r/SipsTea 19h ago

Wait a damn minute! So what’s taking so long?

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u/Ok_Cauliflower_3007 18h ago

This is actually the biggest issue other than different states having different standards and why comparing any two cases is pointless. Both sides bring on highly qualified experts and the case often then hangs on which one performs best in the eyes of the jury. And since it’s also a different jury every time it’s really hard to make a comparison.

u/waitwuh 17h ago

Yeah I have met some people who are very, very well respected and high performing in their narrow fields. They can be genuinely geniuses… but, socially? Kinda grating. Them trying to explain something to absolute laymen would be a ridiculous endeavor. It doesn’t mean they’re wrong, or any less educated or experienced or specialized or anything like that. But communicating complex concepts to a jury takes more than base specialized expertise and also challenges their capability to communicate with and even educate an average or - likely present - below average intelligence person. So I can easily see how you could get an expert that is absolutely correct in their analysis… and yet have a jury that doesn’t buy into it. Because specialized experts in niche fields are not necessarily natural gifted communicators or educators. Also, in a jury of “peers,” there’s going to be representatives of the lower half of the bell curve, too. You just can’t bank on the jury being able to comprehend an expert’s testimony.

u/XXXperiencedTurbater 16h ago

I totally buy this bc I’m a regular schlub and trying to explain basic stuff to my kids can be absolutely infuriating sometimes.

I can’t imagine how frustrating it would be if I had deep knowledge and the people I was talking to didn’t have the “just kids” excuse

u/waitwuh 16h ago

Your comment reminds me of how my parents answered questions when I was very young g.

My dad often couldn’t think of how to say something accurately, so he just spouted nonsense. He was always very unserious.

My mother on the other hand got too detailed… but often missed the crux of the question, especially whatever would have been age appropriate.

So like for example I asked where babies came from, and my dad started telling me about how he and mom bought us from a kmart on sale because we had tails and the stork delivered us to their door st a discount.

My mother instead launched into an explanation of the female hormone cycle and ovulation. I didn’t have the attention span to withstand distilling her detailed accounting down to the eventually explained but could have been summarized gist that mom had an egg, dad sent over a sperm, these two cells met up, a fetus formed and grew in mom’s uterus, mom’s belly grew the baby, and then she gave birth.

My childhood was exasperating, honestly. I was relieved when i started to have access to the internet. If I hadn’t, I might otherwise have the strangest ideas about stuff.