r/Femdom Dec 28 '24

***RULES POST*** Rule change for content creators - No approval needed anymore, however PLEASE MAKE SURE to read the this sticky in FULL before posting. NSFW

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We are changing our rules regarding content sellers/creators.

From now on, approval won't be needed anymore. However to combat spam and scammers, we are dropping redgifs (99% of the trouble we have with content posts are due to redgifs, for example people spamming their redgifs content to 20 subreddits without taking even a look into it).

Due to that we have had to check every single post manually which has been extremely laborous and slow work, we also have had to manually go through every account before approval which is not fast and as we're getting them in two digit numbers at some days, it's not sustainable.

So, to combat this we're trying something different, redgifs is not allowed anymore. Instead, use imaglr.com when posting. That takes away 99% of the content related scammers and spammers.

Please note that despite this we do enforce the rules to the letter, make sure you have read them and understood them before posting

Thank you!


r/Femdom Aug 01 '26

This is NOT a personals subreddit. Here are various options for those looking ** UPDATED ** NSFW

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This is from old post I decided to bring back due to such posts being on the rise again. Information in it should be pretty accurate to date. I will be updating it in the future if / when need be.


This is pretty much the most common post type we have to take action against, tons of people are looking for someone and as we do not allow personals in this subreddit so I've been thinking of making a post to help out those looking.

Websites:

  • WeHeartBDSM is a new on this list that should be mentioned here as well. Website started due to ridiculous amounts of scammers and spammers in nowadays bdsmpersonals. Developed by us (BdsmPersonals mods). Focusing on keeping the spam, fakes and scammers out

  • Fetlife is always worth taking a look. It's the biggest adult fetish network in the world (hands down), however do keep in mind that it is not a dating site. You will not have proper search tools and it can be a frustrating experience if you're not into local munches and meets. There are some fakes and scammers as well, but they do work on it to keep it as clean as possible

  • CollarSpace is what's left of CollarMe. (Owners of collarMe had falling out, another one went their way and started up CollarSpace) The site is pretty much unmanaged nowadays, when registrations are allowed (currently registrations have been closed down for at least 6 months) profiles have to be approved and approvals take weeks / months at worst, interface is around 20 years old (no joke) and half of it is nonfunctional. Messages get commas, line changes, dots and other various characters removed. On top of that it has serious reliability issues. However if you do have an old account over there, it still works ..somewhat

  • UPDATE 11th Dec 2021 Lots of reports Alt.com being full of scammers nowadays Not recommended anymore and removed from the list

Reddit:

Reddit has certain subreddits which focuse into personals. However as Reddit is not moderated the way websites are, please do remember:

  • Asking for your money / tribute for just random online domination is 99% Scam
  • Asking for your personal details etc immediately. NEVER give them, these are blackmail based scammers and this scam seems to be huge at the moment.
  • In general if it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. As an example: You're a submissive male and that perfect Mistress simply comes to ask you to submit making the first contact randomly? Such posts are getting removed by the dozens every day in our subreddit, these are 100% scams.

Now, those subreddits:

  • /r/femdompersonals is the biggest femdom based personals subreddit. However, please be cautious with the points made above
  • /r/BDSMpersonals biggest BDSM personals in reddit. Moderated and well built structure for rules and amount of scammers and spammers is dramatically down after we have started to use external website in part of the posting process. However do remember that any response you get can still be scammer (especially on messages in reddit)

I will be updating this list as time goes on if needed. If you feel like I missed something which should be here, please do contact me directly and let's look into it. Do NOT add a link as an advertisement to comments. Thank you!

** Edited and reposted (thanks to reddit now hiding stickies in certain cases) - 26th March 2023.

*** Edit, info about scams - 24th August 2023

**** Reposting since such posts are again on the rise - 29 October 2023

***** Another reminder 10th May 2024

****** Updated and reposted 1st August 2026


r/Femdom 1d ago

Chastity He came in the cage like a good boy...can you do that too? NSFW

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r/Femdom 14h ago

Strap-on Hold your leg wide open, honey. I will slide it in and out. The HD picture is attached. NSFW

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r/Femdom 1d ago

Chastity Innocent play with his cage, after which he starts leaking. 🤭 NSFW

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r/Femdom 21h ago

Community Question What happened to Madame Marissa? NSFW

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Does anyone here have any information about what happened to Madame Marissa?

She was a german femdom clip producer focussed on facesitting and feet and suddenly stopped posting new clips at the end of 2025 / beginning of 2026.

Now, her clip stores are offline, her website https://www.madamemarissa.com is offline, and the same with her X account.

Has anyone heard anything?


r/Femdom 1d ago

Couples Femdom I laugh as I melt my sissified submissive mind. You couldn’t possible fathom the satisfaction he has of being under my heel and serving his mistress with pure devotion. The play this sissy slut gets, you could only dream of. 💦👠 NSFW

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r/Femdom 1d ago

Gentle Femdom Sweet breakfast NSFW

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What is more beautiful than waking up and finding your sweet pet doing all his chores naked, only with a plug tail and with his collar on? Breakfast done and the house clean, he's ready to take his place on all fours and eat my pussy as I take my delicious breakfast 🥞

How can we make it better? Any ideas?


r/Femdom 2d ago

Community Question Is this the rarest fetish? NSFW

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For quiet some time I have developed a crazy attraction to female hands.
Especially, thin hands with long fingers and white nails.
It sometimes surprises me how I am so drawn to it.
I would sometimes give up unlock time for a few minutes of palm worship.

Am I weird?
If possible female answers please


r/Femdom 3d ago

Femdom Happy Weekend NSFW

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r/Femdom 2d ago

Couples Femdom Why would I ever unlock you now? NSFW

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r/Femdom 3d ago

Chastity Dressed like a girl, filled like a toy and anchored to his Keyholder. He doesn’t move a muscle without my permission. Should I start bouncing him or leave him frozen like this?😈 NSFW

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r/Femdom 4d ago

Chastity Showing this bitch who really is in charge here NSFW

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r/Femdom 4d ago

Verbal Humiliation/Femdom My gf humiliates me for liking men NSFW

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Translation:
Hi! I’m a 25-year-old secretly bisexual guy who’s very passive and submissive. I have a girlfriend the same age who is the only one who knows about my orientation and preferences, and we practice a lot of sexual humiliation.
Lately the fantasy of her exposing my sexual orientation drives me crazy. She knows this, so the other day while having a drink with her and three friends she had just met, she casually said in the conversation (I think we were talking about my appearance) that I was a good faggot and invert. It was strange because she said it in such a way that it seemed natural and integrated into the conversation—her friends didn’t pay any more attention to it, but I felt a huge amount of excitement, and when we got home we had one of our best sessions. She put me naked on my knees, blindfolded me, started painting insults on my body, and edged me while calling me a faggot and asking me if I liked that everyone knew about it.


r/Femdom 5d ago

Couples Femdom Milking is better for you, honey. No drop in energy, mood, or desire to please me. The HD picture is attached. NSFW

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r/Femdom 5d ago

Chastity He locked himself in, dressed me up and is driving me straight to another man💅 Would you be a good chauffeur for me too? NSFW

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r/Femdom 5d ago

Face Sitting Keep licking. The HD picture is attached. NSFW

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r/Femdom 6d ago

Sissy Femdom One of my favorite ways to have sex with my locked up slave🤭 NSFW

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r/Femdom 6d ago

Femdom while I'm inside...your ass is MINE! 😈 NSFW

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r/Femdom 7d ago

Femdom Femdom NSFW

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Right me and the wife were talking and she said about menstrual cramps and how us men don't have a clue how they feel and I happened to say the closest we can get is if she were to smack my balls with a wooden spoon at random times as cramps come and go randomly....she now thinks this is a great idea and is planning to give this a go in a few days as this will be during her time of the month...I'm dreading it! I am great with dealing with spiked chastity and cock rings but ball smacks is a different thing completely...I think this will be the start of her being in control (I welcome this happily) can't wait to start being her bitch again 😋


r/Femdom 7d ago

Strap-on The harpoon is in the hole, Captain! The HD picture is attached. NSFW

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r/Femdom 8d ago

Chastity Controlled and ruined NSFW

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r/Femdom 7d ago

Couples Femdom Make your legs into stirrups I can use to pound your ass NSFW

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r/Femdom 7d ago

Gentle Femdom My slave has arrived NSFW

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r/Femdom 7d ago

Pychological Femdom Part III: The release NSFW

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J unbuttoned his jacket and dropped it onto the desk chair. He went down on his knees on the stiff carpet, his thighs shaking after holding his posture through the pitch deck and the elevator ride.

The phone on the desk buzzed twice, screen lighting up blue.

VIDEO CALL: MISS MASHA

He slid his thumb across the glass. Her face showed up in the frame, lit from the side by a lamp off-camera. She looked unhurried, squinting slightly into her own screen.

"Set it against the lamp," she said. The voice came through the small phone speaker flat and quiet, with no room acoustics. "Angle the camera down. Step back."

He wedged the phone against the brass base, tilted it, and took four steps back until he stood under the overhead bulb in the center of the room.

"Take off the rest. All of it."

His hands fumbled with the waist button. He unzipped, kicked his shoes clear, and let his pants and briefs drop around his ankles. He stood bare under the light, his skin flushed, breathing through his mouth.

"Look at the camera," she said. "Reach back and take it out."

J clenched his jaw, reached behind his leg, and found the silicone base. He pulled. It came free with a sharp suction that made his stomach drop. A cold sweat broke across his chest. His knees dipped as he caught his balance.

"Hold it up."

He held the wet shape three inches from the lens.

"Put it on the desk. Get on your knees. Touch yourself."

He dropped back down to the carpet, legs spread. He gripped himself and started to stroke, his posture awkward, bent forward toward the screen.

"Louder," her voice said from the desk. "Stop trying to quiet it down."

He stopped holding his breath back. Rough, heavy rasps hit the drywall. He stared at her face on the glass while his thumb moved against his skin, his legs tight as he hit the edge.

"I'm close," he choked out, his shoulders hunched. "Miss Masha, please..."

"Hands on your head." Her voice did not change tone.

J stopped instantly. "What?"

"Interlock your fingers on top of your head. Right now."

He pulled his hand away and laced his fingers over his hair. The sudden stop left a sharp ache across his lower belly. He sat back on his heels, shaking, trapped right at the brink.

Miss Masha leaned in closer to her camera.

"You thought this was a transaction," she said. "You thought if you performed on camera, I would let you finish."

He stared at the screen, unable to swallow.

"Pick up the plug. Put it back in. On camera."

His hands dropped. He picked up the firm silicone, put one hand on the desk edge to steady himself, and pushed it back in. A choked groan scraped out of his chest as the shape settled deep into his pelvis again.

He fell onto his side on the carpet, gasping.

"Ten minutes," she said through the speaker. "Don't move. Don't touch yourself. Just feel it."

The screen stayed lit. At the top of the video frame, the clock read 9:48.

J lay with his knees drawn up, his cheek on the stiff wool weave. Every second dragged out in a dull press in his hips. Sweat dried cold on his ribs. He kept his hands flat on the floor and stared at her face in the blue light.

She didn't speak or adjust her camera. She sat back in her chair, watching his chest move, taking in the small twitch in his thigh whenever he shifted off his hip bone.

At 9:58, her shape moved on the screen as she leaned toward the lens.

J's heart hit his ribs. He pushed up onto his palms, breathing fast, heat coming back into his face. Ten minutes. He had stayed still. He had taken it.

"Miss Masha," he said, his voice dry as paper. "Please."

He looked into the lens, waiting for the word that would let him reach down and finish.

Miss Masha looked back through the screen. A small smile showed at the corner of her mouth.

"You actually thought you were getting off," she said.

His stomach went cold and empty.

"Next time, fucker."

The screen cut to black.

The double-beep of the ended call sounded in the quiet room. J stayed on his knees in the dark, the plug tight inside him, staring at the dead glass.

A second later, the phone buzzed once against the blotter. The screen lit up with a text notification.

MISS MASHA: Sleep with it in. You can take it out at 7:00 AM before you meet Greg. Not a minute before.

J stared at the text until the blue light timed out and went black. He pushed himself off the floor, dragged his body onto the bed, and lay on his side under the stiff white sheet, feeling every hard shift of the silicone against his hips as he settled in to wait for morning.