r/WhatIsTheTea • u/Ashish_ank What the Fuck • 6h ago

watch this Louisville man throws beer, shoves and kicks woman for rejecting him on second date

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u/ORIONFEDERATION 5h ago

The way he pushes her by the neck with such force and yet it seemed entirely effortless. Holy fuck.

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u/Easy_Aioli9376 5h ago

She's been watching too many movies. She was legitimately going to try and fight him? Girl, he's a man. He is much bigger and much much much stronger than you. RUN! He used like 10% of his force to push her, and she could have snapped her neck on one of the benches behind her as she fell. RUN! WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!

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u/Claireechibi 3h ago

Fight or flight isn't a rational choice. Some people automatically go into fight mode which is hard to override when your adrenaline is pumping.

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u/JoeBarelyCares 2h ago

So it’s ok for her and not for him? You can’t justify her picking up a weapon and criticize him for shoving her down. Shoving her, not hitting her or doing anything to cause serious damage. A shove against someone who had just picked up a weapon.

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u/NovelLeather2641 2h ago

He wasn’t in danger though. It’s like saying a squirrel & bobcat are the same levels of danger. There was no point where he felt threatened with anything more than a slap, which isn’t bodily harm. He threw beer in her face. He started it. You can’t start shit, then claim you’re ’defending’ yourself.

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u/Shartjakkker 23m ago

Fight or flight isn't a rational choice. Some people automatically go into fight mode which is hard to override when your adrenaline is pumping.

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u/JoeBarelyCares 2h ago

The bottle she picked up wasn’t dangerous?

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u/Vivio0 2h ago

She was defending herself after that psycho pushed and kicked. You want her to fucking cower??

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u/JoeBarelyCares 2h ago

No need to cower. He was walking away. She advances on him and picks up a weapon.

If the genders were reversed, we’d be all over him for instigating this.

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u/smashley951 20m ago

She re-engaged with because he was leaving with her purse... Unless that was his purse, in which case the piece of dog shit bitch moves he made on her make more sense now

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u/safetyIsGoodActually 2h ago

Nah man fuck off

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u/JoeBarelyCares 2h ago

Fine. Fucking off. Just don’t pick up a weapon if you aren’t prepared for the response. It was a shove. Not a fist. She’s lucky. Did you read her side? She admits that she was mad for being berated for 24 hours. She admits to grabbing his beer. She admits grabbing a weapon (the bottle) as he was leaving.

Should he have shoved her? I wouldn’t. Then again, I have never had an angry woman approach me with a weapon in her hands. He’s an asshole. She’s not innocent.

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u/safetyIsGoodActually 2h ago

You're really bad at fucking off

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u/NovelLeather2641 2h ago

She grabbed a weapon AFTER he attacked her, numbnuts. Sheesh🤣

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u/JoeBarelyCares 2h ago

And he’s walking away. If the genders were reversed, we’d be all over him and rightly so.

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u/Development-Feisty 1h ago

We don’t know he’s walking away, we know that he walked from .8 to point B but that doesn’t mean he wasn’t planning just to turn around and start beating the shit out of her again

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u/light_to_shaddow 56m ago

Arguably, She attacked first. Grabbing the glass as he was trying to drink.

He then threw the drink, she stood and attacked again, he pushed she fell over the seat.

The kick while she was down was egregious and completely unnecessary.

Grabbing the bottle escalated it, bottles can kill, which at that point all bets are off.

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u/yumyumnoodl3 3h ago

she is a victim of modern propaganda

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u/PsychicFoxWithSpoons 49m ago

Nope. She just didn't want to hurt him and didn't think he wanted to hurt her. Squaring up with the bottle was fine (considering how he attacked her), expecting him not to try to kill her was not.

If she had run and called the cops? Great idea. Do that.

The moment she squared up with the bottle, the end goal should have been permanent disfigurement, as a response to him trying to permanently disfigure or disable her. His actions were inappropriate and should have earned him a Corona to the face. (I see that she tried to stop him from drinking, which may have been inappropriate. The title at least is wrong. But, he was still out of line especially with the kick.) We would all be laughing at him for thinking he was all big and strong, only to get slashed by an improvised weapon and kicked out the bar. Instead she got fucked up because she was not brave enough.

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u/Large-Translator-759 5h ago

Women entirely underestimate just how much stronger a man is than a woman. It's orders of magnitude in difference.

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u/Professional-Gas9360 2h ago

Girls been watching too much TV

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u/jml5r91 2h ago

lol it isn’t orders of magnitude in difference. When comparing an average woman to the top of the male gene pool, you’re probably looking at an about 1 order of magnitude. If you took averages, it’s probably 4-5x stronger. Still a major fucking difference

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u/CrayonMayon 1h ago

lol it isn’t orders of magnitude in difference

oh?

If you took averages, it’s probably 4-5x stronger.

oh...kay

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u/BloodAwaits 1h ago

You understand that magnitude is a measurement of 10x exponential growth right?

As in 1 magnitude is 10x more, and 2 magnitudes is 100x more.

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u/Aternus21 4h ago

careful, pointing out these differences can be transphobic these days, be careful

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u/Darth_Rubi 1h ago

When she grabbed that bottle I instantly knew where this would end up