r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/AlanParsons_01 • Jul 19 '26
πΏπππππππππ’ This is how you donβt give a fuck about what others think about you
Happiness is much more internal and peaceful. Itβs being completely content with who you are. Youβre comfortable with the decisions you make. You stop second guessing yourself. Because you have accepted the good and the bad of the person you are. Nothing else matters.
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u/c43ppy Jul 19 '26
When you are content to be laughed at for doing what serves you, then you may be free.Β
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u/AlanParsons_01 Jul 19 '26
Unless youβre a comedian, is being laughed at finding happiness. But as the saying goes, if someone is being laughed at, they donβt give a fuck
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u/Serious_Phrase5230 Jul 19 '26
for me its like i am trying to make my own decisions even if they dont align with others.. and ultimately i am failed in that route.. its still my decisions and my way...
been trying to do that a lot... but still failing in some aspects.. second guessing and thinking if i am wrong or cold feet due to other people's advise.. lol
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u/DoughnutKlutzy9479 Jul 19 '26
You have survived every challenge, every failure in your life.
We came here to fail at better and deeper challenges.It's only the illusion of success that can slow us down in the name of 'deserving' celebration. Secondly, it makes us avoid failure -- we get stuck because we don't want to face a thing that will become past as soon as we face it. We are bound to get past failures effortlessly, but success can make you forget that that is the most natural way of things.
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