r/Aroostook • u/Ashamed-Entry-4546 • 5d ago
Public Transport or Vehicle rental-please tell me something besides relying on favors exists
Are there really no public transport or rental options from Madawaska to Houlton or anywhere else? From what I’m finding online, there appears to be nothing. We have been here for 5 years but none of our family is here. My brain is still struggling to accept that there seems to be no option-so then what do people do if their car breaks down and they don’t have family here? It’s a big favor to ask even of a relative (but in a real bind if I had a relative here I’d ask them and pay for gas and dinner)? When I was growing up, in that situation and before moving here you handled it by renting a vehicle as needed or taking public transportation.
We need to get to Houlton for a day, and our vehicle is getting worked on (from last experience it may take 2-3 months as it takes forever to even get looked at). In the past when I have asked about that, people have said things like “ask a neighbor” or a friend, or a relative. What if you aren’t relationally close enough to anyone to dare ask them to drive you 2 hours away, spend most of the day there, then bring you back? That seems like an insane thing to ask of someone who isn’t a close relative? Is there really NO public paid option?
We have been stranded at home for over a month already relying on one person to bring us to grocery store once a week, and I’m extremely uncomfortable with that-no matter how kind it is or how grateful I am for their generosity of time, It’s only because it’s a last resort.
This had happened to us before, and it steals months of our lives because we get the vehicle towed and three weeks later we call and it hasn’t even been looked at. This year being stranded stole summer from our kids. We cannot afford a second vehicle, we are income locked due to disability and the related logistical struggles. We cannot afford to live outside of Aroostook. We escaped unaffordable housing in MA that we had been paying 5x what we pay here-but have now found ourselves with zero public safety net that we could just pay for. Seriously thinking to move to Southern Aroostook so we at least are closer to specialty care and have access to some public transport-but meanwhile, scouring the internet in the hopes that there is some hole-in-the wall small business that doesn’t advertise their rental services but maybe someone knows of from word of mouth. This getting to Houlton to see a place is extremely important to us as it could be pivotal and change our lives, so we could move someplace that would work for our family.
Please tell us what you know as we are feeling completely trapped right now. As much as possible, we 100% prefer paying for a service from a business rather than a favor. It’s just an uncomfortable thing for us, it keep us more anonymous bc we don’t like everyone to know every time we struggle like this as a we already feel judged by circumstances we didn’t choose or control and hate feeling indebted, no matter how nice someone is or how much they say we they don’t expect anything. Any information about an actual business we could actually pay for ourselves (vehicle rental or someone who runs a business getting paid to drive people) would be helpful. We do NOT want to rely on favors-we are protecting our independence and dignity in every way we can. If we could just do this trip there, make an offer and get it accepted, rent a uhaul while the kids are at school, we could live in a place where we won’t ever need a ride from anyone again and be out from under Versant’s crushing bills. Or just empathize. Understand. Because this honestly sucks and we feel alone. That alone would make me feel better.