beloved.

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u/niccoSun 3h ago

Except these days if you struggle, your supposed "team" partner will find a new team real quick.

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u/GuillaumeLatendresse 3h ago

But you can do the same… and you don’t even have to go into the free agent market.

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u/BrainFit2819 1h ago

These m&a are too much.

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u/niccoSun 5m ago

That isnt me. I don't jump ship the second things get hard.