r/GetOutOfBed • u/deeepfiction • 11h ago
30 days of waking up at the same minute as a group of strangers. (Built my own wake-up group)
Alarmy worked on me for about a year. Also tried Wayk, PushClock etc. Didn't want to pay for an alarm app. I think my brain learned how to trick each of the alarm missions.
I remember the good old days when I had a goal, a person I planned to do things with, a life purpose. Now I live alone and start working around 10 AM. So no one to wake up with.
First I started pestering my friends incessantly to build a wake-up group like the 5 AM Club. It started so well, it worked for 4-5 days. Then one by one everybody quit. Then I found an accountability partner here but she stopped calling me after a couple of days.
I've been working as a senior developer for 7 years. So we built the thing I wanted (no AI slop, no bullshit copy of other apps, real value) and I've been waking up with it for 30 days. Two parts.
Missions. I put in 15 different real missions. (No bullshit that you complete and go back to sleep.) My favorite is the get-away-from-bed one.
Very simple yet effective as hell: get out of bed, move a set distance away (you can preview it here), stand there holding the phone for two minutes. If you put it down it rings again. Two minutes standing in the kitchen at 6am is enough, I'm awake.
There are other missions of course, it's the new standard of alarm apps now: push-ups, squats, brushing your teeth (it actually listens to check you're really brushing), a photo of a specific object. All of them want proof you left the bed. The difference: our app doesn't charge you for any of them. Free forever.
The best part: other people. Your alarm goes off at the same moment as everyone else's in the group and everyone has to prove they got up, live, in a 15 minute chat. It feels like waking up in hunter-gatherer times for me, collectively.
You can join a global group or a local one. Or create your own with your friends, or with strangers from the app.
You can follow people and set their wake-up method (imagine waking your friend with 30 push-ups). Believe me, you don't want to disappoint a stranger at 6am. Turns out that's the only thing that works on me.
No AI in it, no chatbot, nothing calling an API. Most of the 6 months went into making the alarm ring when the app is force-quit, the phone is on silent or the volume is down. An alarm that doesn't ring is worse than no alarm.
A challenge you: if you find a way to snooze, dismiss or turn it off by any method except deleting the app during the alarm, I will remove it from the App Store and never publish it again.
It's called Alarm Mate, iOS, in App Store review. Missions and groups are free, forever. No App Store link yet.
Waitlist: https://alarmmate.app
Or join the beta and start using it for free right now: https://testflight.apple.com/join/KwhMXnP9