r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 12 '26

Meta Breaking Rule 3 Will Now Result in Permanent Ban.

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We still have people violating Rule 3, despite there's literally being a pinned AutoMod comment warning against it, and it being a rule plastered almost everywhere within the subreddit. The rule is there for a reason, it's non-negotiable. I cannot make this any clearer:

So from now on, if you break this rule you will receive a permanent ban immediately to encourage you to have to message the ModMail and acknowledge that you understand that you violated this rule, and not to do it again. Once that's acknowledged, you will be unbanned but will already have one warning. If you don't inquire about it, cool, you'll stay banned. If you also do it again, you will be permanently banned again, and it won't be repealed, you will also be muted.


r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 03 '24

Meta Just To Clarify:

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This is not a meme subreddit.

Lately, almost every other post has been "Off-Topic or Irrelevant" relating to the submission guidelines, and not within standard as what actually qualifies (as an example) of "Not How Girls Work".

Q: "What is "Not How Girls Work?":

A: ""Not How Girls Work" is when people make sweeping generalisations about "all women", _or make any baseless assumptions or conclusions about a specific woman based off of their misguided assumptions of "all women_".

This does not include low-effort memes, "Bad Women's Anatomy", or clips of podcasts/posts from "Manosphere" public figures."

This platform is slowing being derailed into posts consisting of any random meme that remotely mentions a girl or woman, or screenshots of Twitter posts from Red-Pill Manosphere public figures who purposely grift and make money using those talking points. People are also trying to pass off completely irrelevant posts as submission, thinking if they just mask it by putting "That's not how [insert topic] works" in the title, it will be valid— That's not how this subreddit works (no pun intended). You can't force posts to fit if they don't.

Please read the subreddit description.

If you have to put "Not sure if this belongs here" in the title, it probably doesn't. Please read the subreddit rules and the subreddit description first, then clarify with the moderators if you are still unsure.

I understand this is a large subreddit, therefore the temptation and karma-count is there to post any and everything, but the subreddit will start cracking down on users who continuously post completely "off-topic" content after warnings.

Anybody who is suspected of being a karma-farmer or a bot/novelty account will immediately be permanent banned, you're not going to "eat" off of this sub.

Thank you!


r/NotHowGirlsWork 4h ago

Found On Social media Dude thinks that humor is determined by your gender

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Basically he had said that he found something funny, but he’s a man. Someone asked what him being a man has to do with it. Then the conversation seen in the screenshot took place.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 5h ago

Offensive Why do men still judge women's body counts in 2026?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 1h ago

WTF Russian women are submissive

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Today, we are apparently not shoes, or cars, or locks, but rather... Balls.

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Forgot to remove the name so reposted.

Also, the classic of "Bo baggage" at 20. Yeah right, because childhood trauma does not exist...


r/NotHowGirlsWork 21h ago

Found On Social media Money isn’t everything

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You can’t bribe people to stay with you. That’s not “love” that’s entitlement.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 10h ago

Found On Social media "Some women masturbate before going out to parties." Really now?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 21h ago

Cringe Her first red flag was going out with him. Seems like she ended it, based on him being bitter enough to start posting on incel boards…

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A woman left me, ergo, all women are evil!


r/NotHowGirlsWork 17h ago

Found On Social media I have no words..

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bruhh gamers are so tone deaf... 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻


r/NotHowGirlsWork 23h ago

Found On Social media I can’t believe it. We found “Chad”

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

WTF Isn't weird when they can't even talk with a woman without thinking of this?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Cringe can they stop sexualize everything a woman do?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

WTF Asked my father why he never goes to parent teacher conferences and he said it's because last time he went the teacher had hairy legs and it traumatized him

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He described her leg hair as "very light blonde but at least two inches long and curly". GIRLS THE TALES ARE TRUE THE LEG HAIR WARDS OFF PREDATORS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

He did also say her boobs were "behind the desk" (as in saggy, oh how traumatic)


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media "romance media for men are more realistic than the ones written for women"

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tf these men.. 🤦🤦


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Cringe At least he responded…

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Offensive … does he think we chose our boob size?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media A woman's legs can tell how her is...

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Found On Social media Found on another Subreddit - this is so cringe

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What's wrong with a woman from a CIS country wanting an iPhone? Why would women from NATO/EU countries want a short guy? Cringe here is even an understatement

Edit: quite a few have been asking what CIS countries are. It's the Commonwealth of Independent States - a defined list of former Soviet countries. Russia, Kazakhstan, Belarus and a few others. It has NOTHING to do with "cis vs. trans".

Secondly, quite a few people in the comments have been asking "what does this mean". I'll provide my understanding of this. I can't read the mind of the guy who made it, but I'll take a shot

TLDR based on my understanding...

  • The former Soviet state woman, who looks average, has a high barrier of entry - if a man wants to date her, he better be tall, she'll expect him to buy her an iPhone, pay her bills, etc.
  • The "hotter" Western woman, who looks like she'd be "out of a man's league", is low maintenance - she'll accept a short guy, go 50/50 on dates, etc.

So it's telling guys that they're better off with women of Western countries who "look hot", because they'll happily take an average guy and not expect too much from him.

Obviously the infographic is super cringe, as there's no way this categorizes women.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Found On Social media "We refuse to settle" smh

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Cringe Because kink content is definitely the way to get us to reply to cold DMs, right?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

WTF “I am also a woman!”

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I really think the votes on this were skewed. The OP posted it on some sub that reddit suggested to me. They also swore up in down in other comments that they didn’t know it was Lindsay Clancy in the first photo, but then went on to defend their post in other comments, like in the photos. The only reason I’m only posting this comment thread, is because of their “I am also a woman,” response. Like, yes, different women will have different views on different issues, especially based off different experiences, but that doesn’t mean you drag a woman that did something unthinkable while undergoing a severe mental health crisis


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media Men just need to throw their misogyny even at the celestial bodies 🙃

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

WTF Not how feminism or women's rights work

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Why is the baby in image 1 black?

Is black=bad?


r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Found On Social media Why the hell should ladies give money to an already rich person?

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Incel slop found on Threads.