This morning, I came back to my home after witnessing a drama.

My father's friend (let's call him M) son turned 19 on 5th September. They booked a villa in a city and invited us for the celebration. We are very close so we were invited. So this uncle's relative, his paternal cousin, let's call him P (Chacha ka beta/uncle's son), are our neighbors, and they were too invited.

(M & P are cousins)

My family doesn't talk with P's family because his family has a bad reputation in general. Like, P is 55 year old guy who works in some PSU and is always posted in some remote area. P's wife is a housewife who works in some NGO. P has two daughters, and both of them are very degenerate and surprising thing is their mother supporting all this.

(P visits home from work for like 2-3 days a year, and he has no control over his own family. His wife is notorious for keeping young, handsome drivers, and she attends many political functions & sits in such a way that it looks like she is almost sitting in the lap of the politicians. Her both daughters, who are 25+, have 50 k+ followers on insta, and both of their profile are literally borderline OF. Out of 100+ posts on their profile, almost 90+ are of them literally dancing in bikini, and each reels have a comment from their mother, praising it. Mother also drinks with both of her daughter's and their male friends)

M's wife hates P's family, but out of emotions, M invited P's family to the party, and only P's wife and his elder daughter made it to the party.

So this elder daughter showed up at a teens birthday party wearing a white bikini type bra, which was tied to her neck with laces or something, and a single string was there at back, a pierced navel. All this with no dupatta.

She was not looking good btw, she is below average looking girl who wasn't getting a role even in short films, so she turned to th!rst traps on insta.

As soon as M saw her, he folded his hands and requested her to leave the party. Then, after a few minutes of heated exchanges, he grabbed her by the hands and threw her out of the villa gate.

Outside the gate, the girl started shouting and literally stayed cursing his young son that he will d!e like a dog because M hated her outfit.

M was about to slap the girl, and then P's wife interfered, and he took her daughter along with her. Both were crying.

The party was ruined. Nonetheless, it was carried on, but everyone was talking about P's wife and daughters,

We came back this morning after roaming around the city yesterday, and we met P's wife.

She was telling my father that M did wrong thing by insulting them and there is nothing wrong in wearing such dresses etc.

My father ignored her.

What do you think?

Was M right in embarrassing the girl for her dress?

This might sound like overthinking, but it has been on my mind for the past few days.

Nothing has happened to me or anyone close to me. But sometimes I get this strange sense of paranoia about the safety of my family and loved ones.

What if something happens to them when I'm not around?

What if someone harms them?

What if I'm there, but the situation is completely out of my control and I can't do anything to protect or save them?

I think, as men, many of us grow up with this subconscious feeling that we are supposed to protect the people we love.

And maybe that's why the thought of being helpless in a situation like that feels particularly scary.

Sometimes I find myself imagining situations that haven't happened and may never happen, and wondering whether I would be able to do anything if they did.

Is this something other men experience too?

Do you ever get these thoughts or fears about the safety of your parents, partner, siblings, or other loved ones?

Or am I just overthinking this a little too much lately?

Today me and my papa were just talking, and he made a joke about "his legacy ending with me" (sarcastically of course). I told him that if I got married I'd keep my last name and he said "yeah but your kids would have the dad's last name na". I told him I could just give the kid my last name (This is all hypothetical btw (I'm not going to get married to a guy--I don't like them like that))

My mom walked in and asked what we were talking about, after we told her, she said "I don't think there's many men who'd let you do that".

I just wanted to know if this is true so I came on here lol.

I keep saying not interested to such posts but that is all there is on Instagram, maybe its a millennial thing. Is snap better

See the reply of this reel in comments 🥀

It can literally be anything (India, school, science, history, movies, food, or just some weird thing you learned once.l

Please don't judge me.

I’ve noticed something about myself and I’m wondering if it’s normal.

When I masturbate every other day, it usually takes me longer to ejaculate, and I have better control. But if I stop masturbating for about a month and then masturbate again, I seem to ejaculate much more easily and it doesn’t take as long.

I’m wondering if the same thing could happen during sex. If I haven’t ejaculated for a long time and then have sex with a girl, could I end up ejaculating very quickly because of the excitement/arousal?

Is this a normal thing? Does having sex regularly help your body adjust and improve control over time, or does it not really work that way?

I’d appreciate hearing from people who have experienced something similar.

To all the bald men of the sub, how do you'll maintain your clean shaven head?
No disrespect I'm just curious. Like i clean shave my beard and it grows back visible enough in a day, I think it must be same for the head as well.
I've decided that if I ever start loosing my hair so much that it develops into a bald patch I'd rather shift to Bald look with just beard.

But I always wondered how do yall maintain that clean bald look? I've seen some men who don the look even with an average looking physique.
Tell your hacks or secret.

Go to any major Indian subreddit and you can notice they will hate this sub for no reason. They claim this sub is toxic , filled with misogyny and etc , but is it actually ? No . This is the only Indian subreddit trying to talk about male issues and the problems they face in their daily life. Yet, people treat the very existence of the sub with hostility—either assuming it’s just a toxic echo chamber or claiming Indian men don't "need" a dedicated space to talk.Its just too much atp.

Why do you think people try so hard to downplay the sub?

Stay away from these kinds of women Men as well as women who work in these fields as well as well as women who takes advices from these ppl.

The first one is a screenshot from a feminist sub whose name I can't tell as per rules, the later ones are screenshots from science -based sub, where professionals from scientific field answer your questions, sorry, it is late night, and I am tired so I was not able to search for exact sources.

The people in the science sub also remarked that medical examinations on women were not conducted, because men considered it cruel to experiment on women until the 1940s, in world-war 2 when healthy male bodies were unavailable for scientific experimentation.

Here's a very accurate way of responding to this absurd 🐂 💩 statement.

1) Factually incorrect! It's privileged women and men that oppressed underprivileged women and men.

2) Isn't it you guys who say, Past Doesn't Matter? So Past matters now? Okay fine.

I am not sure about the right wording for this. But what I am trying to ask is : For men who were in some equation with a woman - where you liked her and enjoyed her presence, but she liked you waayy more, fell for you and invested in you emotionally - but you ended things and walked away, how did you view that woman, how do you walk away?

I am curious because I have seen that men can stick to their choices despite the amount of effort/ love a woman puts in, instead of softening? So I am trying to understand how men decide to be cold/ walk away/ leave the person behind and when they look back maybe- what did that person mean to them?

Has anyone done this? Looking back, what are your thoughts?

EDIT: I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT A CASE WHERE THERE WAS NOTHING ROMANTIC FROM THE GUYS SIDE AND THEY WERE FRIENDS😅 IM TALKING ABT A CASE WHERE BOTH STARTED OFF ROMANTICALLY AND THEN THE GUY SAW SOME CONSTRAINTS THAT NEITHER PERSON COULD HELP

If your aging parents develop medical conditions every now and then, do you keep taking them to hospital and make a mess of your professional career? I have seen some of my friends do it. Do their families accept this setup happily? What are the other ways to deal with it? Edit: How to answer the rest of the family who will have to miss out on vacations etc because parents always need help?

so Hey all , i want to gift my father some gift within 1k range , he is old school guy and he is having some eye issue basically his right eye vision is gone and left eye only 25% vision is there , we normally do Ayurvedic checkup in kerela in every 4 months , but now i feel guilty when i see him not able to watch any movies only listen to audio .

So , suggest me some gifts that i can give to my father as my first gift .

I literally saw a girl whose father dropped her off in a Fortuner, and both of them were carrying the latest iPhones, yet she reportedly paid only ₹29k for the entire academic year.

Honestly, it feels unfair. If the goal is to provide financial support, why not give the same 100% benefit to both eligible boys and girls? Or make it 50% for everyone and provide some form of support to the general category as well.

At least category boys are getting some benefits too, but what about general-category males?

At this point, it feels like the system is going to start paying eligible category girls ₹30k a month just for existing, while charging everyone else more. 💔🥀

I'm not saying girls shouldn't receive financial assistance. I'm saying the benefits should be based more on financial need and circumstances rather than stacking multiple benefits on top of each other for one group.

What I mean household work is cooking, cleaning, child rearing, shopping and making decisions that makes a home a happy one. I have seen time again, even when both the husband and wife are a profession couple working full time outside the home, the majority of household work falls on shoulders of the wife. Isn’t it time, men shared the responsibility equally?

Wherever there is a post about men like

Men getting killed, misandry, any influencer targeting men, fake cases, etc.

You will always see a teen or an NRI saying that's nothing compared to what women have faced and all. Thay will immediately bring DV, women getting killed, opression, etc, either directly or subtly.

What do they all want men should dismiss the problems that they face

Tired of using my hand and want to try new things which is why I am thinking of buying a fleshlight. But I dont know where to buy from as Blinkit doesnt have it. Neither Amazon India.

Any leads are appreciated

My father has a very traditional mindset. For him, a respectable person is someone who leaves home in office clothes at 9 AM, comes back at 6 PM, and gets a stable ₹70-90k salary every month. That’s basically his definition of being successful and settled.

The important part is that my parents have significant assets/properties and surplus money. I’m their only child, and they have clearly told me that these assets will eventually become mine. However, there are conditions: I need to satisfy their expectations regarding studies and getting a respectable job. I’m not asking for or taking their retirement money they are financially secure and this is money/assets they don’t need for themselves.

So honestly, my goal is to find a career path that gives me a respectable qualification and a stable ₹70-90k office job, while also satisfying my parents’ conditions and eventually getting access to the assets they have already agreed to give me.

10th: 82

12th: 95

B Com from a Tier 3 college

And I’ll be very honest: I’m not exceptionally intelligent, but I’m definitely not dumb either. This post might make me sound dumb . I can work hard and be consistent, but studying is not really my area of interest or natural strength. I don’t think I can spend years doing extremely intense academic preparation.

Given my background and personality, what should I realistically do in the future? What exams/career paths would give me a respectable qualification and realistically lead to a ₹70-90k monthly office job?

I’m considering MBA, CFA, etc., but I’m open to other options.

Please give practical advice based on my profile.

Saying she is in love with you..

What's the adult take on it.

Needless to say, he is a player.

Update- Thanks for your comments guys . Got the overall sentiment.

I am a 26-year-old single child whose parents have recently started pushing for marriage. I am fully independent, I can cook, maintain a good lifestyle, and comfortably live on my own, so I do not feel a strong practical need to marry.

However, I occasionally experience loneliness and wish for a partner with whom I can share mutual care, companionship, and open conversations. On the other hand, I worry about modern compatibility challenges, as I sometimes struggle to compromise or see things from another person's perspective.

​Given these mixed feelings, should I consider marriage, or stick to the remaining single? I would love to hear perspectives from men in their 30s.