How did you control your lust in your relationship

[u/Suspicious_Log3818]

Hello everyone, I am a 20M, and I have never dated before, but I wanted to explore being in a relationship. However, for all the men who are into religious practice and control their senses from sex, how did you establish that in the beginning and during the duration of your relationship before you. In the Bhagavad Gita, it is said that committing unrestricted sex will capture you in the shackles of sex and continue to drain your soul on a very evil path. To give you some background info about me, I'm a very ambitious person and hard-working person who is trying to live his dream reality, and I've always stayed away from the idea of being in a relationship due to the strict dedication towards it, but I want to see if I can do it. I pray every day, read the Gita, and practice living with Bhagwan consciousness, and continuing to implement the Gita knowledge in my life, but these recent few weeks I have been very lustful and desiring sex, which I really hate.
How do you guys control your senses with Bhagwan consciousness and control your sexual tendencies in relationships?