r/WhatIsTheTea • u/Ashish_ank What the Fuck • 6h ago

watch this Louisville man throws beer, shoves and kicks woman for rejecting him on second date

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u/dot617857 6h ago

Poor lady damn

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u/jamintime 6h ago

I mean not saying she deserved it but she tried to grab his drink, then jumped him, then grabbed a bottle to use as a weapon. She could have deescalated or retreated at any point but instead remained confrontational and kept coming back for more. Seems like trashy behavior all around.

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u/sour_lemon_ica 6h ago

Are you suggesting women just meekly take a beating in this scenario?

Straight to jail

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u/jamintime 6h ago

Whether you’re a man or a woman in this scenario the best approach is WALKING THE FUCK AWAY. It’s not self-defense to feel like you need to protect your honor by escalating the situation. That’s a choice. If she had left after having beer poured on her there’s no reason to think he would have shoved her to the ground.

Again not justifying the man’s behavior but pretending like the lady was just some victim minding her own business shows a disregard for what happened in the video.

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u/Moar_Cuddles_Please 6h ago

I’d grab the bottle too for self defense. It was clear he had a physical advantage over her and having any sort of weapon helps if you plan on defending yourself or deterring the attacker from a second attack.

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u/ArtisticDepth8279 5h ago

I don't understand this. He looked like he was about to drink it. Not dump it on her.

Was he upset she was dumping him so he decided to drink the drink he was paying for??

He was not approaching her at all, she went for the bottle and escalated into him

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u/CumDwnHrNSayDat 2h ago

It wasn't even her drink

“I never once touched him,” she wrote. “Yes, I did go to dump his beer out after sitting there being berated and called every name in the book, after already 24 hours of being harassed by 6 different accounts every time I’d block a new one.”

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u/ArtisticDepth8279 6h ago

Why isnt anyone else mentioning this?

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u/FRagebait 5h ago

Because most are reading the statement and taking in the context. 

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u/femoral_contusion 6h ago

Uh pretty sure he took her drink and she reached to take it back.

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u/rampant-bisexuality 6h ago

She tried to grab HER drink back after he grabbed it to throw at her (which he succeeded at) and grabbed his drink to use as self defense.

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u/Apprehensive_Ad_6157 6h ago

I hope you NEVER have children especially a girl, god help us all.

You’re basically saying she deserved it ASSHOLE!!!!!

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u/Soccerjeansmommie 6h ago

Wtf is wrong with you.