Find it hard to talk to family

[u/NervesXcX]

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Ever since it came out about what happened I find it really hard to talk to family because of the pitty I can sense from them. My dad sa'd/raped me for 3 years when I was 13-16 and because no one noticed or cared to notice i feel even more resentment towards a lot of my family. Its been about 2 years since it all came out and now if I talk to my aunts or uncles or any senior member of the family I get this sense of pity. Like they almost talk in a certain tone as not to upset me. It pisses me off and just want people to talk normally to me. Ive even addressed it and they basically say they dont know what im on about.

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[u/Cute_Elk_2428]

It can be very annoying when people get awkward around you. I think you have done the only thing that you can do which is to address it.

[u/ThrowawayTaumaPixie]

Exactly! I know that tone anywhere. Its the one that makes you feel like a hurt baby bunny that they have to take care of but might also explode. It's so annoying.