Hey y’all! Thought I’d come down and get some tips since I was hoping to go out and enjoy some of the clubs near Sydney as a patron. I’ve been once or twice before but I thought I fucked up previously so I was hoping to get some tips on how to better enter the space and actually be worth the time (used to work as a bouncer at one but we could always learn and improve yk?).

Obviously there’s the main things like

* don’t be a dick

* don’t be a creep

But I’m hoping to get some of the more underrated insider tips. Stuff that you guys would appreciate in your customers on stage and in the rooms.

internet safety vs hosting a party. how do i find balance between the two to ensure i can make the most profit at my party, while also remaining safe on the day to day. i am hosting at my home club and would like to post my flyer on more public platforms to bring in more people but want to also be as safe as possible.

Are there any clubs in ATL, the DMV or NY that hire BBW strippers? Do they exist? Anyone have recs?

Hey all! 2 kinda general questions and then one really specific one 😭, I’m sorry if this is strange, I just don’t want to make any of you feel weird while going to the club. Start with general ones.

1. Is it weird to talk during a lap dance? I feel like it’s weird for me to speak sometimes but the stripper will do something and something will slip out like a “holy fuck” or “woah” kinda thing. I immediately feel embarrassed about it but I’ve never had any of them say anything about it.

2. Is there a better way to breathe during shows? I feel like I’m kinda being gross sometimes when they’ve got there body or whatever in my face and I’m breathing out of my nose. I always feel bad because I don’t want them to think I’m crazy trying to smell them? Then I think about if my breath is getting on their skin and I feel bad. Idk if that’s weird. I’m sorry!

3. My most recent experience at a club, I was sitting near the stage and this lady was doing some crazy shit. Like the core strength and ability alone was impressive. When she came by to collect tips I handed her a $50 and told her how cool her routine was and how insane her core strength must be. She kinda looked surprised and didn’t take my money? Was it weird to have said that?

Im really sorry, I really like clubs but I don’t want to make the strippers uncomfortable and idk who else to ask.

Thank you!!

This is a genuine question. I fall into the obese category bmi 30. And have major body dysmorphia. I have thought of stripping but fear i will not be hired or laughed out the room. Genuine help pls.

Do I introduce myself to the manager as my real name? Or my stage name? I don’t know how this works. Any advice would be greatly appreciated

I figured I would ask even though I’m pretty sure I know the answer but I wanted to know how the singular strip club in Montana feels about black thick girls lol. I know there is one in Billings and I’m new to the area so I wanted to hear if anyone here has any experience!

Am i the only one who gets turned on sometimes when im stripping? Im new, 4 months in, 20f. My co workers all say they dont but i get turned on by the weirdest things when i strip. Does this happen to anyone else and any tips to help me keep professional when it does happen?

Hi guys. I posted here maybe two years ago when i quit the club cold turkey due to blacking out at work. I started drinking again shortly after that and have been really heavily this last year that i went back. Like everyday. Anyways Im going to a rehab tonight and just wanted to remind myself and others that this sucks. Withdrawal sucks. Being the dancer that is always drunk sucks. My first night dancing about five years ago I got trashed, crashed my car, got a dui and lost my day job. You would think i would have learned my lesson lol. Thats all. Thanks for everyones support the other time i quit.

Like, am I online at the least usual time or something? (I’m European, so might be)

I’ve looked up and read post about similar experiences and there’s a lot of information in the comment section except what I’m actually looking for. I’d appreciate all the help I can get.

For context, I'm a woman and I was at a club last week. I met a stripper and spent an hour with her, and it went really well. She suggested we meet outside the club, and I agreed, but when we went to meet, her clothes were wet, or maybe she hadn't slept enough. I went back to the club to see her, and we spent another three hours together. She booked a first table for the next day, but she canceled because she hadn't slept enough. This was yesterday. Is she making excuses to avoid seeing me outside the club and only wants me there, spending money on her? I'm confused; I like her…

I feel really stupid posting this. But I figured if any community would know, it would be the girls over here. My nipples aren’t particularly huge, but when I’m cold they get so small and cute. Has anyone figured out any ideas on how to keep them that way for a few hours at a time?

For anyone wondering, piercing them does not work, unfortunately :(

Dancer here, looking to ask some questions of any dancers who have danced here previously. Looking to ask some in private as I dont want to air it out publicly

What clubs in FL are busy and willing to take in a girl like me? 22, Hispanic, 5’2, 125 lbs. I need a new club because it’s so slow it feels like self harm whenever I walk in. Please recommend clubs in cities you think I’d make money at even if it’s outside of FL.

Does anyone know any strip clubs in Chicago or the first half of Indiana that let you basically come in and work there for one night? Idk what it’s called but please let me know asap

Hi i am 23 Female, 15 stone but currently on a weight loss journey but I also suffer with kyphosis I’m trying to get support to fix it etc would I have to wait til it’s fixed to become one ? I’m also gonna start pole dancing classes in September as my university does classes so will help with toning my body and weight loss.

Does it feel weird to be on stage and then women enter the club?

Wanted to take a shot and see if there is anyone who is currently or has worked at the club Sassy’s in Portland and ask if they have a review on what it’s like working there? Can’t find anything recent and genuinely curious if it’s worth trying to audition and a newbie :) trying to find a side gig to make some money while searching for jobs.