r/WhatIsTheTea • u/Ashish_ank What the Fuck • 6h ago

watch this Louisville man throws beer, shoves and kicks woman for rejecting him on second date

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u/ZombieJoesBasement 5h ago

There are reports that Nathan Seale was also fired from both of his jobs, and she was able to get a restraining order. Apparently before this meeting he had been harassing her nonstop via phone, and was berating her for a long time at the table before this video started.

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u/Weenington_ 5h ago

I hope she has security cameras around her house, because finding where people live is so easy. He's going to blame her instead of himself for losing his jobs, and I'm nervous to think how far a person like this will go if they're already willing to do this in public with cameras everywhere.

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u/Acrobatic_Camera6073 5h ago

You know for a fact that this dude never takes any accountability and will fully blame her for his actions. She definitely needs to be careful

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u/Ozepzep 3h ago

Hope she has a support group or anything so she doesn't feel like the victum. Also hope the guy gets help because this is no way how you should treat anyone, public or at home.

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u/corazontex 2h ago

Help would be applicable only in the case that someone is willing to listen and take accountability. I highly doubt that will happen based on his actions in the first place.

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u/Ozepzep 2h ago

If it's a mental health issue, rather he has it or not. It's never to late to get help and grow into a better person. He might not want it but still.

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u/LeaveTheClownAlone 2h ago

The old “Look what you made me do” crap.

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u/Agreeable-Emu4033 25m ago

She did grab his drink for no reason

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u/Original-Rush139 4h ago

I hope she stays at a hotel until he’s in jail. 

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u/Weenington_ 4h ago

The problem is that the system usually let's these people go. When I was in high school, my dad thought I wasnt home and had my mom cornered in the basement. I heard a scuffle, my dad said something about murdering her, and my mom yelled for me to call 911. She had marks, but he was released the next day.

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u/Katefreak 3h ago

I'm so sorry that happened to you. 🫂

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u/Weenington_ 3h ago edited 2h ago

Oh that's just the tip of the iceberg of my life. No worries, but thank you <3

Edit: I worded that horribly. All the bad things that happened are in the past, so that's what I mean no worries. My mental health is the only thing that didnt come out unscathed.

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u/LordTengil 3h ago

Well now we are even more worried! Rooting for you.

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u/Weenington_ 2h ago

I edited my comment because I worded that poorly. My life was an absolutely horror for a long time, but it's all in the past now.

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u/MrHim99 2h ago

Fking Christ. My dad threw my mom out barefoot into the cold just cuz she took her phone back. The fking prick is in his 60s & still has the balls to do that. My mom's a stay at home uneducated & doesn't have the guts to send his dumbass to jail. My life is in shambles financially cuz of him coercing me & he used me like a doormat & I listened to him cuz I was intimidated by him & didn't digest the after effects of lost time that I'm suffering now. I should've called the cops on him when it was happening instead of unnecessarily tryna work dumbass off jobs (the issue was him coercing me to work odd jobs to keep paying for Obamacare instead of just taking Medicaid due to a dumbass reason). Now I'm still living under his roof after getting away from him by flying to the otherside of the world & him saying my mom needs me, he got laid off & re-hired back now he's fking useless cuz he works in NJ & has my mom serving him & can't do shit for himself & he's a cloud architect engineer.

I just need more time to fix my life in the US - what did your asshole prick father do? Like what's a big part of the iceberg - can you tell me? I'm curious.

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u/Not_A_Meme 3h ago

Is your mom okay now? Please tell me she's not living with him any more.

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u/Weenington_ 3h ago

Shes just fine. I probably sound cold, but my mom could have easily sold the house and kept me from his abuse, but allowed me to also go through it... so I'm a bit bitter. She watched him kick me and put his hands around my throat as a middle schooler.

So yeah, she's fine. She had a bunch of babies from different men to keep the child support flowing and is currently remarried to a sucker. I also helped her with her bills in my 20s despite what she allowed me to go through.

She didnt deserve abuse, but she also was an abusive parent in a different way, although there were a few times she took a page out my dads book and hit me with those little tree branches that bend really easily so they dont break (we called them switches), and also hit me in my face.

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u/shoeless_doh 3h ago

Bruh. I just want to say, don't ever take shit from anyone who says something to the effect of you "shouldn't be bitter"

It's fine to be bitter about some shit like that and for these MFers preaching "forgiveness" if they believe that, they also have to believe some things can be unforgivable

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u/Weenington_ 2h ago

I appreciate that because I'm extremely bitter.

Honestly a nice apology from her is all I need, but I'll never get one. I believe in God, and I realize nobody is perfect, but at the same time, we are supposed to feel remorse, and she doesnt seem to. Forgiveness isnt a ticket to do whatever you want without repercussions.

I also understand if someone cant get there when it comes to forgiveness even if the other party is remorseful. It's not my place to decide.

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u/Winter_Cost602 2h ago

I hope that you have a happy future. You didn't deserve any of the shit that your parents put you through

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u/Weenington_ 1h ago

Thank you. I'm sorry I just made this whole shit about me in the comments. I'm just really struggling tonight.

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u/shoeless_doh 28m ago

Think about it this way. I've seen stories about some elderly Alzheimer's patient turning super racist as they progress and there is debate whether that's "actually who they were and just can't hide it any more" or if it's just a tragic side effect of their brain decay and they never actually hated black people.

Whether they are, were, weren't or aren't, who would blame a black health care worker for not wanting to put up with that shit?

I won't get into the problems my mother and I had growing up or how my step dad complicated things even further (and yeah he hit me too and that's not the worst of any of it) but I'll take my childhood over how you e described yours any day of the week... But my mom did give me a really fucked up piece of advice years ago that has actually informed the way I (don't at all) interact with her in the last few years. "You can't pick up every sick hurt puppy you see on the side of the road, some of them are just going to bite you, piss all over you, and die"

She has a lot of mental and emotional problems. She never sought help for them. She's the metaphorical puppy and I'm not going to make myself a piss target by letting her get with in range again. Even now, she is nearing the big end of life decisions and nobody knows her like I do. The few people in her extended family who are helping only see her a couple times a year and they don't know what's behind the curtain like I do.

For me, an apology would have been nice years ago but without some effort to change always would have been too little too late. I finished mourning for the apology I was never going to get, years ago. She can't be convinced that there is anything she could possibly feel remorse for.

I listened to her harp about forgiveness for a lot of years before I finally realized what she means when she says it. To her, "forgiveness" doesn't mean me absolving her of some transgression, to her it is just me agreeing to wipe away the tally mark of my perception of her transgression (my perception because she never believes, agrees, or understands that it has any merit) so that her column doesn't start looking super lopsided. Her asking for forgiveness is actually her demanding appeasement.

Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm

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u/plainjane202567 3h ago

That’s crazy. I hope you both are safe now. Also, you now have proof why you’d need to use lethal force if necessary.

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u/94_stones 3h ago

He’s not going to jail, and even if he does it won’t be for long. I may get downvoted for this but she needs a firearm.

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u/IAmTheFly-IAmTheFly 2h ago

Only if she's literate in how to control it. Or else this could be very dangerous.

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u/Notapartyhobo 5h ago

Hopefully he's nkt smart enough to figure put where she lives if he didn't know all ready.

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u/Flimsy-Poetry1170 3h ago

Hope she can find somewhere to stay until he’s locked up behind bars.

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u/ymmotvomit 2h ago

A couple big a** dogs and a firearm too.

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u/E-2theRescue 4h ago

Apparently before this meeting he had been harassing her nonstop via phone, and was berating her for a long time at the table before this video started.

Oh. He 100% subscribes to "manosphere" shit. Without a single doubt.

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u/Trrollmann 3h ago

Why? IDK any of the dogma of the 'manosphere' and this sounds pretty... 'ordinary'? As in: This sounds like something that could have happened 10, 20, 30 years ago.

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u/GloomyCheesecake999 1h ago

What's crazy is there's trolls on here defending him

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u/psuedophilosopher 5h ago

It doesn't make sense to me that she would have blocked him multiple times while being harassed by him and then follow that up with an in person break up. I'm not defending him, he deserves jail time for his crimes here, but I don't think her telling of the situation is completely truthful. Not that anything she might have said is deserving of him kicking her and shoving her down, but there's three sides to every story.

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u/redshift83 2h ago

She makes irresponsible decisions. That’s how the relationship started (whatever that relationship is)

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u/RanchHere 24m ago

And likely she’s made these types of decisions in other relationships.

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u/vidoeiro 7m ago

That is already obvious from the video that she keeps going back to confronting him after being shoved the first time , as I she had a chance in a fight.

But these are 2 different things , she is not smart he should be in jail

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u/TigreImpossibile 19m ago

I mean, you don’t have to blame her, it’s likely that the back story you’re retelling isn’t accurate. I heard somewhere else it was a first date?

Either way poor judgement on her part isn’t illegal. Assaulting someone certainly is. I’m just glad it was caught on camera. What a piece of shit he is.

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u/Hbic_in_training 3h ago

Username checks out.

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u/BitWardenEternal 3h ago

Why would she meet up with him?

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u/Ornery_Bug_920 2h ago

B/C women always think they need to be nice. Instead of listening to her gut, filing a police report for the harassment and staying as far away from him as possible, she thought if she were nice, and spoke to him in person that she could talk him out of him out of harassing her further. No, some people be crazy, and dangerous. No amount of being nice to them or using logic will get through to them.

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u/cosmic-ballet 2h ago

Why does that even matter? He assaulted her. He’s the villain. That’s the end of the story.

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u/OnceMoreAndAgain 2h ago

The person is asking valid questions about a situation that we don't have full information on.

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u/rcknmrty4evr 2h ago

Abusive men will always be defended and excused, as seen here.

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u/Separate_Recover4187 4h ago

He's not in jail???

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u/Ok-Suggestion3534 4h ago

It’s Kentucky. Probably earned him a spot on the force 

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u/ElementNumber6 3h ago

He's not a cop???

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u/ThatTotoro 4h ago

"she was able to get a restraining order. Apparently before this meeting he had been harassing her nonstop via phone, and was berating her for a long time at the table before this video started."

This is a VERY common pattern of behavior that leads up to the abusive man murdering the woman. I hope she can stay safe.

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u/VirtualMatter2 3h ago

The question I have is why did she hang out with him late on a deserted patio with all these red flags flapping in her face? 

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u/ThisSiteSucks8485 3h ago

I really don't understand why men act like that. 

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u/Trrollmann 3h ago

Women aren't unique in having psychological issues. Men do too.

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u/Rare-Criticism-8895 3h ago

Oof I’m glad she got out okay he seems really unhinged and dangerous

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u/FudgenSticks 3h ago

YES. Great news. This POS needs to rot in jail.

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u/The_Raven_Born 3h ago

Cant wait for this P.O.S to make some Social media post trying to excuse his bullshit.

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u/GucciTheSnowman 2h ago

Why the hell would she meet up with him, then ? This story doesn't pass the smell test.

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u/OneLastRoam 2h ago

Did he grab her purse too or was that his bag?

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u/Long_Procedure_2629 2h ago

Andrew Tate collection

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u/MidKnightshade 2h ago

He needs to be in jail without bond.

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u/ww_in_transit 1h ago

Why would she meet with him in person if he was harassing her?

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u/Good-Celebration-686 35m ago

Seems she tried to steal his drink and then went to attack him. He just made some preemptive strikes. I’d guess it was him that rejected her

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u/Shartjakkker 22m ago

Apparently pulling an atlas here

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u/Nice-River-5322 5h ago

Not entirely sure what harassing employers is supposed to accomplish

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u/E-2theRescue 4h ago

Saves them money.

If I found out my employees were harassing women, minorities, or anyone else, they would be walking out that door. If you openly harass others, then you are a liability to my company. Bigotry bleeds into sales. If you cannot be a nice person to a woman, trans person, immigrant, or whatever in your off-hours, then you won't be nice to them when you're on the clock, too, even if it's done subconsciously.

And yes, I've fired employees for explicit bigotry before. My company also let one of these "manosphere" jackasses loose in a different department against my warnings, and we ended up dealing with the cops because he sexually assaulted another employee. I saw it coming months in advance, and they did nothing.