r/feminineboys Jan 06 '26

Discussion if you are a minor i honestly recommend you read this…

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I’m going to say this how it is supposed to because it needs to be said and I do not think I have seen a single person mention it all.

If you are a minor (under 18), sexualizing yourself online is not empowerment, it is extremely dangerous.

I do not care if “everyone is doing it” because I do not, seeing thighs or bulges from a 13 year old child is absolutely disgusting especially when I am 17, and these are coming from teen subreddits.

I will prob sound like your parent or legal guardian when I say this but whatever you post, it is in sharpie. It will never leave the internet. People screenshotting, downloading or even worse, in places you will never see. (ie: the dark web on websites where creeps sell certain types of images).

Deleting a single reddit post doesn’t erase it. The image stays on Reddits internal servers, Screenshots exist. Archives exist. Private DMs get leaked. Stuff you post at Age 14 can resurface when you’re Aged 18, applying for college, jobs, or just trying to live your life.

The internet will never forget — even if you forget.

Posting Sexualised images of minors is illegal in many places, even if you post them yourself. That means:

• Platforms can report it

• Accounts can be investigated

• Parents can be contacted

• Police can get involved

You don’t get a free pass just because it was “your choice.” Also, the ones accessing it will also be breaking the law.

I am not trying to scare you, I am trying to keep you safe from the creeps of Reddit. The mass amounts of DMs I have had to deal with over the years shouldn’t be relived. Please keep yourself safe.


r/feminineboys Nov 15 '25

Discussion This is a community by femboys for femboys. With that in mind, some advice to visitors:

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We do not want to hear how horny femboys make you. No one wants to hear that.

We do not want to hear how much you want to date/cuddle/copulate with a femboy. It makes you look desperate.

If you want a friend who’s a femboy while not being one yourself, fine, but you better have a normal explanation as to why specifically it has to be a femboy.

We are not “better women” or replacements for them. If women are rejecting you on mass, it ain’t them it’s you. It’s insulting to suggest we have lower standards or would want to be your backup.

Building on that, we are not all magically more empathetic and “soft” than women. Don’t use us to justify misogyny.

This is not a dating pool. Go away. Bye bye.

This is not a place for you to experiment.

I do not care how innocent or wholesome your intentions are, the rules of the subreddit are clear. This isn’t a place to inflict your desires onto us.

We are not trans women. Femboys and trans women are two different groups, none of which exist solely for your gratification.

We will check your post history and if it’s just low effort hookup posts, bye bye.

Finally. Yes. It’s gay. Deal with it. (Edit: I mean it’s gay to like femboys if you are a guy.)

Edit 2: Not only is this not a place to find love/intercourse/femboys in general, this is also not a place to find personal therapists. Femboys are not here for you to trauma dump on, we are people too.

Edit 3 (yes we’re still going): We are not all gay. Some are straight, bi, ace etc. Even the ones who are gay are not exclusive to a specific dynamic (bottom). If you think femboys are all gay bottoms, I recommend you log off of orange and black YouTube and go outside.


r/feminineboys 8h ago

Support Almost got caught by my mom

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So this past weekend I went to a convention and decided to wear my skirt outside for the first time because nobody was home to see me and nobody would be home until the next day. I moved in with my aunt and uncle for college, so I didn’t think my mom could possibly see me. Well, I took a picture of some ice cream I was eating and didn’t realize I’d caught the skirt in the bottom right of the picture, so my mom asked if I had “brought your plaid jacket?” So I raced to the bathroom and changed into the spare pants I had packed in case I got embarrassed and then when she called (on FaceTime) I just explained that I hat been sitting next to someone in cosplay who was wearing a plaid skirt. I have been anxious about this since then and I’m scared she’ll question me about it


r/feminineboys 13h ago

Came out to parents

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THEY ACCEPTED IT My mom actually ended up crying but it was because she was happy I came to her and my dad said he loved me no matter what so they both said no matter how I identify dress do they will always love me till they die which I know sounds a tad morbid but oh my god I feel so much better sorry just wanted to get this out


r/feminineboys 13m ago

Discussion Your masculine side.

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Being a femboy means enjoying femininity and being perceived feminine, but what parts of your masculine identity do you still hold onto no matter what? Do you, or are you basically indistinguishable from a girl at this point?

I personally still hold dear a lot of my identity that I are viewed as masculine. Whenever I dress fem, I still at the very least like to keep my hair relatively short, bob length, but not anything that extends past my neck. It’s a simple signifier that I am still a boy, despite other things I do.

I also highly value my strong sense of humor, it’s the trait I hold most dear about myself. Women often avoid being outwardly funny because attracts too much attention, isn’t necessarily always proper, and can be seen as intimidating by men, which I think is a shame. I have a dry, sarcastic wit that I wouldn’t give up for anything, even if it makes me come across as less feminine.

So now what about you, what’s your “boy” half in the “femboy” label?


r/feminineboys 28m ago

Discussion Shaved my body for the first time ever

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Never shaved anything except my hair and face before. But yesterday I shaved everything except back, head, eyebrows and crotch area. Bought pink razors, went to shower, put shaving cream and started shaving.

It felt so weird and nice. Had to clean the blade after every strike but other than that it was so easy! Much easier than shaving my face. Tedious yes, but didn't even cut myself (I get cuts on my face almost every time). My partner gave me a tip of using creamy soap instead of shaving cream and surprisingly it worked better (just on the body, it didn't work on my face at all).

Results? My arms look tiny and flimsy and everything feels so intense now! I can feel the texture of my pants, my blanket, my partner's leg hair, my shirt and everything. I got a bit nostalgic because I think I definitely felt the pant texture as a kid when I had no hair but it's been so long now I'm not sure. But it sure feels magical!


r/feminineboys 23h ago

Discussion I got caught by my...

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I see these type of posts daily, and I'mhoping this might entertain some of you.

So, I got caught by my sons, both of them, on different occasions, within the same week.

Story 1: It was late at night, and I assumed everyone was asleep. It's after normal bed time, when I'm usually the only one up and can just be myself. I still game with friends, and sometimes will dress myself up for gaming. I had just zipped up my skirt when my 13 year old walked in the living room. I didnt run. I wasn't doing anything wrong. I just had chosen something he hadn't seen. He handled it very maturely, and asked a few questions (is that mom's? Why are you wearing that. Etc). I answered honestly, that it's mine and I like wearing it sometimes. He went back to bed, hopefully not scarred.

Story 2: this was early in the morning. I slept in a spaghetti strapped tank top and walked to the bathroom. I was gonna grab a shirt to throw over, but I had to pee. I rushed to the bathroom and realized on the way back that my 16 had old was in the hallway and saw me, quite clearly, wearing a girl's shirt. I didn't even acknowledge this one. I figure if I act like it's just my clothes (since that's exactly what they are) then maybe it won't be a big deal to anyone by me.

TL/DR: 15+ years with no issues and goy caught by both kids in the same week.


r/feminineboys 6h ago

Discussion Anyone else loving their skirt flare around them?

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Normally I smooth my skirt underneath me, but occasionally I allow it to flare out around me and it's so lovely. I only do it with skorts to avoid bare skin touching my chair, but when I do it's absolutely amazing😍😍


r/feminineboys 20h ago

I came out to my gf

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So I’ve been with my gf for a few months now and things have been going great she’s absolutely amazing, but I never wanted to tell her I was a femboy at first because I thought it would change things between us or worse she’d just up and leave. Anyway turns out she asked a couple of times if she could do my makeup just out of the blue, naturally I said yes but one night when she asked idk what came over me but I just told her everything about me being a femboy and showing all my clothes and stuff, and it turns out that she absolutely loves it. I am soooo happy rn she does my makeup up for me helps me pick outfits it’s literally the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I first told her a few weeks ago now we go clothes shopping nearly every weekend lol.


r/feminineboys 10h ago

Discussion Shaved or hairy femboy?

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Do you like natural hair, shaved or both are good?


r/feminineboys 4h ago

Discussion I want to go back to being fem

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So I always liked dressing and being feminine but about a year ago I stopped mainly cause I didn’t want people finding out and just after that I got a girlfriend and decided to stop completely and embraced my
Masculine side a lot more and stopped caring but now it’s all coming back to be mentally, not as much as it was but it seems like everyday I am thinking about, I have no more clothes, makeup, wigs anything like but really don’t want to get some more stuff just to throw it all away after a day cause I didn’t truly like it, I’m just scared of going back


r/feminineboys 6h ago

I need skin care advice

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I’ve got something going on with my skin everyone I’ve asked says it folicalitis the doctor said so too and he gave me clindomyicin to help clear it up. It’s still just as bad as it was and my skin on my legs isn’t healing properly in a few spots where I’ve been mosquito bit. I need advice as to what to do for my legs I’ve tried exploitation alcohol antibiotics hydrogen peroxide everything I can think of that is anti bacterial and I’ve even got antibacterial body wash. The doctor said it was bacterial but he never really did any tests just looked at it. I’m gonna go back soon but I wondered if anyone else has been through this and was able to heal it. If you wanna see how bad it is because you got some genuine advice dm me and I’ll show you.


r/feminineboys 14h ago

Advice Is 15 and 17 weird?

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I’m 17 and he is 15, for half of the year he will be 16 while I am 17 still. He is a femboy and I REALLY want to be a femboy (and will be buying femboy clothes probably this week).

We are in two different countries and will never meet, (at least not for years)

We are both aware of each other’s age and are fine about it.

I just want to know what the majority thinks?

I REALLY like him more than I have for any other boy EVERRR


r/feminineboys 13h ago

I did I thanked the owner of the beauty salon!!!

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In case you don't know me I've been posting here my progress into becoming more femenine since I started laser hair removal.

It was at this salon where I bought my first set of lingerie, and where I bought most of my fem clothing. But recently I've been venturing out, buying stocking, pantyhose, skirts and other things at different stores, at first extremely nervous, the latest purchases very relaxed I even asked the ladies at the stores for recomendations, I wasn't affraid to show the bra straps (Not that I was flashing anyone or anything, just things that happened), I still have not had a negative interaction (Fair enought people at the stores are probably more open to femenine men and also they want to make money XD).

But I would have not been able to do this if that first time I bought lingerie the owner wasn't as nice and supportive as she was.

In my last session while I was waiting for my turn I talked to the owner and told her what I was able to do now thanks to her first tew words of encouragement, she was again super nice and supportive, she even gave me a hug and a kiss on the head teehee.

I was super overjoyed!!

I was super busy this week with exams and this post got delayed and delayed until today xD


r/feminineboys 9h ago

Discussion Have to vent about my bs

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Idk how to really start this out but I just need to vent this out so basically me myself ive been doing fine recently

but I decided to just scroll on tt (in my secure folder which just shows femboy content rather than main app tt)

but I was scrolling and yk when you see another femboy around teenage years/ near my age and you see that

all over there thighs its just sh scars and you keep looking and its on there arms and body to and you get

this sad feeling but you want to help them badly but you cant cuz either they ignore anyone trying to help or they

just don't reply to anyone at all then you just feel useless that you cant help and you just keep looking and you

start remembering sad times like for me it was when I sh and then you just want to start cutting just for a fuck all

reason just cuz you cant help someone that even though you dont know you still care for them but not yourself

then it makes you more sad and feel more useless and you want to start sh again but I cant cuz I have a bf that

I care for and don't want to upset him I honestly haven't felt something like this in a while ive honestly forgot

most of the stuff I wanted to write I'll just fill it in with some facts about me

My name is Rhys (its horrible ik its pronounced Reece) im 16 I have a passion/hobbie for bikes mostly dirt bikes I ride motocross, Enduro and trail I also buy and sell bikes for profit like a non running bike and fix it to running and good looking condition for good profit my dream bike is a latest generation Yamaha YZ250F so a 2027 anyway its 4am im tired and that was my retarded ass venting hate if you want since I get enough hate from this world


r/feminineboys 9h ago

Advice Need workout recommendations!

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I'm relatively new to being a femboy. I really like to be fit, so I'd appreciate some tips. I am 6'2 and I have the metabolism of a mf hummingbird, I am only 135 pounds. I am NOT trying to burn fat, im looking for something to accentuate my thighs/glutes. I already run every day, so hopefully something to compliment that.


r/feminineboys 11h ago

Support I realized I’m much more into feminine guys and I don’t know how to feel.

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Hello everyone!

This is kinda my first time venting about any of this but I really don’t know how to feel about myself. For context I’m 21m and I’ve been living my whole life as a straight man. I broke up with my previous girlfriend a few years ago and since then I haven’t been attracted to any girl at all, be it at school or work or whenever I head to any of my social spaces. Eventually, while I was still in school, I met a classmate of mine who was a guy but very quiet and soft spoken. I didn’t think much of it and we exchanged numbers. We would learn more about each other and they ended up becoming one of my best friends. As time passed they became more and more feminine, trying to learn makeup or wearing their hair in ponytails. Eventually, they got a girlfriend and for some reason I felt off. I felt jealous. I brushed it off because I assumed I was still getting over my ex and that’s why I felt this way. Turns out I was jealous because someone started dating HIM, not because no one would date me. I started to hate myself for it as for most of my life everyone assumed I was gay when at that point in time I wasn’t. I still do now. For all of my life I’ve tried to become more of a “manly” man because I was so upset at the label people gave me. I never hated people who were gay, just myself, because everytime I acted like myself people thought I was. Here I am now a few years, I’ve tried speaking to girls to try and put myself back out there but I don’t feel anything towards them. But whenever I see a cute guy out on the street with a little bit of makeup on I can’t help but blush and look away. I don’t know how to tell my family as many have made it clear that they’d be heartbroken if I ended up gay or bi or whatever and were terrified when I was younger and acted more flamboyant. They only stopped worrying when I began acting like a guy (not that that’s not who I am, I am still very much myself as a more stereotypical albeit nerdy guy). I just begin to resent myself when I realize if I ever want love I’ll have to disappoint someone, be it myself or my family. I feel like if I ever brought home a guy, they’d all be disappointed thinking I got over being gay even though I wasn’t until recently. I don’t know, I just feel stuck and like I’m hiding this big thing from the people who love me.

Sincerely,
A confused person.


r/feminineboys 11h ago

I just bought a blahåj :3

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I kinda did order it without permission tho what do i do when i get it


r/feminineboys 3h ago

Support Need advice on becoming more attractive and workout routine

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Heya, I'm a bi man 27yo (1m85-70kg)(6"1-155lb)and I compare myself a lot. I try to get fit and have a nice smooth skin but at 27 I always think that it's too late... When I see people how are so cute, fit and all I said to myself that I wasted my time. I want to live nicely but don't know how. I want to feel more comfortable with myself. I workout once every two days with abs, chest and legs. I want to know what is your workout routine so I can get better.


r/feminineboys 14m ago

Best types of panties

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I've been looking on Amazon for some panties for under 10€ and I see good ones but idk what to get the shorter ones or the one that's larger or also is cotton better than polyester?


r/feminineboys 1h ago

Advice Femboy Makeup

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I wanna do makeup but i really have no idea where to start or how to get the items for it. I dont really have any female friends i could ask to help me out and im not sure what i need and how to do it. Whats a simple makeup with not that many things i need to buy i could do? Im really new to this femboy stuff btw so bear with me. Im southeast asian so my skin is on the browner side if that matter.


r/feminineboys 12h ago

Advice I think i wanna be a femboy.

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Im slowly have been thinking over the last year that I might wanna be a femboy. Now for context about me im a 22 year old straight cis male, have been my whole life. Now im not wanting to go full trans or anything like that, but I kinda like the idea of looking at myself in the mirror in girl clothes and feeling sexy and cute. Problem is im terrified, mainly of my family and what they'll think. Now they are very supportive and arent homophobic but, they'd definitely say stuff like "what? Why do you wanna dress like that? Are you gay? Why this? OK you do you" but they'd definitely question it hard. I really want some advice on what to do. How to change my body, how to feel, act, dress. Thank you.


r/feminineboys 10h ago

panties help

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Hey ladies,

I have a pretty average-to-large package in the front, and I really enjoy wearing women’s underwear. I’m looking for recommendations on styles that can accommodate me without sacrificing the feminine look.

I’m not really into boyshorts or anything too masculine. I love the more feminine, revealing cuts like thongs, cheekies, etc. Is there a particular style, brand, or cut you’d recommend that gives good front coverage while still looking and feeling feminine?

Would really appreciate your advice! 💕


r/feminineboys 20h ago

Discussion To other Feminine Guys, Do you Notice That When Guys "Like" Your Posts

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Do you notice that on apps like Instagram, if you do post photos of yourself, most of the "likes" that you get are from guys who don't show photos of themselves? That or if you get DM'd, it's also from guys who don't have photos of themselves? I suppose this is just because it's the same old closeted or DL guys liking your stuff but it's something I have noticed for years that whatever attention I get on the app, it's usually from guys who don't show themselves.

I'm just curious if this happens to other fem guys concerning men who "like" or send DMs to you, preferably on Instagram because I know it's already a given on an app like Grindr.


r/feminineboys 15h ago

Support Shaving

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I find it really uncomfortable and time-consuming to shave my legs and my private parts, apart from the fact that later I usually itch and the area is sensitive, especially in my private parts so I ask you, do you know any less uncomfortable way to shave so that my body is smooth again?