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u/Timbucktwo1230 Therapy For All 🩷 5d ago
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u/HomegrownMike 5d ago

Let’s be honest, she practiced what she preached. Only about 1% of that group does.

u/LegitimateGur5775 5d ago

I wish it was as high as 1%...

u/cyrusthemarginal 5d ago

look for the helpers

u/AcceptableWindow4656 2d ago

Exactly. She didn’t just talk about those values, she actually lived them. That’s what made her so special

u/ytilonhdbfgvds 3d ago

You say while literally generalizing, and demeaning that group of people.  Having been to the south many times for business.. they are some of the best people in the county.

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u/SmokeMaleficent9498 5d ago

In life be a Dolly not a Trump.

u/GodOfDarkLaughter 5d ago edited 4d ago

"Don't molest kids you've met and murder ones you never will; encourage a love of reading and make music inspired by the folk melodies of the Smokey Mountains, instead!"

u/SmokeMaleficent9498 5d ago

I couldn't have said it better.

u/jaxonya 5d ago

Also, christians need to stop claiming Dolly. She specifically stated that she was not a christian. She believed in jesus and said god was her best friend, but she was not one of you

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u/FuckYeaSeatbelts 5d ago

Who are you quoting? Dolly said this?

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u/Skrdykat1000 5d ago

Or: don't be a Donny be a Dolly!

u/Whitestone7 5d ago

Be a Dolly, not a Donny?

u/fapperontheroof 5d ago

Literally just thought “Be Like Dolly” would be a bumper sticker I might actually put on my car.

u/JorJorBinks101 2d ago

I love this!

u/DissKhorse 5d ago

Be the tits, not the ass.

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u/Redbeardthe1st 5d ago

Dolly Parton was an amazing human being. The world is diminished with her loss.

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u/cuckyunicorn 5d ago

MAGA truly are the scum of this earth

u/snoogins355 5d ago

Hillary wasn't wrong about the basket of deplorables

u/cuckyunicorn 5d ago

I have much worse words to say about them but I don’t want to get banned

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u/jeffreydowning69 5d ago

And a Magaet already destroyed her star on The Walk Of Fame

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u/ThisOnes4JJ 5d ago

obligatory: If Dolly was that worried  then what the hell did Jolene look like!??

u/Born_Cap244 4d ago

That's a great picture of her I bet she liked that. I remember her on the Tonight show with Johnny Carson they were terrific together.

u/WowIfOnly 5d ago

And she also proves that someone can fit a bunch of Conservative stereotypes of a "traditional woman" and still be demonized by Republicans anyway because she dared to suggest maybe we shouldn't treat other people like shit by default and maybe kids should know how to read.

u/SweetPrism 5d ago

Watching Republicans desperately find a way to claim her as one of them and coming up short has been cracking me up. On paper, she fits the demographic--in her actions, she more accurately represents Jesus than literally any individual in the Republican party. I would stake my dog's life on a MAGA being the one who defaced her Hollywood star.

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u/FunSwitch7400 5d ago

Jimmy Carter did something similar look what I got him

u/OOO0OO00O 5d ago

What did you get him? Is it a watch? Or a bassoon?

u/FunSwitch7400 5d ago

I got him my deepest appreciation for being a phenomenal person.

u/OOO0OO00O 5d ago

Nice! I got him a bag of peanuts.

u/raspberryharbour 5d ago

He's jorkin his peanuts in heaven now

u/OOO0OO00O 5d ago

Jorkin wit Jebus.

u/Ktan_Dantaktee 5d ago

What the fuck did you do to Jimmy Carter

u/Logical_Net6108 5d ago

Ladies and gentlemen, we got him. Jimmy Carter.

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u/oldbastardbob 5d ago

Dolly grew up poor. She knew what it's like at the bottom of the USA's economic pyramid. I figure that has something to do with her not being judgmental or biased.

u/According-Insect-992 Just Chill 😎 5d ago

Unfortunately, there are a lot of celebrities and business people who grew up in poverty and immediately become giant dicks when they get money.

u/captainkhyron 5d ago

Money doesn't change you. It makes you more of who you are.

u/oOGeorgesOo 5d ago

There is a lot of poor people that dont wait to get rich to become giant dicks also.

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u/FlatwormFrosty7233 5d ago

She grew up poor, and I feel the majority of poor people have more empathy for others vs the majority of rich people

u/prettynatttwild 5d ago

Ehhhh not necessarily

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u/Born_Cap244 4d ago

That's probably true but you're the first person I've seen put it that way.

u/OhWhatsHisName 5d ago

Christians have a Dolly problem.

Dolly has proven that you can absolutely be an unashamed Christian, and people will not hate you for it. Sure, some people may have been upset at her being a Christian (just as they're upset at anyone who is a Christian, or perhaps any religion), and lately I've seen a LOT of Christians upset with her acceptance of others (and her vaccine donations, and saying black lives matter, and the way she dresses), but Dolly never backed down from her Christianity.

Half of her songs (heck, 2/3, 3/4, 9/10?!?) talk about God, her acting roles and appearances don't back down from her only behaving how she wanted to behave, she only did collabs with other artists if they changed the words for her, etc. She constantly said during her low points she would pray to God, she said she prayed to God for guidance, she constantly thanked God for her gifts. She was undeniably a Christian, and she never once hid it.

Importantly, she was very much a "my religion doesn't allow me to do that" Christian and not "my religion doesn't allow you do that" Christian, and THAT is the difference. The bible says that Christians should be the light of the world, and should show the others who they are by how they love others, and THAT is what Dolly did. I'll even quote her:

I keep saying 'If you're the fine Christian that you think you are, why are you judging people?' That's God's job. We're not God, we're not judges, we're supposed to love one another, we're supposed to not judge.

And THAT is the problem many Christians have to face right now. Dolly was SHAMELESSLY Christian, and very, VERY few people hated her. So if you're a Christian and think people hate you for your beliefs, you need to ask yourself why people hate you for your beliefs but don't hate Dolly for her beliefs?

u/jenglasser 5d ago

Very, very well said.

u/Near-Scented-Hound 5d ago

Dolly wasn’t blonde. That was part of her persona that she marketed. She even said that she knew she wasn’t dumb and she knew she wasn’t blonde.

u/The_Rope_Daddy 5d ago

She wasn't rhinestoned either, that was just the clothes she wore.

She literally dyed her hair blonde, just like Sydney Sweeney and all those women on Fox News.

u/Appeltaart232 5d ago

She’s been quite open about the fact these are all wigs

u/The_Rope_Daddy 5d ago

You are right, I didn't know she wore wigs, I assumed it was dyed based o the comment I responded to. But, her hair was natually blonde (just not platinum).

u/Near-Scented-Hound 5d ago

She literally wore a wig - she had loads of them.

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u/Persea_americana 5d ago

I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not dumb and I also know I'm not blonde - Dolly Parton, 1978

u/Diligent-Till-8832 5d ago

A gem of a human being!

Talented, kind and principled!

They don't make them like they used.

u/Stormpax 5d ago

And yet somehow conservatives think she was one of them lol

u/Backstreetgirl37 5d ago

Every time I see posts like this on facebook it gets "Um Acktually"'d by maga so fast it's terrible.

u/TheActualNemo 5d ago

I hate what America has done to Christianity. Christianity is supposed to be synonymous with respecting and loving your fellow man. Instead we get posts praising people (RIP Dolly, she was a saint) for being Christians AND good people, like those are opposites somehow.

Ignore me it just irks me deeply and had to get it out.

u/Flashy_Emergency_263 5d ago

She was good at calling out fake Christians without resorting to that phrase.

u/KCChiefsGirl89 1d ago

As a Christian, same.

u/Wrathful_Synn 5d ago edited 5d ago

Dolly will always be a shining example of how great Southern Culture can be when it’s not being actively hijacked by racist dipsh!ts and the bad actors grifting off them. As a southerner myself she is one of the few people who actually made me feel proud to be from the South. May her memory live forever in the hearts and minds of humanity because if anyone has earned such a consideration it’s definitely her.

u/Altruistic-Two-8656 2d ago

Me too. Dolly will always be my southern girlfriend I never knew.

u/Both_Potential_2859 5d ago

All I know is the wrong 80 year old with big, fake hair and breasts passed away.

u/Disastrous_Fee_8712 5d ago

Educated vs uneducated people.

u/FelesNoctis 5d ago

Always was and always will be the queen. She's a precious soul.

u/icansmellcolors 5d ago

I'm from Texas. I've been trying to tell people that there are tons of very kind, welcoming, and understanding open-minded people in the south...

One of the problems is media, movies, tv, etc. People are just very comfy stereotyping everyone from and/or who lives in certain states.

https://www.splcenter.org/hate-map/

Look at the Southern Poverty Law Center's Hate map, they get paid to research this stuff and track it.

On the right is a Filter... filter by KKK, White Supremacist, Racist Skinhead, etc. and you will be surprised where the concentration is.

Racists travel... just like normal people. It's not the south... it's everywhere. You just think it's mostly the south because you've been told that your whole life in one way or another.

u/KCChiefsGirl89 1d ago

Also currently living in Texas. Near Frisco. You’re not wrong….but it does seem to be worse here. Maybe just my immediate area but there’s HUGE anti-Indian and anti-Muslim sentiment brewing here right now.

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u/Dawson__16 5d ago

The death of Dolly Parton really shows that some people will find ways to politize the deaths of people they like as much as the one's they don't like.

u/shelllee888 5d ago

There are two types of christians in today's america. Dolly christians and donald christians. Be a Dolly in a world of donalds.

u/Grand_Taste_8737 5d ago

So, like most southern Christian people.

u/Teh_Succ 5d ago

Lol. Lmao even

u/Grand_Taste_8737 5d ago

Never forget, Reddit doesn't represent reality.

u/UncleCoyote 5d ago

Ever been to Tennessee? (Sorry if yes, because it's Tennessee :P)

They agree on nothing. Right/left red/blue etc, etc. They fight about EVERYTHING. The one thing that everyone, in Tennessee can agree on? (Besides 'Mountain Dew makes a GREAT toothpaste ya'll) is:

DOLLY IS OFFLIMITS.

I don't care who you are in Tennessee, what you do or believe, it's an underwritten law, that Dolly is untouchable and a fucking angel.

Which is why for all my mocking, I respect the hell out of Tennessee. (on this issue, and this issue alone. Ya'll need an exorcist)

u/duganaokthe5th 5d ago

A human right doesn’t require the labor of others. Human rights are negative rights by definition.

That means it’s not up to others to supply them, it’s up to others not to violate them.

u/HungryHippo669 5d ago

Rare one of a kind! She will be deeply missed 🙏❤️❤️🌹🌹

u/MeanFoggyHippo 5d ago

She knew the skin she was in. She owned her identity. That is what I loved about her. Such a kind soul that is rarely found these days, but someone who inhabited every corner of it.

u/Lemortheureux 5d ago

Dolly showed what Christianity should be all about.

u/June-10th-2026 5d ago

She was one of a kind, wasn't she?

Rest in peace, Dolly.

u/Teenytiny9294 5d ago

The fact that she was unable to have children herself and still decided to put all her love out into the world is everything. She really just wanted everyone to live their best lives no matter who you are. Absolute queen shit.

u/One-WaytoLife336 5d ago

God be with her. Christ and his teaches encompass that human rights are for everyone.

u/Unwisepony 5d ago

God i miss her so much

u/ThoughtsandThinkers 5d ago

She appealed to the left because of her humility and humanity. She cared about people, even if they were different from her, and wanted them to have a fair chance at life. She understood and appreciated the role of systemic factors like racism, poverty, and literacy

She appealed to the right because she valued tradition and acted personally more than politically. She was unapologetically American and from the South and celebrated her heritage. She gave tirelessly but as an individual rather than emphasizing political action

Lots of people I know on the political right strongly prize individual autonomy and freedom. They chafe against and are very skeptical / cynicism regarding organized political action. They may be very generous and charitable personally but think that government and special interests end up serving their own masters rather than the public good

u/kangorooz99 5d ago edited 5d ago

“Skeptical regarding political action”

Do they say this while wearing their red hats, gold sneakers, and trump buttons?

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u/Shaggai 5d ago

Country was often about rebellion, Cash and Nelson are great mainstream examples of this. Only recently has it become a bootlicking contest. Dolly never left the path of being human and going against the grain..

u/Flashy_Emergency_263 5d ago

The Outlaws were very rebellious.

u/Papichuloft 5d ago

And her Walk of Fame vandalized by some AH MAGA but too

u/WeaknessSimilar0919 5d ago

Be Like Dolly!! 💫

u/Fun-Leadership-3887 4d ago

She grew up knowing that you should never judge a book by its cover it’s what’s inside that matters

u/Cawstoneon 4d ago

You might argue Christian’s are supposed to uphold those things…

u/Robw_1973 4d ago

Queen, indeed.

u/tunchiafterdark 4d ago

So sad she’s a legend

u/Mr_Wolfiepup 3d ago

Such a beautiful soul. The world is less bright without her light in it

u/lone_float 3d ago

Woman was a saint in every sense of the word.

u/unaccountablemod 5d ago

That's right. Not any particular group rights, just human rights.

u/syopest 5d ago

Yup, human rights like access to healthcare which includes things like transitioning for trans people.

u/SageElva 5d ago

Yup! And I'm sure you can agree, as Dolly did, that some groups in the USA are marginalized. Some minority groups need protections against people who are still unfortunately racist and sexist (like unequal wages between men and women). So let's focus all together on getting equal rights for everyone.

u/cosmic-jackelope 5d ago

#this ☝️☝️☝️

u/crimsonnjade 5d ago

It's really not hard to have basic human decency. Thanks for being an awesome human, Dolly.

u/Redtex 5d ago

Dolly was the real life grown-up version of Billy May clampett

u/Moo_Moo_Mr_Cow 5d ago

Also rich. She was fabulously wealthy, could have been even MORE fabulously wealthy, and chose to not be, and use her money to help people. It IS possible to be rich and not an asshole.

u/SaxPanther 5d ago

Is there something about rhinestones that makes the average person racist?

u/KCChiefsGirl89 1d ago

Not causation, but there’s a WHOLE lot of correlation happening there.

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u/urson_black Grumpy old fart 5d ago

My new motto is "WWDD?" What would Dolly Do?

u/Most_Ad7837 5d ago

Amen. The world surely would be a better place if there were more Dolly’s in it.

u/ProllyJustAnotherBot 5d ago

One of the very few ACTUALLY trying to make America great again.

RIP

u/Roastnebrie 5d ago

Dolly built an impenetrable armor of love, acceptance, kindness, humor, tenacity, and generosity. Those qualities are what made her so universally beloved.

Imagine if our world leaders and billionaires understood that these qualities aren't signs of weakness but sources of extraordinary strength, protection, and admiration. They could make a person nearly invincible.

u/duncanmarshall 5d ago

Yeah, it was never a culture war. It was just that some people are cunts.

u/After-Giraffe3206 5d ago

Most "human rights" were codified by Christians, and a lot of them were blondes. It isnt brave to support human rights when you're really just demanding that people treat you better

u/zjz 5d ago

weird fucking caption ngl

u/47special 5d ago

The only reason MAGA likes her is because she's a country singer. If she was a pop or rock singer, they'd despise her.

u/justaheatattack 5d ago

as long as you don't make a big deal about it.....

u/koassde 5d ago

how odd, americans call em "Rhinestones" while people living along the Rhine (Rhein) in Germany call em Strass.

u/AmberKurland-98 5d ago

An absolute legend! Rest In Peace

u/jwashchuk 5d ago

And if she grew up Muslim she wouldn't have had a chance to write a single song

u/scatpig25 5d ago

Rest up my love! I am a massive fan, both before and ALWAYS. Don't let that orange monster sully your good name! Love you hunny!

u/No_Tricky_Spells 5d ago

European here. How is she viewed by maga types?

u/AntFast2671 5d ago

Non maga here…..
Who gives a F?

u/No_Tricky_Spells 5d ago

I was just curious, because there's a bit of a dichotomy going on.

Like, did maga turn a blind eye because of her racial and social upbringing or was she disregarded because of her stance on modern-day social issues?

It's not the sort of thing you can google, hence asking real Americans via Reddit.

u/Inner_Adeptness_7228 5d ago

She's hated by the Far-right MAGAs for supporting and funding the "autism-causing" Covid vaccines. Is Europe open to taking american asylum seekers?

u/No_Tricky_Spells 5d ago

You're more than welcome, many thanks.

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u/bolanrox 5d ago

they love her music and the fact she gives a shit, but they hate she gives a shit about people they dont like

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u/Intrepid_Block_11b 5d ago

She was an outlier

u/cyrusthemarginal 5d ago

we lost a lot

u/Cuiusquemodi 5d ago

How racist.

u/totallyclips 5d ago

In that and many other senses she was 1-1000000

u/legit-a-mate 5d ago

Why wouldn't I be able to respect human rights if I was southern, Christian, blonde, liked rhinestones, and quit guitar lessons early?

u/Fragrant_Most9193 5d ago

Agreed...and I still haven't gotten over her passing

u/HolyFlyingNuns 5d ago

It saddens me when we lose people who do extraordinary good things, simply for the betterment of others. She was a diamond in the rough, and shined brightly with class.

u/whatswithnames 5d ago

A rare role model this earth will miss. Already do.

u/Jadey-R- 5d ago

Absolutely!!!!!!!

u/082426grateful 5d ago

One of the best lessons I learned from my southern upbringing and life, is to treat others with kindness first. As you’d like to be treated. Stuck with me.

I don’t understand where and when that valuable lesson was lost in America.

u/htownbob 5d ago

Before Rush Limbaugh poisoned the minds of most conservatives southern folks this was not controversial….

u/kangorooz99 5d ago

Jim Crow has entered the chat….

u/CosmicCountryBoy 5d ago

Perfectly said.

u/Dependent_Put76 5d ago

jarvis I need some karma

u/Dependent_Put76 5d ago

damn that mod really wanted free karma

u/Saramela 5d ago

I’m still trying to figure out how to play a guitar with nails…

I have a long way to go, but she set the bar high.

u/narco-sub-admiral know me, broken by my master 5d ago

She was an excellent human from what im learning. Wish I had realized that while she was alive, I didn't know much about her.

u/Potential_Bee4774 4d ago

Dolly was a role model for everyone to follow. She was loved by all Americans and the world!

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u/toolsoftheincomptnt 5d ago

And RICH!

All of the makings of a judgmental bigot, but she was the complete opposite.

u/Mysterious_Scale5979 4d ago

She was truly one of a kind. I miss her so much already :(

u/BodhingJay 4d ago

Does the right say she was a radical leftist too?

u/Potential_Bee4774 4d ago

No! Dolly was Dolly! Everyone loved Dolly.

u/Important-West196 4d ago

right country doesn’t always mean maga and right side … i’m country and im liberal as heck. however my brother is not… he’s a republican cowboy

u/KeiraAnna 4d ago

Fun fact: She's actually naturally brunette

u/Janus-DiuomDeo 4d ago

The exception, not the rule.

u/so_unfortunately_yt 4d ago

The only kind of Christian I will accept. All the others can go scratch

u/milkshakev 4d ago

Damn

u/Extension-Stage-605 4d ago

I havent seen many conservatives talking about her death the way they did when charlie kirk died. Charlie Kirk never gave away millions of book to children.

u/RollingDixie 4d ago

Everything about her was traditional southern values of family christ and goodwill towards others now the modern southerner is loud rude and fat

u/TrixieRabbitses 4d ago

Yassssssss Queen 👸

u/FlyOnTheWall4637 4d ago

💯 accurate! 💖

u/Spiritual-Minimum239 4d ago edited 4d ago

yes. She's done so much for the world. I was saddened to see some people still tried to taint her legacy because she wasn't vocal enough about this or that issue.

u/fit-toker 4d ago

Everyone is tainting her legacy by taking a non political person and interjecting their political beliefs in her memorials. She’s also not been relevant for basically my entire life, I’m 37, dolly is old country and big tits, nothing more nothing less but may she rest in peace either way.

u/Born_Cap244 4d ago

She was fabulous fantabulous and fantastic. It was her conviction to keep her political opinions to herself. I don't think she ever talked politics on camera.

u/Born_Cap244 4d ago

Live and let live is a good motto to go by. Until someone is doing something they know offends you. Because they know it's displeasing to you.

u/Born_Cap244 4d ago

I think if you have been at the bottom you can more easily find understanding and compassion for others in that situation.

u/g00d_f3lla 4d ago

When did those things ever means anything else?

u/WhiskerMcDingleBerry 4d ago

Dolly wasn’t Christian.
She had an extremely scued view of religion but not anywhere near Christianity.

u/nikeguy69 3d ago

🙏🏾 RIP

u/fufraskin 3d ago

I dont know dolly parton at all. I know she was an okay actor. I know she was a decent songwriter. I liked "Jolene." And I know she was very, very rich. But thats it. Was she a good person? Was she generous? Was she political? If you are a billionaire and you give away a few million, are you generous? Please feel free to fill me in about Dolly's qualities. She was reasonably attractive and talented I guess. Tell me more.

u/WizeWizardFrank 3d ago

Half of the southern United States tries very hard to be like her every day. The other half, though; if they could read, would be VERY upset with this. Glad they can’t read.

u/coolname187 2d ago

And Republicans did everything they could to stop her, and then desecrated her corpse after she died by acting like they were on her side

u/AidenTaxEvadin 2d ago

People don’t talk about the symbolism that even dolly was apart of 😢

u/Open-Exchange4422 2d ago

Will truly be missed

u/TrainEmbarrassed4875 2d ago

Incredible human!!!

u/hammlanc 2d ago

As an atheist Northerner who is not much of a country music fan, I say “God bless Dolly.” People like her have me wanting to believe in angels.

u/18wheelingnuckles 2d ago

Yeah, be a Dolly. She never made her politics known or hated anyone for theirs. Unlike the majority of reddit

u/Feychilde 1d ago

💖🙏💖🙌

u/Kindone68 1d ago

Listen up Maga

u/Old_Barnacle7777 9h ago

Dolly is likely having great conversations with Jimmy and Roslyn Carter now. I think they had similar understandings of what it truly meant to be faithful Christians.

u/clown_utopia 9h ago

Unfortunately she was not vegan