Am I maybe a lesbian?

[u/Ophelia_Gloria]

The things I relate to a lot of stuff here, never really interested in men in my teenager years beside a few make out sessions that was nice with some guys here and there and I felt some kind of butterflies with one , guys I found cute here and there in tv . I felt butterflies etc watching straight romance. I never really understood the appeal with men’s bodies.

Women could make me feral with their bodies.
However!
As I turned 16-18 I started to have crushes o men here and there like daydreamed about them, giggles etc. it has been an ongoing pattern.
I didn’t really masturbate to them etc. but when I turned 21 I started to get curious about dicks , some men in porn make me go ohh in some of their scenes like in penetration scenes I could be like damn his energy, face, dick, moans, way he thrust 👀and I would start to insert myself with them and I got aroused by it. It has only happens some times, or I see a guy on the street sometimes and be like he is good looking I wonder how it would be to kiss and make him moan or his hands on me👀
I never really felt the romantic giggles with women, like I have tried to date them but I didn’t feel the romantic feelings. Maybe one day. I just turned 29. I am really confused if I just been a lesbian all along. Or what I am.

[u/Theperfectstorm666]

I had similar confusion. I have always enjoyed sex with men and prefer watching men in porn more than women. But I can't get romantic/in love feelings for men. With women, I love sex with them and can fall in love with them. I was confused for many years until I read that you can have romantic feelings for one gender only but still enjoy sex with both. So now I just accept that I am bisexual but would need to be in a relationship with a woman if I was looking for romance/love. Maybe you are similar but the other way round to me? It helped me to understand the confusing feelings/emotions I was experiencing.